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    Sex is important in a relatioship ?

    Diffrent Opinions which my friends told me :


    I personally feel like it should be close to 50% because without that it's just a friendship.

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    If sex is so important to you and the issues in your relationship have to do with sex, then just break up with her. Showing her an internet poll is not going to change anything in your relationship.

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    I agree, to me, sex is probably 10-20% because at the end of the day, having someone to talk to is very important to me .

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    I chose 25%...and even that is a bit high...it's more like 15%.

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    Sex is one small detail in the grand scheme of things. Sex is nice when you're doing it..but what about the rest of your time spent together? You've got to have a lot of substance aside from sex in order to make a relationship.

    You might spend 2% of your day having sex...so putting 50% relationship value into 2% of your day doesn't leave much for the other 98% of your day.

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    I said 50/50. Well sex to me in a relationship is not just sex. It is a way to let each other know how much you mean to one another, not just pleasure, its a way to share you bodies with each other. My man used to show me in a lot of ways how he felt about me through sex, like I said it wasnt just sex, I knew he loved me by his actions through sex.

    (Oh it was soooo good, I miss that!) Then the other 50 percent is showing your partner how you care for them in actions too, like the things you do when your not intimate. So if sex is only being used as pleasure then its not that important, but sex, good sex, is also a way of showing your partner how much you mean to them.

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    I think sex is very important in a relationship... i feel if both partners aren't satified physically then that could cause other problems in different parts of the relationship but I voted 25% because i do feel there are other things that are much more important.

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    And what you think about it ?
    42
    Not at all important
    4.76%
    2
    10% Sex, 90% everything else
    7.14%
    3
    25% Sex, 75% everything else
    11.90%
    5
    50% Sex, 50% everything else
    47.62%
    20
    75% Sex, 25% everything else
    7.14%
    3
    90% Sex, 10% everything else
    11.90%
    5
    It's all about the sex
    9.52%
    4

  • #2
    90% seems a bit high.(it's not all about sex). But I vote for 75%.
    Love like you never got hurt
    work like you don't need the money
    Dance like no one is watching


    تا عاقلان راهی برای یکبار خندیدن پیدا کنند دیوانگان هزار بار خندیده اند

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    • #3
      I agree with Redwine. I say 50-50

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      • #4
        khaily ham mohemeh .. khahesh mikonam BAHS NAKONID!! lol
        Its hard to pretend you love someone when you don't
        but its harder to pretend that you don't love someone when you really do.

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        • #5
          Sex is nice when you're doing it..but what about the rest of your time spent together?
          The other 50% (yes that's what I voted, for lack of something better) is about relating to the other person in a loving way. And part of that can be flirting with each other. Is that considered sex? Definitely a prelude to it. I mean, you don't simply go through your day being totally indifferent to the other person and then at a given time, it's only all about sex. It's all intertwined. I'm not sure you can separate any of it because the relationship - the interaction, the flirting, the love and making love (better words than "sex") is all part of your time with the other person. So how can you separate it into a percentage?
          Last edited by sooz; 07-05-2007, 12:24 AM.
          Sorry, replies only in English please.

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          • #6
            hang on, it depends at what stage of the relationship, initially its about sex, over time it becomes more than just sex.
            I love my Baghali ...

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            • #7
              Originally posted by csite View Post
              hang on, it depends at what stage of the relationship, initially its about sex, over time it becomes more than just sex.
              Is it always that way for you?

              Hasn't always been that way for me.

              Sometimes I'm friends with someone first and other things develop. Sometimes not and there's instant attraction. But I do like to know who I'm going to be sleeping with, and that can take time. Then again, that's why people write books like "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" - heheh.

              I think some women wouldn't agree with what I've said and some would agree totally. We're all different. Even some men don't see it exactly the way you've said. My best friend, for example, says he's always first attracted to the soul... no, he uses a different word... her presence and what her personality gives out. The physical attraction if it's going to be there, comes after, sometimes a many dates after he's got to know her. So men are different from each other too. but I can see what you're saying too - it's all intertwined again.
              Sorry, replies only in English please.

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              • #8
                sex is part of everyone's life at different ages you like to have sex more and less so i would say between the ages 18-43 its 50% but after that is alittle less but atleast you will have more experience in life after when you turn 43.

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                • #9
                  about 50/50 in a long term relationship... trust, respect, loyalty, love, care, commitment etc is more important than just 25-50% !!
                  .Proud to be Persian.

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                  • #10
                    Depends on the relationship... some relationships are 50/50... but if the relationship is serious, its 25% sex. The 25% is very important in terms of quality, but more than that is having a meaningful, dignified and exciting/not boring life....
                    Take him and cut him out in little stars,
                    and he will make the face of heaven so fine,
                    that all the world will be in love with night,
                    and pay no worship to the garish sun

                    - Shakespeare

                    "In all intellectual debates, both sides tend to be correct in what they affirm, and wrong in what they deny." - JS Mill

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                    • #11
                      Winning ''50% Sex, 50% everything else '' with 12 votes !

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                      • #12
                        That option won...but doesnt mean its true...
                        Love like you never got hurt
                        work like you don't need the money
                        Dance like no one is watching


                        تا عاقلان راهی برای یکبار خندیدن پیدا کنند دیوانگان هزار بار خندیده اند

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by gg666 View Post
                          That option won...but doesnt mean its true...
                          Aziatt nakon digeh .

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                          • #14
                            BASHE,CHASHM..DIGEH CHI???
                            Love like you never got hurt
                            work like you don't need the money
                            Dance like no one is watching


                            تا عاقلان راهی برای یکبار خندیدن پیدا کنند دیوانگان هزار بار خندیده اند

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by RedWine View Post
                              Aziatt nakon digeh .
                              vali rast meege! lol... good point gg666
                              Take him and cut him out in little stars,
                              and he will make the face of heaven so fine,
                              that all the world will be in love with night,
                              and pay no worship to the garish sun

                              - Shakespeare

                              "In all intellectual debates, both sides tend to be correct in what they affirm, and wrong in what they deny." - JS Mill

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