Is it hard dating a guy from another culture/country? [Archive] - Tapesh.Com an Iranian, Persian based Forum

nazy18

08-26-2003, 02:23 PM

hey sara.. its a really good question,, cuz especialy these days guys love each other from the net and they're from different countries maybe its not hard when they just knew each other but it will start to be hard when they start to get into the love (the real love) when they became really close to each other and their love became very strong..because she needs to see him to sit with him and talk with him,,, its my opinion..
i hope it can help u :)

mahta

08-30-2003, 11:36 PM

yeah...az love goes stronger...the more you want to see the person you are in love with...........i mean you look more forward to see him.......i mean i don't think him being from different culture can cause problems but being in different country, it can

Sara

09-06-2003, 09:58 AM

thanx for everything. i seriously needed a bit of help with that!!
:lol: :D :!: :!: :roll: :oops:

Anonymous

10-24-2003, 01:04 AM

do u reckon it will be hard if someone ur datin is from another religion?
coz at the moment im seeing someone who is half indian and half english. he's hindu and im kinda muslim. i dont really think that it could work and he keeps asking me if anything serious is going to happen between us. im confused?! any suggestions will help me alot!!!
Sara, 16 from London, England..xx :? :roll: :!: :shock: :(

Anonymous

10-29-2003, 02:54 PM

hello. just to let u know ot can work. my parents have been married for 24 yrs and have three kids (im one of them). my dad is from Iran, and is muslim, my mom is from England and is was whatever Catholic. my mom learnt farsi, and we all go to iran and stuff in vacation times... its hard growing up in the west when ure dad expects u to be 'iranian' though, it causes a little friction. and of course the 'kids' always have to be perfect cuz otherwise my dads side will say that 'my mom was kharegi and therefore didnt know how to raise kids"
dont worry there is hope :D :D

Timsar

10-30-2003, 04:10 PM

what is up with u ppl going on being with ppl from other countries, like hell

well this warrning if i ever become any one important in iran as i said before, do not bother coming there cuz u will never be able to leave it, inter racial marriages, that's just sad and disgusting...ewwwwwww

hala az shans e man be yeh siyah post ya jew ezdevaj mikonam...

moji

10-31-2003, 11:32 AM

this is in response to Timsar's comment
:roll: -->inter racial marriages, that's just sad and disgusting...ewwwwwww<-- :roll:
your comment is what i find sad and disgusting. you seem like quite a narrow minded person not to mention the fact that you're a bigot. :evil: maybe you should think about what you just said. where would the world be without interraciality? its like multiculturalism in its purest form. my parents are off differnt ethinic, racial and cultural backgrounds, my dad is irani and my mom isnt... so what does that make me? the product of something disgusting? get the bigger picture mofo :evil: :!: :!: :!:

mahroz

11-15-2003, 09:53 AM

i agree with u timsar

moji

11-17-2003, 03:11 PM

SERIOUSLY U GUYS ARE SHALLOW IF YOU CANT GET PAST RACIAL DIFFERENCE IN A RELATIONSHIP.... U SICKEN ME WITH YOUR NARROW MINDS.....ITS SO SAD :?

MOST PERSIANS ARE SO OPEN ABOUT OTHERS BEING MIXED RACIALLY... BUT I GUESS U ALWAYS FIND A FEW THAT HAVE THEIR HEADS STUCK IN THEIR ASSES :D

mahroz

11-19-2003, 07:47 AM

motmen bashid har irani ba amriki ezdevaj koneh akharesh talageh ya zendegie khobi nadra, on zendegi ke irani dost dasht, dashteh bashe nist
im 100% sure :roll: :roll:

Anonymous

11-25-2003, 03:18 PM

Hey guys.
Mojo joon ba shoma mo-afesh nistam i know 6 ppl ke married kardan ba khareji onam canaday and american.. va happy hastan soo muc hke migan agar ba irani boodim ta behala talagh booos.....

