ASAP HELP!!!

[platinumandy]

c i was with this guy for about 3 months everything was and went great..until one day i broke up with him, and that was because he didnt call for 3 days....and then we got back together :roll: ...and now he texted me and broke up with me for stupid reason he said because of his friends website.?????? :roll: :shock: :? WHATEVER..and after an hour of saying i used him i never loved him...blah blah blah....he text me and said im just kidding!!! :roll: WHAT THE HECK????
should i just let it go...or should i stay with him!!!
i want to break up with him...but i was planning to do it...in a couple of months....what should i do????
i mean isnt this stupid!!!???
i think he just did this so he will tell me some of the hatred he has....not for me but...for other stuff that revolves around me and him.....like friends...and stuff like that....so he just said that...on purpose and then J/K...i cant believe this!!!
i always get the bad guys!!!!
my first bf raped me
my second was pushy and it scared me!!
and the third..well this is my third or was my third!!!

[Nazanin]

Oh lord. Man felan khasteam, az kar oumadam. Farda be in topic reply mikonam.

[RoadRunner]

hey.. i didnt read the whole thing.. got to the part about his excusses, and more i dont need to know.
if i were u i'd let him go. he seems to be insecure and not know what he wants.
and i think if you take him back after what hes done this time.. he will do it again and again, knowing that no matter what he does, he can fool u easily to take him back.
either way.. wish u good luck and happiness.

[platinumandy]

unfortenetly im backwith him...and im gonna be with him for a while and break up with him!!! i love him too much!!

[IQ]

if you love him why did you break up with him because he didn't call you for 3 days. and how do you love him that you know excatly when you want to break up w/ him. you said i am going to break up with him in couple of months. SO here is what i think there isn't probably any love between you two so you are using each other for money, morally, or sexually and that is about it.

[Nazanin]

I shouldn't even be replying to this post chon it's just a waste of time, but I'm gonna go ahead & do it ayway.

I have a Q for u Naghmeh. Why the hell are u w/ this guys in the 1st place vaghti inghad in "rabete" maskharas ke both of u walk out of it whenever u feel like it?
I can't believe u even use the word "love" when u describe whatever it is that's between u guys.
And what kind of "love" is this ke az ghabl midooni key mikhai bahash break-up koni? U set urself a date for when u want to break-up?
Why are u together asan? Do u ABSOLUTELY have to be w/ someone?
Chera inghad khodeto daste kam migiri ke na tanha ba hamchin kasi mimooni, balke ba hamchin kasi miri asan?
Khodeto daste kam nagir. Have self-confidence, vase khodet arzesh ghael bash, nazar kasi intori maskharat kone ya azat sooestefade kone.
There's absolutely no need for u to be w/ someone who doesn't respect u, doesn't treat u good/right, kasi ke vaghti mige dooset dare, vaghean ehsas koni ke dooset dare, na in ke faghat sare zaboonesh oftade bashe.
Have respect for urself & inghad dorobare hamchin adamai nabash.
Khodet admit mikoni ke aksare vaghta ba adamaye "intori" ghati mishi, maybe it's time u got a grip of urself & start taking urself seriously.

[platinumandy]

wow thanx alot u guys!!! u r right...i should break up with him soon!...just after may25th!! :lol: thank you....im gonna take everybody's advice...thank you!!!

[IQ]

y after 25th.



IS THIS A SARE KAARI POST?!?!?!?

[RedWine]

y after 25th.



IS THIS A SARE KAARI POST?!?!?!?LOL

[ToXiC]

omg chand vaght bood intori nakhandide boodam :smt044





mige I LOVE HIM vali tarikh ham mige ke key mikhad break up kone :smt044


omg that was soooo coool ..

[RedWine]

omg chand vaght bood intori nakhandide boodam :smt044





mige I LOVE HIM vali tarikh ham mige ke key mikhad break up kone :smt044


omg that was soooo coool ..ziad tajob nakon !!!! adame ajib gharib ziadeh tuyeh in donya :D

[Nazanin]

Sarah, ghaziyeye SARMIN chi shod? Barat offline gozashtam, mahal nazashti ke. Mano update kon.

[IQ]

platniumandy yek jooraaee mesle inke 8-[ haalesh khoob nist.

[Nazanin]

I'm VERY disappointed in dokhtaraye irooniye in sen

[RedWine]

Nazanin jan.kam seni va bitajrobegi,baham mitunan hamisheh moshkel saz bashan.

[IQ]

man fekr mikonam maa ro sare kaar gozaashte va aslan ham bi tajrobe nist.

[RoadRunner]

platniumandy yek jooraaee mesle inke 8-[ haalesh khoob nist.

lool

[RoadRunner]

A woman knows she's wearing the right dress, when her man wants to take it off.

looooooooool

[platinumandy]

Hello People...well i just broke up with him! yesterday!!! and i feel great....it was a good chance and i took it....im so happy...thank you so much you guys! i do have experience...a little....im not gonna look for another bf or anything...just stay single take care of my family and get and my education and enjoy life....that's my motto!!!
thanx alot you guys
bye

[RoadRunner]

Good luck :)

[platinumandy]

Good luck :)
somehow i think you dont mean that!! lol

[RoadRunner]

Somehow i know you r wrong. I did mean it, and still do.

