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To Tell if a Guy Likes You
Probably the best way to know if a guy likes you is to simply ask him, but we all know that can be a challenge. So, here are a few clues to working out if he likes you as much as you like him.
Steps
Examine his body language. If he likes you, you will see that his body position will lean forward toward you.
Keep close.
Ever get the feeling that somebody is "in" your personal space - so much so that you want to step back? If he likes you and you like him, neither of you will step back.
Make eye contact - if he likes you, he'll get it and HOLD it. Again, this can be uncomfortable if you don't like him or vice versa. You'll know if you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else.
Be aware of touching - he might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens to touch yours. This is a very good sign that he likes you.
Keep an eye out. His pupils will dilate (get bigger) if he likes you - but this is quite hard to pick up on and you might look a bit weird looking THAT closely into his eyes.
See if he keeps going out of his way to 'bump' into you.
Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do.
Joke freely. Does he laugh even if you aren't funny?
Check for signs of nervousness: nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting...
Smile. A big smile in return probably means the feeling is mutual.
Tips
Does he make an extra effort to be around you in certain situations (dances, school, etc)? That could be a sign.
His friends might often ask you how you feel about him.
Chances are, if your stomach does a flip flop when you see him, his may be doing the same.
Smile, be yourself, and let biology and fate work their charms.
You can always ask a friend to ask him - but that can backfire.
You can't really MAKE someone like you - but the best way to be noticed is to be true to yourself, feel good about yourself and never do anything you don't want to do to get someone's affection.
Think about how you act when you like someone and look for those signs in others.
Warnings
Don't spend too long trying to find out or you may look like a stalker and this will also backfire.
Steps
Examine his body language. If he likes you, you will see that his body position will lean forward toward you.
Keep close.
Ever get the feeling that somebody is "in" your personal space - so much so that you want to step back? If he likes you and you like him, neither of you will step back.
Make eye contact - if he likes you, he'll get it and HOLD it. Again, this can be uncomfortable if you don't like him or vice versa. You'll know if you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else.
Be aware of touching - he might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens to touch yours. This is a very good sign that he likes you.
Keep an eye out. His pupils will dilate (get bigger) if he likes you - but this is quite hard to pick up on and you might look a bit weird looking THAT closely into his eyes.
See if he keeps going out of his way to 'bump' into you.
Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do.
Joke freely. Does he laugh even if you aren't funny?
Check for signs of nervousness: nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting...
Smile. A big smile in return probably means the feeling is mutual.
Tips
Does he make an extra effort to be around you in certain situations (dances, school, etc)? That could be a sign.
His friends might often ask you how you feel about him.
Chances are, if your stomach does a flip flop when you see him, his may be doing the same.
Smile, be yourself, and let biology and fate work their charms.
You can always ask a friend to ask him - but that can backfire.
You can't really MAKE someone like you - but the best way to be noticed is to be true to yourself, feel good about yourself and never do anything you don't want to do to get someone's affection.
Think about how you act when you like someone and look for those signs in others.
Warnings
Don't spend too long trying to find out or you may look like a stalker and this will also backfire.
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