U guys,,, love va Date hich rabti be keshvar ya adamesh nadareh.. THIS IS VERY AGHAB_MONDEH agar injory fekr konid chon taraf irani nist be talagh keshide mishe or work out nemikoneh.. it all depends ke what u want from her/him or in life...... va agar ba in attitude berid jeloo ke faghad irani......... for sure BEHAM kha-had khord!!!!!!! u guys making it sound like ........az koreh-yeh merikh mikha--yed kasi ro peyda konid...
that's all i had to say i hope ke offend nakarde basham kasi ro

love,
havas

moji

11-26-2003, 02:06 AM

in response to-->motmen bashid har irani ba amriki ezdevaj koneh akharesh talageh ya zendegie khobi nadra, on zendegi ke irani dost dasht, dashteh bashe nist
im 100% sure <--

:x :x toh az kojah mifami? madar ya pedareh shoma mageh khareji hast???? :x :x madareh man englisi (from england) hast... vah pedaram kheyli az zendegish razi hast... -->akharesh talageh ya zendegie khobi nadra<-- 24years happily married!! :D

p.s. my mom speaks farsi, and is more irani than half the iranis i know......

LOVE HAS NO BOUNDARIES ....KAPISH?????

mahroz

12-02-2003, 12:59 PM

well, u guys's weird
first of all hoyyyyyyy calm down, ingadr asabani nasho mojo whatever your name is, sekteh mikoniha :roll: :roll:
nazareh man ineh dava dari bia inja, har ki ye nazari dareh
ok fine eshkali nadareh ba khareji ezdevaj koni ama motmen bash ageh on khareji irani bod behtare
in khat inam neshon :wink: :wink:

RoadRunner

12-04-2003, 10:52 AM

Salam Bar Hamegi ... Ba Mokhalafatesh ;)

Vala rastesho bekhaeiin, jariyan ine ke.. Che Irani ba Irani.. Che Khareji ba Irani ... Hich Farghi Namikone, Akhare Khat Ine Ke..
Zan, Pedare Marda Ro Dar Miyare.. Hala Mikhad Irani Bashe, Mikhad Nabashe 8)

Anonymous

12-04-2003, 07:34 PM

Anonymous

12-04-2003, 10:52 PM

RoadRunner

12-05-2003, 02:07 AM

FROSTY?..LOL HAMOON HAST KE FROST MONDI...

chi migi baba?.........ma zana jooooooon midim joonemoon dar miyad baratoon. why do u say that????ajaba!!!! dastam beeht berese pedari azat dar biyaram?.hala sabr kon.. peydat mikonam zendegit or beham mizanam..................aksetam mizaram to roznameha.. kari mikonam karestoon..............

LOoOOoOL .. Mibinin, ye kalame ma goftim zan pedar dar miyare.. Nakhshe keshide ke shenasnamey ma ro batel bekone...

Tapesh jan... Ishon hastan ke khater khahe shoman? Ba in chiza ke bala neveshte namidonam behet tabrik begam, ya begam drim daam daam drim daam, vay be halet age shab dir biyaei khone ;)

PS.
Frosty bodane man dalilesh in havaye sarde sued'e kharab shodast! Bimarefat Tabestonash ham Sarde!

RoadRunner

12-05-2003, 02:10 AM

I just wanted to comment on your question about dating people of another religion or culutre. Well, my advise is to not do that at all or if you do decide from the beginning if the relatoinship can really go somewhere. Trust me, I have been there and I don't recommend it for anyone else. Other then your heart being broken, it wont do anything else.

Dear X .. your heart can be broken even if u date or marry one of your own...
Key to a successfull relationship is UNDERSTANDING & COMMUNICATION between the two partners!

Anonymous

12-05-2003, 06:16 AM

hey......

I think that it dont really matter what religion as long as the person is nice...... what i mean is you can have someone who is a muslim but not a good person and someone who is like christian but really nice or even opposite!!!
It's the personality that counts u c!!! sooooooooo dont worry about the religion and just tell him that u dont know if anythin seriouse is goona happen!!! say u need 2 think!! :roll:

mahroz

12-05-2003, 07:31 AM

hey x, you right

hey foresty ok, if u think is ok go and marry, next step is divorce
see u at court :twisted:

Anonymous

12-08-2003, 05:07 AM

whoeva says that inter racial marriages and relationships neva work is a narrow minded, crap eating little pile of ****. my mom is scottish and my dad iranian. they have a really gd relationship and better than most iranian marriages i no for that matter....so i would appreciate if u respect those people who are mixed race and not take the mick of their parentage...thanku... :evil: :twisted: 8) i would appreciate if you would not post messages that are so racist and offensive on a subject that i started... xxxxxxxx whoeva agrees with me i love u and keep on doing wot u do!!! xxx

XxGhazellexX

12-11-2003, 10:11 AM

Any guy who isnt from the middle east (Iranian or Arab), isnt worth my time. Iranian guyz are 100% GRADE A real men. Not only are they the best lookin guyz in the world, they are gods gift to all girls :P

Iranian Guyz #1

mahroz

12-11-2003, 01:09 PM

i agree with you on the first part
but iranian guy's are hot, i mean are you sure?
:roll: :roll: :roll:

XxGhazellexX

12-11-2003, 04:36 PM

They make my mouth & everything else ....water :P :twisted: LOOOOL
HOOOOOOOOT :!: :wink:

mahroz

12-12-2003, 07:36 AM

oh my god
no way!!!!!!

