Is Good Being A Virgin ?

[Rasputin]

[Dokhtar Bandari]

I am still a virgin and I can tell you its not good......LOL

[maryam9]

i thought you have kids!
or did you get yours via

I am still a virgin and I can tell you its not good......LOL

[Dokhtar Bandari]

They were immaculate conception... khoda dar man damid...lol

[abadani69]

I hate old minded ppl who said they want to be Virgin until they get married. Come on ppl, it's 21st century, wake up!!!!

[maryam9]

whats wrong with being a virgin? It shows that you have self-control. You need to develop characteristics of chastity because after you get married its vital. At some point, you and your husband/wife will be away from one another for a short time... what happens if you come across a good-looking man/woman? Youre not going to be able to control yourself.

This is what happened to one of my friends and his fionce. The girl moved away to a different state to work for only THREE months (say, 100 days) and she meets someone there. This girl was so weak that she ended her engagement with the man she loved so much, just because she couldnt control herself. So stupid. If she was strong enough (if she had developed chastity characteristics) this whole thing wouldnt have happened. The poor guy is broken-hearted now and still talks to me about her (even though it happened about 2 years ago) and how he misses her, etc . Or what about these stay-at-home wifes? A lot of them have affairs becuase of weakness of character. They sleep with a random man and at the same time theyre still in love with their husband who is working all day like a dog.

as the saying goes: good things come to those who wait but i guess everyone's different and thats what i think about this subject

I hate old minded ppl who said they want to be Virgin until they get married. Come on ppl, it's 21st century, wake up!!!!

[abadani69]

Maryam shiraziii, khoda ye aghli be tu bede co ye kise pool be tamame memberhaye tapesh loool

[maryam9]

Arman rashti, nafahmidam chi gofti

khoda be man aghl bedeh (badesh chi?) ke man ba hameh yey kissehye pool bedam??

[abadani69]

ye aghli be tu bede vo ye kise pool be memberhaye tapesh

[gg666]

man fekr konam in bahse virginity ta akhare donya edame khahad dasht. hich vaght nemitoonam ghabool konam ke (virginity=self control). kheili az dokhtar ha ta dame ezdevaj virgin mimoonan be khater aghayedi ke tou jame'e hast. ama kheili hashon behar hal ye joori ye karayee kardan va az sex chizhayee ro tajrobe kardan. ta'arof ke nadarim, kheili ha barha orgasm shodan bedoone inke virginity ro az dast bedan. it's like hiding yourself behind the concept of" I am a virgin" just to show that your pure! (No offence! Im not addressing some one here!)

specialy girls should not be afraid of what they do and who they are, va nabayad bezaran virginity o ezdevajo az in joor parto pala ha sarneveshteshoono taein kone!

[DokhtarIrooni]

man fekr konam in bahse virginity ta akhare donya edame khahad dasht. hich vaght nemitoonam ghabool konam ke (virginity=self control). kheili az dokhtar ha ta dame ezdevaj virgin mimoonan be khater aghayedi ke tou jame'e hast. ama kheili hashon behar hal ye joori ye karayee kardan va az sex chizhayee ro tajrobe kardan. ta'arof ke nadarim, kheili ha barha orgasm shodan bedoone inke virginity ro az dast bedan. it's like hiding yourself behind the concept of" I am a virgin" just to show that your pure! (No offence! Im not addressing some one here!)

specialy girls should not be afraid of what they do and who they are, va nabayad bezaran virginity o ezdevajo az in joor parto pala ha sarneveshteshoono taein kone!

doroste ke bazia ghabl az inke ezdevaj konan virgin hastan, ama bishtareshoon kheili karaye dige kardan. In aksaran bekhatereh khoonevadeh ya dineshoone. Sorry vali bazia bayad shabe aroosishoon dastmale khooneshono neshoon bedan, agaram khooni nabashe.. khoda bedadeshoon berese.. Age yek dokhtar aslan azadi nadashte bashe va nemitoone yek bf begire khob areh, virgin mimooneh. ama age ye dokhtar azad bashe (ta ye haddi) shayad virgin namooneh, ya karaye dige bokone.

