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Please,Be a Good Person
We must look to our inner feelings and our thoughts. Thinking positive thoughts, trusting those that offer you friendship, and dismissing both anger and hateful feelings, will result in a change from within us. We till think good, thus we will become good. We will do good, thus our entire persona will change. We will trust, instead of distrusting. We will care instead of being uncaring. We will help others in their time of need, instead of sitting back and waiting for someone else to help. We will in essence become a good person.
Steps
Start each day with a plan. Think of what you would like to see and do. Then think of someone who is lonely. Someone who, perhaps lives alone, and has no family. Ask this person to join you, in your plan for the day. Share your time with them, ask them for lunch. This might be the highlight of their week.
Be happy by making others happy.
Offer to pet sit, when you know a friend is going on vacation. If you know a neightbor is sick, ask them if they need groceries, when you go food shopping.
Stop and talk to someone who is lonely, share a cup of coffee and pick up the bill.
Always be kind and never yell. Whatever you say, whenever you say it, do so in a calm polite voice that is respectful to the other side.
Assume everyone a good person and act likewise. if you see someone do something bad, try to think what made them do that and don't say that they are bad people.
Whenever you can, try to help someone else. It could be at their work (or homework), at relationships and more. If someone asks you something, never dismiss them but try to be as helpful as you can, even if you don't do what they asked. You can suggest to do what they wanted or point out who can help them.
Help, even if you aren't asked. You should look around to see if someone needs help and help them even if they don't ask. It can be to help someone with something that he seems to have difficulties in or something you think he needs or will need.
Make it a hobby to try every once in a while volunteer somewhere or do something really nice for other people.
Don't try to take credit when your nice. There is a lot of satisfaction in watching someone do something because you've helped him when he doesn't know he's been helped.
Believe in the power of your actions to influence others. When other people see you soing good deeds, they will be reminded to take more positive action themselves.
Tips
Imagine what other people would like you to do for them and do that
Adopt pets, it is an excellent exercise at kindness, plus it is being kind to help an animal.
Warnings
Don't push your assitance on people who don't want it.
Don't be so nice constantly helpful that people take advantage of you. Part of being a good person is helping others become better people. Doing everything for someone who is capable of taking care of him- or herself is not helpful to either of you.
Be nice to people that deserve being nice, but don't insult those who don't. Help them become better people.
Don't think only on the short term. Sometimes we want to help someone do something without noticing we are not allowing them to learn to do things on their own.
Never act superior to anyone else. Your dedication to a particular creed, ideology, or set of guidlines does not give you the right to look down on anyone else. People are much more likely to look up to someone who others say is a good person than someone who goes around telling everyone how good her or she is.
Don't forget that there's more to being a good person than simply doing good things. People often do right things for the wrong reasons, and wrong things for the right reasons. If you find your mind leading you through emotionally unhealthy or emotionally violent thought processes, chide yourself whenever you notice it. You don't want to keep thinking about how bad you want to steal Steve's CD player, do you? Then why do it? Think about how the way you view situations and decisions (your perspective) influences how you feel about yourself, how you feel about your friends, and how you feel about life.
Things You'll Need
a good heart
generosity
Steps
Start each day with a plan. Think of what you would like to see and do. Then think of someone who is lonely. Someone who, perhaps lives alone, and has no family. Ask this person to join you, in your plan for the day. Share your time with them, ask them for lunch. This might be the highlight of their week.
Be happy by making others happy.
Offer to pet sit, when you know a friend is going on vacation. If you know a neightbor is sick, ask them if they need groceries, when you go food shopping.
Stop and talk to someone who is lonely, share a cup of coffee and pick up the bill.
Always be kind and never yell. Whatever you say, whenever you say it, do so in a calm polite voice that is respectful to the other side.
Assume everyone a good person and act likewise. if you see someone do something bad, try to think what made them do that and don't say that they are bad people.
Whenever you can, try to help someone else. It could be at their work (or homework), at relationships and more. If someone asks you something, never dismiss them but try to be as helpful as you can, even if you don't do what they asked. You can suggest to do what they wanted or point out who can help them.
Help, even if you aren't asked. You should look around to see if someone needs help and help them even if they don't ask. It can be to help someone with something that he seems to have difficulties in or something you think he needs or will need.
Make it a hobby to try every once in a while volunteer somewhere or do something really nice for other people.
Don't try to take credit when your nice. There is a lot of satisfaction in watching someone do something because you've helped him when he doesn't know he's been helped.
Believe in the power of your actions to influence others. When other people see you soing good deeds, they will be reminded to take more positive action themselves.
Tips
Imagine what other people would like you to do for them and do that
Adopt pets, it is an excellent exercise at kindness, plus it is being kind to help an animal.
Warnings
Don't push your assitance on people who don't want it.
Don't be so nice constantly helpful that people take advantage of you. Part of being a good person is helping others become better people. Doing everything for someone who is capable of taking care of him- or herself is not helpful to either of you.
Be nice to people that deserve being nice, but don't insult those who don't. Help them become better people.
Don't think only on the short term. Sometimes we want to help someone do something without noticing we are not allowing them to learn to do things on their own.
Never act superior to anyone else. Your dedication to a particular creed, ideology, or set of guidlines does not give you the right to look down on anyone else. People are much more likely to look up to someone who others say is a good person than someone who goes around telling everyone how good her or she is.
Don't forget that there's more to being a good person than simply doing good things. People often do right things for the wrong reasons, and wrong things for the right reasons. If you find your mind leading you through emotionally unhealthy or emotionally violent thought processes, chide yourself whenever you notice it. You don't want to keep thinking about how bad you want to steal Steve's CD player, do you? Then why do it? Think about how the way you view situations and decisions (your perspective) influences how you feel about yourself, how you feel about your friends, and how you feel about life.
Things You'll Need
a good heart
generosity
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