XxGhazellexX

12-12-2003, 01:27 PM

hellz yaaaaaaaaaa :P 8) once you go persian theres no other version :wink:

mahroz

12-13-2003, 08:15 AM

mitoni chand ta aksashono beferesti?
emakan nadareh

XxGhazellexX

12-13-2003, 01:44 PM

are you a girl or a guy????? :?

mahroz

12-13-2003, 02:01 PM

girl
why are u asking?

XxGhazellexX

12-13-2003, 05:21 PM

cuz you asked me so I was just curious, plus I thought you were a guy

mahroz

12-15-2003, 07:35 AM

what?
why????????
do i talk like guys???????
why you want to fight with me!
:twisted:

Anonymous

12-15-2003, 12:41 PM

Salam .. man khodam 2 sale ke england hastam .. dust dokhtaram ham British hastesh .. aslan ham tafahom nadarim .. zende baad dokhtare IRani 8)

mahroz

12-15-2003, 01:00 PM

afarin farhad
didid
farhad jan dorost migi :wink:

XxGhazellexX

12-19-2003, 09:53 PM

ok farhad please say that in english my farsi is wack :P You had a girlfriend in england and it worked or it didnt work??

Mahorz: chill out, I just thought..mageh vashi hasti keh mikhay dava koni

mahroz

12-20-2003, 08:04 AM

whatever!

Anonymous

12-30-2003, 12:09 PM

salam man az bzlgiumhastam va 3 saal ast ke in ja hastam va in ra taze fahmidam ke hichi dokhtare irooni nemishe che az lahaze khshkeli che az lahazehaye digar

golrokh

03-04-2004, 02:29 PM

Salam

Man fekr mikonam keh hamchiz beh khodeh sakhs rapt dareh. Agar hamsaret / doested alage dar farhange to yah baraks nadashte bashe nemitoenin harfe hamdiegeh rah befamin wa dark konin. Wali kesie keh doest dare bishtar dar bareye farhanget bedone wa chonke to rah doest dareh az kheli chizha migzare man fekr mikonam hamechiz dorost mishe!

Ciau Golrokh :)

Nazanin

03-04-2004, 02:42 PM

Salam golrokh jan, kheili khosh oumadi beh in forum aziz :wink: felan darbareyeh in comment nemidam chon man goftani ha ziyad daram lool

Bizhan

05-23-2004, 07:19 PM

this is a question my friends have been pondering about for awhile!!
What do u think??? :? :shock: 8) :oops: :P
thanx.....
from Sara..x.x.x.x.x..

salam :oops: i think is hard you get mary someone completely be from diferent cultuer but i do not think so is going to be very hard people geting marry for m colsed cultuer.

Anonymous

06-22-2004, 11:07 AM

coming from a mother who is american and a dad who is iranian and i was born in iran, i feel that you can do it but i dont recommend it unless one of you is willing to compromise. my mom lived in iran and met my dad. she was teaching there. my dad had gone to school here so he knew english and such. my mom compromised a lot and she likes the iranian culture, otherwise it would have never worked. i think you have to have this in mind..
sorry it's been so long since i have been on this thing! take care!!

sheri:)

Anonymous

06-22-2004, 12:52 PM

me have been together with europian girlfriend for almost 3years, but its like we dont understand eachother deeply.
I dont understand the way her family think and they dont understand the way I think. It's like to entering into completely
different worlds everyday. It is hard !!! :-k

donia_22

06-24-2004, 09:07 PM

well im irani and my man is Austrlian and we been together 2 yeras now and it was so ezy to get to know each others culture it doesnt matter where u from as long as you can understand each others needs!!!and he loves our food and our lovely persain carpet :D :) 8) :oops: :wink:
so no i dont think so but evreyone is diffrent!!!
have nice day 8)

ToXiC

06-25-2004, 03:19 AM

i agree with you on the first part
but iranian guy's are hot, i mean are you sure?
:roll: :roll: :roll:

:shock: mahroz joonam halet khoobe?
maloome ke iranian guys are HOT
nemidoonesti :shock: !
aks ham mikhay begoo ye albume aks barat biaram ke faghat toosh pesarayee khoshgele Irani bashan :lol: :wink: !

mahroz

06-25-2004, 11:54 AM

baba on barayeh kheili vagt pish bod!
nazaram avaz shodeh az vagti ke pesaraye amrikaie ro didam,
hala jedi album dari?

