can u even tell the difference?

[maloosak]

ok here is the question: when ur so in-love with a person that there is no way for u to let go or u just cant live without them is it really that person ur in-love with, or is it urself that ur so much in-love with that u cant bare to accept the fact that some1 is putting u down?


i kno its a really hard question, but if any1 found an answer, pleas tell us all about it, i mean how can u even tell the difference?

[Narges-Khanoom]

hmmmm........ wat a question.....
in my opinion u do everything for urself, u even love sum1 for urself
i'm confused... there is no difference

[gg666]

honestly its for ourself.....if it was for the other partner u never care about what u want...u just go for what ur beloved person wants..even if u have to live without that person.....in fact there is a big difference and usually people love themselves the most without even understandng it....

[maloosak]

thats exactly what i thout too, but still its a bit confusing

[huebg]

it's that you love your in-love state so much that you ignore everything else that you can't bare your out-of-love state. so you do everything you can to keep the relationship and the other side just ends up completely not caring and you just get really hurt in the end. that's what i've seen from others MANY times....

[Parinaz_M]

enghad be oon taraf adat kardi ke dige nemikhay az dastesh bedi. mikhay hamishe pishet bashe.
bazi mogheha ham nemidoni age oon taraf bere bayad che kar koni.......

[maloosak]

i 100% agree with wat huebg just said about holdin on them and getin hurt at the end, and with pari's openian too, i mean yea ur just cant see ur life without them

[gg666]

then why are u confused maloosak joon...it's all about loving ur self rather than ur partner....and caring about ur loneliness...(though im not saying that u may not be in love with ur partner)

[maloosak]

i kno, loooooooool but its just confusing a little, i mean at the end u dont kno if its realy love toward them or urself

[Parinaz_M]

maloosak joon vase rahat kardane khodet, har joori ke doost dari fekr bokon........
chon hich vaght vaghean nemitoni befahmi ke che khabare...

[bluesky_152000]

i hav a little confusion on the question but on how i understand it... i think for me when u r inlove, at least u know and u r sure of urself how u feel. if u feel u cant live without him then its ur responsibility, because u cant tell if that someone u love really loves u the way u feel for him. he only knows himself how much he loves u. the same way, in the end its loving toward him of course, loving urself is in a different level of loving others.

[jjbb]

i think you should let go and do not blame yourself.............

[gg666]

it's first toward urself and then toward others...ama vaghti didi ke barat tarafe moghabelet mohemtar az toe va baraye inke oon rahat bashe az haghe khodet gozashti..oon vaght oono bishtar doost dari

i kno, loooooooool but its just confusing a little, i mean at the end u dont kno if its realy love toward them or urself

[maloosak]

i think you should let go and do not blame yourself.............

chichio let go azizam jk na man hamintori in mozoo ro too tv shenidam khodam yeho ghati kardam, lol goftam begam shomaham ghati konin

[maloosak]

it's first toward urself and then toward others...ama vaghti didi ke barat tarafe moghabelet mohemtar az toe va baraye inke oon rahat bashe az haghe khodet gozashti..oon vaght oono bishtar doost dari

kheily rast gofi gg joon, alan gereftam