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The other question is if this is different for people depending on their gender and education...
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11Yes, always or most of the time its naive18.18%2No, its always or almost always the right ideal63.64%7Some relationships monogamy is the right ideal0.00%0Depends on the people or situation9.09%1I don't know9.09%1Take him and cut him out in little stars,
and he will make the face of heaven so fine,
that all the world will be in love with night,
and pay no worship to the garish sun
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monogamy? means one wife? they shouldnt be anyway other! even animals are clever enough to have one wife!نه غزه نه لبنان جانم فدای ایران
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or maybe they're not clever enough. LOL... just kidding...Originally posted by donsaeid View PostTake him and cut him out in little stars,
and he will make the face of heaven so fine,
that all the world will be in love with night,
and pay no worship to the garish sun
- Shakespeare
"In all intellectual debates, both sides tend to be correct in what they affirm, and wrong in what they deny." - JS MillComment
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looooooool
baba ye zan az saremonam ziadie! che berese be dotash! yedonash az bas negh mizane ke 40 salegi ya kachal mishi ya sekte mikoni hala ino dotash kon! che shavad 25 salegi raftani hastim hamamon 
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Some of the people at my work have sideline gf's, their married and some even have small children. Having seen first hand how screwed up these guys are, i can tell you monogamy isn't naive at all.I love my Baghali ...Comment
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i think that sideline gf is just for excitement of life! things becomes routine! so that is just for sex and excitement of life! cheaters are really sick people!نه غزه نه لبنان جانم فدای ایران
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interesting... so are you saying people who cheat are generally screwed up personalities? is it their situation or personality that's screwed up?Originally posted by csite View PostTake him and cut him out in little stars,
and he will make the face of heaven so fine,
that all the world will be in love with night,
and pay no worship to the garish sun
- Shakespeare
"In all intellectual debates, both sides tend to be correct in what they affirm, and wrong in what they deny." - JS MillComment
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wrong postLast edited by zubin; 07-15-2007, 09:57 AM.Take him and cut him out in little stars,
and he will make the face of heaven so fine,
that all the world will be in love with night,
and pay no worship to the garish sun
- Shakespeare
"In all intellectual debates, both sides tend to be correct in what they affirm, and wrong in what they deny." - JS MillComment
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They have no self control!Originally posted by donsaeid View Post
I think your family background matters, people who come from single parent backgrounds are more likely to separate with their partners too imo. Yes i think their personalities are messed up, they grew up thinking its ok to cheat on your partner multiple times. For me the worse part is some of them have young children which i would have thought is meant to strengthen a relationship. Anyways i think alot of Scottish people are pretty messed up, in scotland we have a huge rate of teenage pregnancies etc. their very irresponsible people.interesting... so are you saying people who cheat are generally screwed up personalities? is it their situation or personality that's screwed up?I love my Baghali ...Comment
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You should still put in effort when ure married, but most people dont and thats where the problem starts.Originally posted by donsaeid View Post
If the wife gradually gets fatter and starts wearing boring clothes etc (e.g. sweatpants instead of dresses, etc) then of course the man is going to look at other women etc. Hence why all women should make it a priority.
Things only become a routine if you dont make an effort, otherwise, how hard is it to book a surprise table at the restaurant and take someone out after they get home from work, or go away for a weekend (and if u have kids then give them to someone trustworthy to look after).Mary's back, back againComment
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you say that why women should make effort and at the same time say that men should make effort!Originally posted by maryam_shirazi_9 View Post
and when men cheat they cheat with other women! so both parts are equally guilty! women even more! because women have more self control when it comes to sex!نه غزه نه لبنان جانم فدای ایران
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monogamy chi chieh !!! berid dokhtar bazi konid,hal konid, beh fekr zendegi bashid !! baghiash harf-e baba !!!Comment
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not necessarily - sometimes it becomes an eye-opener, and the child grows up and becomes wiser beacuse they learn from the mistakes that his/her parents made.Originally posted by csite View PostMary's back, back againComment
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yea, if Mrs X does XYZ then perhaps the husband wouldnt go elsewhere.Originally posted by donsaeid View Post
thats pretty obvious, no?Mary's back, back againComment
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bahat nistam inja! yani manzoreto nemigiram! to migi zan chera bayad kari bekone! on marde ke bayad bere mize resturant begire!
va man migan in harfe to zedde khodeshe! chon age mard har kariam bekone zan age delesh bekhad mire ya baraks! ziad ba effort kari nadare! maybe 5-10% of cheatings are because of effort!
va inke faghat marda cheater nistan! zanha ham hastan! chon marda soraghe mardaye dige ke nemiran bara cheating va zana jormeshon bishtare chon zana self controle behtari daran az marda!
men are animals
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