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  • Is dealing with Iranians good or bad?

    This pertains to Iranians in the U.S. more so that anywhere else. How many times have you heard a family member, friend or just some Iranian man or woman you know say "agha moamele ba Irooni jamaat nabayad kard" or "man taa oonjayee ke mitoonam baa Irooni jamaat kar nemikonam"?

    Last night, at my cousin's home, someone started complaining about his Iranian real estate agent and how she had screwed up everything during the sale of his home. He was barely finished with his story that another guy started complaining about his Iranian tile setter and how he had broken his promise for finishing his kitchen time after time. The recurring theme was do not deal with Iranians.

    The interesting thing was that everyone in that particular dinner party was singing high praises about Mexicans. One lady who was a loan broker was saying she only works with Mexicans because they are the least problem. Another guy who was a personal injury lawyer said the exact same thing; that basically Mexicans are more honest, more generous, more trusting and basically more pleasant people to work with; as clients, customers, contractors etc.

    The stories of the Iranian physician who is a general practice guy in the Valley were the best and funniest. If half of what he was saying is true, I'd hang a sign outside my office which would read "we do not accept Iranian patients".

    My personal experience has been the same except for some really rich Mexicans we came across in an Island called Coronado near San Diego. I guess too much money can spoil anyone.

    As I was trying to sleep last night, I started wondering if this was true of other cultures. Do Mexicans prefer working with Iranians, or do Koreans dislike working with other Koreans.

    My wife thinks that its the same for other cultures because we expect more when we deal with one of our own. I am not sure if I agree with her 100%.

    By M Fateh


    What do YOU think?

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    I think unless you don't know what you are doing you better not deal with them. if you want to deal with them you have to hang out with them for 6 months to see how they do their frauds and than may be if you think you can"deal" with them.

    in my case i got to know siavash shams for 6 years and i still at the end didn't know how messed up he is till i experienced it myself.and since than i have not been in one concert or deal with persians in any kind except internet.

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    • #3
      Originally posted by IQ View Post
      I think unless you don't know what you are doing you better not deal with them. if you want to deal with them you have to hang out with them for 6 months to see how they do their frauds and than may be if you think you can"deal" with them.

      in my case i got to know siavash shams for 6 years and i still at the end didn't know how messed up he is till i experienced it myself.and since than i have not been in one concert or deal with persians in any kind except internet.
      Payam jan,Then you don't talk anymore with Siavash ?!

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      • #4
        dealining with iranian vahshatnake dar bishtare mavarad...ama age tarafet dorost bashe vaghean hamejoore hemayat mishe adam
        Love like you never got hurt
        work like you don't need the money
        Dance like no one is watching


        تا عاقلان راهی برای یکبار خندیدن پیدا کنند دیوانگان هزار بار خندیده اند

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        • #5
          There are two reasons for hate. First is love, and second is racism. Needless to say, the first is better. It explains most of Irani-Irani hate. Iranian culture has the deepest passion, though many can't see it.

          Coming with this deep passion is often a sense of kinship, which produces the deepest and best type of association, that of unconditional trust. This type of association is very common in Iranian youth, and is something to be happy about, teach, and expand upon.
          Last edited by zubin; 06-21-2007, 12:51 AM.
          Take him and cut him out in little stars,
          and he will make the face of heaven so fine,
          that all the world will be in love with night,
          and pay no worship to the garish sun

          - Shakespeare

          "In all intellectual debates, both sides tend to be correct in what they affirm, and wrong in what they deny." - JS Mill

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          • #6
            no way i hate dealing with Iranians it to much headache and foosooly

            we are to warm or garm good and bad at same time


            G-d determines who walks into your life....It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.


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