ToXiC

06-25-2004, 12:14 PM

baba on barayeh kheili vagt pish bod!
nazaram avaz shodeh az vagti ke pesaraye amrikaie ro didam,
hala jedi album dari?

are aks hayee pesaraye Irani ke mishnasam (khoshgelash albate) wa bazi az aks ha ham adamhayee hastan ke nemishnasam :mrgreen:

Nazanin

06-25-2004, 12:17 PM

bazi az aks ha ham adamhayee hastan ke nemishnasam :mrgreen:

:lol:

mahroz

06-25-2004, 12:19 PM

:lol:
vala ma gifehayeh pesarayeh irani to irano yademoneh onam chand sal pish ke aslan bache bodam,

ToXiC

06-25-2004, 12:54 PM

bazi az aks ha ham adamhayee hastan ke nemishnasam :mrgreen:

:lol:

:mrgreen:

Lavand_Bandari

07-07-2004, 02:30 AM

AZIZAM, MIKHAY DARDESAR NASHE BARAT, HINDI ,[AKISTANI,AFGHANI DATE KON..looool close bashe be culture ma..LOL BOOOS

donia_22

08-11-2004, 06:58 PM

no i dont think so? what do u think? are u in love with somone u trying to find some answers? :?:
this is a question my friends have been pondering about for awhile!!
What do u think??? :? :shock: 8) :oops: :P
thanx.....
from Sara..x.x.x.x.x..

Jigari

09-06-2004, 10:21 PM

Azizam i think jedan ye 2khtare irooni ba ye pesare irooni baham betaaran vala. But sometimes it depends if the guy or girl is a user and they just want to really waste time :wink: 8) :roll:

Khoshgel

12-07-2004, 10:21 PM

I don't think it's hard..it could work out. It depends on how picky of a person you are and what things matter to you. If the relationship gets more serious later on, there might be problems..

CamiJoon

02-08-2005, 07:36 PM

wow! some of you people really hate other nations that you consider an interracial marriage disgusting. that is so narrow-minded. well i agree with some people here who say that the key to an interracial marriage is understanding, but actually it's a key to any marriage. But also love, compassion, and patience matter too. i think that when two people come from different cultures they have a more interesting time together, they have to get to know each other and their cultures so much! i wouldn't care what culture my husband would be from as long as i love him. actually i know of so many marriages from the same race that ended in a divorce, so i don't see how that is not disgusting?

Nazanin

02-08-2005, 08:57 PM

Disgusting? Why would anyone even use that word?

CamiJoon

02-09-2005, 08:37 AM

Disgusting? Why would anyone even use that word?i don' know farnaz, this word has been very popular in this topic.

Nazanin

02-09-2005, 08:44 AM

I think not eveyone knows the meaning of disgusting & when to apply it in a response... It's all I can come up w/.

RedWine

03-23-2005, 07:26 PM

yek pesareh irani date bedeh beh ye girl kharegi ro midunam cheh jurieh vali in jalebeh baram bedunam keh yek girl irani,ba in hameh keh pedar va madar irani bashan va mosalmun bashan, ghabul mikonan keh dokhtareshun ba ye khareji beh charkheh ?

