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IQ
06-11-2005, 12:30 PM
One of the most common posts I see in here is about nice guys and nice girls wondering why nobody wants to date them or why they "finish last." Who cares? You know eventually something's going to happen. Isn't anyone concerned with discovering themselves first anymore? Why the eagerness to be attached? It's just like work. Once you start working, you're going to have the rest of your life to work until you retire. Except when you find someone for you, you're going to be with them until you die, at least that's the theory right? Enjoy being single and stop whining. :P
ProudPersian
06-14-2005, 10:29 PM
The Rush to find "the one" is really an unconscious drive to find a part of ourselves that is reflected outwardly onto other people. Having said that it is necessary, otherwise how would we have kids.
IQ
06-15-2005, 01:24 AM
why have kids when we cannot take car of ourselves. look at foster kids the kids that their parents are abusive,drug addict,alcoholic. because someone has hot lips doesn't mean you have to run to her and have kids.
elly khoshkele
06-19-2005, 08:04 AM
now look it is NOT about religion or even safe sex!! it is about THE ONE!!! well i think MOST people our age (i dun mean my age only ok??) dun noe the true meaning oof THE one!!! i mean for example.... girls sleep aroud at the age of 12!!!!!!!! i mean 12 for gods sake!!! and when u ask tnem Y?? do u noe wat dey say?? dey say that they LOVE the guy and think that he is THE ONE!! i mean u are 12!!!!!!!!! nad even if u are 100 how can u sleep with sumone on the FIRST date and say that he si THE ONE?? sum pple jus never grow mature i guess!!!

life is a complex organ that has yet to be fully discovered!!!!
elly khoshkele
06-19-2005, 08:05 AM
and iq junam.. i agree with ya honey!!! enjoy life WHENEVER it is at!! even when u are single!!!!!!
worthless_boy
06-19-2005, 03:39 PM
People search for "the one" because they know of they want to know, that "the one" for them is perfect. Not like the other before him/her.

And when they found them, itīs perfect. The Person for you is perfect, until you came to an certain point. The point where you see the side on this "One"
and you see all the bad sides, and you think "itīs the same exactly as by the others". It donīt have to come so far, but mostly it is exactly this situation.

And when you see all his of her bad sides, you donīt even think about, that noone is perfect, that noone would be perfect. even yourself. And you forgot, ... that you are not the person who is perfect, too
angel
07-21-2005, 05:16 PM
where r u worthless boy ?????
elly khoshkele
07-21-2005, 07:53 PM
honey chera afsordeyi azizam?? (i deduced that cause u call ur self worthless) baba inja hame khodeshuno tahvil migiran!!(mesle iq junam) un vaght to esmeto gozashty worthless?? ey baba!!!
Najibam
07-22-2005, 07:13 AM
People search for "the one" because they know of they want to know, that "the one" for them is perfect. Not like the other before him/her.

And when they found them, itīs perfect. The Person for you is perfect, until you came to an certain point. The point where you see the side on this "One"
and you see all the bad sides, and you think "itīs the same exactly as by the others". It donīt have to come so far, but mostly it is exactly this situation.

And when you see all his of her bad sides, you donīt even think about, that noone is perfect, that noone would be perfect. even yourself. And you forgot, ... that you are not the person who is perfect, too



Man fekr mikonam ke bazivaghta ma khejli entezar darim az jek nafar, bayad be khosiate khobesh fekr konim....
angel
07-23-2005, 08:16 AM
elly i told him too but he is akiddo in love (puppy love)
Najibam
07-23-2005, 08:26 AM
The Rush to find "the one" is really an unconscious drive to find a part of ourselves that is reflected outwardly onto other people. Having said that it is necessary, otherwise how would we have kids.

Well we're all selfish we find hapiness through others sometimes...
elly khoshkele
07-27-2005, 05:22 AM
oh i c angel jun!!! good luck worthless boy junam in ur love life honey!!!
IQ
07-27-2005, 03:25 PM
EH KHODAM YAADAM RAFTE BOOD IN THREAD RO VAA KARDAM KHOB HAME CHI KHOOBI BACHE HAA :)
elly khoshkele
08-01-2005, 04:46 AM
iq junam?? khoda vakili iq hastiyaaaaaaaaaaaa ;)
okiddi
08-06-2005, 05:12 PM
...hargez donbale kasi nabash ke betooni bahash zendegi koni balke donbale kasi bash ke bedoone on naatoni zendegi koni...
IQ
08-07-2005, 09:38 AM
OH I AM TOUCHED VERY NICE QUOTE. I WANNA USE IT IN QUOTE OF THE DAY IN GENERAL DISCUSSION. :)