[gg666]

harfet kamelan doroste azizam. ina hame be khanevade va mazhab marboot mishe, va moteasefane bishtare moshkela ham az jahaye ke din rishe karde shoroo mishe.
hala ye chizi ham hast, bayad bebini azadi ro chi midooni. bi bando bari azadi nist. har chizi be hade khodesh bayad bashe. ama na dar hadi ke inghadr adam zire feshar bashe ke bekhatere ezdevaj majboor she gharizeye sex ro dar khodesh bokoshe. adam bayad inghadr azad bashe ke betoone khodesh baraye khodesh tasmim begire, va nazare baghie sarneveshtesho ragham bezanan. be nazaram hata agar kasi ham azadie kafi nadare bayad baraye esteghlalesh bejange, in hagheshe! ehteram be jame'e. khanevade va kheili chiza khoobeh, ama na zamani ke azadio az kasi begire. Hala in dige bastegi be khode taraf dare, ya pa bezare jelo va masire zendegisho oontor ke mikhad ta'een kone va say kone yek zendegie ideal va motefavet dashte bashe; va ya beshine too khoone va movazeb bashe ke virginity ro hefz kone ta yeki ham bekhater inke taraf virgin hast biad begiratesh, va mese kheili az zana beshine khoone dario bache dari koneh!

[Dokhtar Bandari]

It is hardly acceptable for me to believe that in this day and age we are still hung up on such a primordial issue. The questions is... will you take this much time to wonder why guys are virgin or not???? and why is it a "eftekhar" when they screw a girl prior to marriage just for show off and it is not for girls the same way.
Our society thrives on labeling, an unfortunate prize of Ego. There is no moral to being virgin or not... it sounds preposterous. Teach a person to love in the right way and teach that child to protect his/her emotions from getting messed up with carnal desires (full filed or not)... it is ok to experience life anyway you want it to, but it is not ok if you do not consider it an experience but an unfortunate or fortunate fate of life. Teach a child from beginning to have honor and live a remarkable life and all else will fall into proper place. Even as adults, learn to have honor and dignity, so when you do give up your virginity you feel good about it not guilty.
Restraint of actions does not come from anything outside of you and it ought not to be contingent about what your society thinks of you but on your own dignified manners.

[Dokhtare_Malous]

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. we deserve respect if we're trying to save it. It’s worth waiting for.
I don’t seem to understand a lot these days maybe because a whole new world is being opened up to me as I'm growing up. I don't understand why when someone says yes I'm a virgin people look at them weird and stupid. Some may argue sex = love and love = sex which isn't true you can love someone and not have sex. In the world today all the media tells teens everyone is having sex but here’s a newsflash its not true there are more teens not having sex for whatever reason than those having sex. For all the girls out there something I have learned is a guy would rather marry someone who has remained pure and abstained from having sex than someone who has slept around. It's like buying a car to them they would rather have something brand new than something used and abused. I'm not claiming to know everything on this topic because I don't but I'm passing on what I do know and that is there are other ways to show love than having sex, you don't gain anything from sleeping around besides people thinking your a slut, and for the guys your just sick if you think sleeping around makes you more of a man. Its self-respect and trusting your loved one to love you without any conditions or physical satisfaction in return.

[DokhtarIrooni]

Dokhtar Bandari I agree with you 110%

Dokhtare malous i have to disagree with you. There is a big difference between having sex with a person you love and "sleeping around". Not being a virgin doesnt make a person a slut at all. If you have sex with a person you love, it can be a very beautiful thing, because two people dont get closer than that. Its okay to be a virgin if YOU have made that choice and not someone else like your family. But its also okay not to be a virgin, if you are with a person you love.

Chera hame marda mitoonan har kari deleshoon mikhad bokonan bad vaghti mikhan ezdevaj konan ye "dokhtar" mikhan? In rooza hame mardaye irani dige injoori nistan. baziashoon doost daran ba ye khanoom bashan ke yekam experience dashte bashe. Age dokhtara bayad virgin bashan, marda ham bayad bashan