Good Luck And All The Best :)

[RedWine]

mandy ..mobaraka basheh ishallah :D

[Nazanin]

get and my education and enjoy life....that's my motto!!!


Damet kheili garm, hamin raho boro & edame bede

[IQ]

behtarinesh hamine plantiumandy.

[ToXiC]

Sarah, ghaziyeye SARMIN chi shod? Barat offline gozashtam, mahal nazashti ke. Mano update kon.



hichi they broke up ..
she misses him .. he ham hamintor vali 'good friends' felan ta ye fekri bokonan ..
she dare ravani mishe .. he dare mire holland :roll: ..


hamasham sare bargashtane dokhtare boodo ye dokhtare dige :shock: :roll: :!:


p.s. man ke barat off gozashtam

[RoadRunner]

The saga continues.....

[Nazanin]

Sarah, baram off gozashti ke gofti "kojai" & chand ta chize ounjoori, amma hichi tarif nakardi too offline.
Bebinam, mage dokhtare bargashte Cologne? Badesham, oun dare mire Holland chekar age dokhtare bargashte Cologne??
Ghaziye in yeki dokhtare chiye? :shock:
Ya eyne adam offline bezar ya e-mail befrest.

[Cop]

khoda shafa bedde inshallllllla

[Anonymous]

Bebin ino begam badan barat email mizanam ..


2khtare hanooz hollande .. pesare ghati karde ..
2khtare mikhast bargarde oon keshvar doore :D bad pesare gham gereftesho az in harfa hala badan barat email mizanam :lol: :!:



muuuuuuuuuuuuatch
muuuuuuuuuuuuatch

[Nazanin]

Ok

[RoadRunner]

Bebin ino begam badan barat email mizanam ..


2khtare hanooz hollande .. pesare ghati karde ..
2khtare mikhast bargarde oon keshvar doore :D bad pesare gham gereftesho az in harfa hala badan barat email mizanam :lol: :!:



muuuuuuuuuuuuatch
muuuuuuuuuuuuatch

ghabol nist.. in namardiye.. dastan ta hayajan angiz mishe mikhaein bekeshinesh to pastoo .. pas ma chi? :/

[Nazanin]

looool RR, hala bezar man khodam az ghaziye bakhabar besham, shoma ro ham dar jaryan mizaram :twisted:

[RoadRunner]

only if i had a dollar for everytime someone told me: "vaysa alan behet migam" =)

[RedWine]

Alaemeh Afsordegi
***

مشکل بیخوابی و بدخوابی عذابم می دهد

بسیار بدخلق شده ام

همیشه فکرم دور افکار خاصی دور می زند

بسختی می توانم افکارم را متمرکز کنم

بسختی می توانم چیزی را به خاطرم بسپارم

انجام کارهای روزانه برایم بسیار سخت شده ان

دائما احساس درماندگی و یاس می کنم

احساس می کنم آدم بی ارزشی هستم

بیشتر اوقات به خودکشی فکر می کنم

نسبت به آینده هیچ امیدی ندارم

تصمیم گیری بر سر کارهای روزمره برایم بسیار سخت شده است

نسبت به اتفاقات درو و برم بی تفاوت شده ام

احساس عذاب وجدان راحتم نمی گذارد

خودم را در هر کاری مقصر احساس می کنم

زندگی برایم معنایش را از دست داده است

[RedWine]

اگر حتی یکی از عبارات فوق را علامت زنده باشید نشان دهنده آن است که گرایش به افسرده گی دارید

همه انسانها در طول زندگی

احساس غم و نگرانی را تجربه می کنند. ولی این حالات در مورد اکثر آدمها چیزهایی زودگذرند و معمولا با موضوعات

غم ساز و نگران کننده ربط مشتقیم دارند. احساس غم و اندوه بخاطر از دست دادن موقعیت کاری و از این قبیل کاملا عادی است ولی

این احساس نمی تواند تمام روز و برای مدت زیادی به همان شدت اولیه حضور داشته باشد. حتی غم بسیار زیاد بعداز تجربه های بسیار غم انگیزی نظیر از دست دادن فردی عزیز نیز بعد از مدتی باید رفته رفته کم رنگ بشود و معمولا اینچنین است. به این نوع غمها افسرده گی نمی گوییم. افسرده گی نشانه های خاص خودش را دارد و نباید آنرا با غم و اندوه یکی دانست. ولی افسرده گی شدت و ضعف دارد و راههای برطرف کردن آن نیز متفاوت است

هیچ آدمی افسرده به دنیا نمی آید بلکه آدمها در طول زندگی یاد می گیرند که نسبت به چیزهایی که دور و برشان اتفاق می افتد

به شکل رفتار افسرده کننده جواب بدهند. افسرده گی چیز قابل علاجی است و هرچه زودتر برای علاج آن اقدام شود نتیجه بهتری می دهد

[platinumandy]

I CANT READ PERSIAN!!!!!!!!!!! :cry: