i need advice

[Persian Sugar]

I had a friend that I talked to every day. Everything was fine until one day they went to a party. The next day when I asked how the party was they said it was awful but they didnt want to talk about it. After that they stopped talking to me, I knew something was wrong but when i asked they said nothing. One day I heard they were in the hospital, when i asked them why they said nothing they were sick and now they were better. Then later I heard from their brother that the reason he was in the hospital was cuz they tried to commit suicide. When I asked my friend why he hadn't told me the real reason and that when I heard the news I was worried they didn't answer me. Then a couple days later they started talking to me like everything was back to normal for a couple days then they started acting the same way they did before. But sometimes he'll talk to me on and off, but things aren't the same anymore and I'm not sure why. Do you think maybe the fact that they tried to kill myself has anything to do with the fact that they wont talk to me anymore? I feel like maybe I did something wrong or maybe its my fault they tried to do that. One time they used to tell me everything but now its changed, I want to help my friend, I thought maybe its my fault I'm supposed to make them happy, but I'm not enough, they don't even tell me anything so how can i help them, when i ask them whats wrong they say nothing, but i know theyre depressed they wouldnt have tried to do that. how do i get the person to open up to me again?

[chronzz]

uum i dont understand the situation??
can u be more clear about what advice is u need

[elly khoshkele]

persian sugar junam... well i m sorry to hear about ur frens.. and i m sorry that u feel that u have lost ur fren.... ohk here is wat i think... there has to be more to it than jus the suicide incident... i mena u knew ur fren well b4 right?? did he have any problems?? i mean it cant be that everything changed over night at a party right?? could be that they had problems b4?? find out from others wat happened in that party thaat night.. den mayb we can see how we can help... keep in touch honey... and plz dun hesitate to talk to us if there is anything we can do.... hope everything comes out fine... i m sure its jus sum sorta mid life crisis thingy!!!

take care gal.. be strong

[maloosak]

ru his girlfriend? if this is the case maybe he heard something bad about u in the party, u know how persian parties go....

[abadani69]

Persian always have to talk shit behind each other, no matter if they are friends or they are enemy. I have seen that everywhere. If they are you real friends they would never talk shit behind you and they won't let other talk about you

[gg666]

persian sugur jan....go to him and insist on getting the answer...dont leave him untill u figure out what had really happened....

[gg666]

persian sugur jan....whoever commits sucide is depressed and remains deprssed for a while. and they dontg tend to talk to anyone that much..u dont have to blame ur self....go to him and insist on getting the answer...dont leave him untill u figure out what had really happened....

[shazz]

I had a friend that I talked to every day. Everything was fine until one day they went to a party. The next day when I asked how the party was they said it was awful but they didnt want to talk about it. After that they stopped talking to me, I knew something was wrong but when i asked they said nothing. One day I heard they were in the hospital, when i asked them why they said nothing they were sick and now they were better. Then later I heard from their brother that the reason he was in the hospital was cuz they tried to commit suicide. When I asked my friend why he hadn't told me the real reason and that when I heard the news I was worried they didn't answer me. Then a couple days later they started talking to me like everything was back to normal for a couple days then they started acting the same way they did before. But sometimes he'll talk to me on and off, but things aren't the same anymore and I'm not sure why. Do you think maybe the fact that they tried to kill myself has anything to do with the fact that they wont talk to me anymore? I feel like maybe I did something wrong or maybe its my fault they tried to do that. One time they used to tell me everything but now its changed, I want to help my friend, I thought maybe its my fault I'm supposed to make them happy, but I'm not enough, they don't even tell me anything so how can i help them, when i ask them whats wrong they say nothing, but i know theyre depressed they wouldnt have tried to do that. how do i get the person to open up to me again?

Man Hichi Navafahmidam

[mahsaak]

az bas ke khengi shazz jan , hamishe dar hale hamoon kari ahsti ke too avatorete jk hahahha

ok P.s jan boro pishesh, ye dasti bezan, inghade ke be harf biarish. say kon badam bahash raftar nakoni, midooni ke kai flirt bash ta be javab beresi