Nazanin

03-23-2005, 07:44 PM

:lol: @ becharkhe, kheili bahal bood :lol:

Man shakhsan I could never be w/ a khareji, aslan haal nemikonam... I just can't. I'm waaaaaaaaaaaaaay too irani ke bekham ba ye khareji basham.
Amma age bekham maman babam would never say anything, aslan az oun tarze fekra nadaran.

platinumandy

03-24-2005, 08:01 AM

no i dont think so...i think its just has to do with the personality ....if the guy is smart...he wil accept your culture and holidays and your beliefs....that goes the same for the girl....cuz i dated two african-american guys...and I had no problem and I've had a couple of mexican guys too....it just has to do with the personality!!
that's my onion! :D

RedWine

03-24-2005, 09:25 AM

tuyeh Germany,kheili az dokhtar irani mibinam har vaght keh miram unja keh ba german boys micharkhan.misheh goft 40%,jaleb injast ba mu abru meshki,beh hameh migan keh german hastan.lol

03-24-2005, 12:45 PM

aakh nagoo ke delam pore. to high school faghat iraani haa boodan ke hame moo meshki yeki parchame italy be kifesh zade bood yeki migoft italian hastam yeki migoft maadaram american hast ke ba'd gandesh daroomad va maadaresh too televisione iranihaa barnaaame gozash. 100% ham irani bood madaresh. vavava yeki america bood yeki siyaah, yeki russian . kholaase hame chiz boodan be gheir az irani. maa ham injaa hamin moshkel ro daarim.

Nazanin

03-24-2005, 12:54 PM

Iraniya ke ghorbooneshoon beram hame italian hastan

Anonymous

03-24-2005, 06:27 PM

i would love to marry someone from another culture so as to bring understanding and have my kids be more open . . . but, honestly, (although i hate to admit it) i dont think it would ever work. i dont mean this as an excuse but i am just too persian to marry someone who isnt. the person would miss a whole part of my personality, the BIGGEST part of who i am. Being persian is a part of who i am just as my family is. I cannot be described without being labeled as persian. THAT IS WHO I AM! I CAN NEVER CHANGE THAT! It would be incredibly hard if the person does not understand farsi because much of the beauty of the Iranian culture is in the language. i can try to explain it to him, but he will never understand and appreciate it in the same way that i do.

but a part of me believes that you dont have much control in who you fall in love with. if i fall in love with someone who isnt persian, then i will still marry him (because i will love him). i just think that the likelihood of me falling in love with someone who isnt persian is very small because we wont have a lot in common

but then again you never know . . .

Nazanin

03-24-2005, 07:12 PM

i would love to marry someone from another culture so as to bring understanding and have my kids be more open . . . but, honestly, (although i hate to admit it) i dont think it would ever work. i dont mean this as an excuse but i am just too persian to marry someone who isnt. the person would miss a whole part of my personality, the BIGGEST part of who i am. Being persian is a part of who i am just as my family is. I cannot be described without being labeled as persian. THAT IS WHO I AM! I CAN NEVER CHANGE THAT! It would be incredibly hard if the person does not understand farsi because much of the beauty of the Iranian culture is in the language. i can try to explain it to him, but he will never understand and appreciate it in the same way that i do.

Ok, this is scray... I feel like this is ME talking :shock:

03-24-2005, 07:26 PM

harche aayad khoosh aayad az long as she has a good body and oh yeah good presonality too. :P

saba_s

03-24-2005, 07:54 PM

harche aayad khoosh aayad az long as she has a good body and oh yeah good presonality too. :P

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

RedWine

03-26-2005, 08:47 AM

albateh keh nacionality kheili ham mohem nist ,vaghti keh do ta adam ashegh ham hastan vali dar kol ghazieh kar nemikoneh,kheili az mardahayeh irani mishnasam keh talagh gereftan az zaneh kharejishun va zaneh irani gereftan akharesh !.

Nazanin

03-26-2005, 11:16 AM

Man shakhsan I can't even fall in love ba ye gheyre irooni, yani it's so not possible.
Inghad gheyre momkene ke I can't even say well... u never know.

RedWine

03-26-2005, 01:16 PM

farnaz.love nah country mishnaseh va nah un chizi keh fekr mikoni,love zamani miad keh to montazeresh nisti,mikham behet begam keh nemisheh kheili motmaen bud keh adam faghat betuneh asheghe ye irani besheh va asheghe ye khareji nasheh,tuyeh in donia,hameh chizi emkan dareh .

Nazanin

03-26-2005, 01:48 PM

Bahat movafegham, vali man I SO can't be ba yek gheyre irani ke I could never leave that option open, vase hamine ke migam aslan emkanesh nist.
Masalan my option is totally open to meet an iranian guy, amma khareji... it's just out of the Q.

03-26-2005, 02:04 PM

damet garm farnaz ke enghadr aasheghe maa mardhaaye irani hasti.

Nazanin

03-26-2005, 02:06 PM

damet garm farnaz ke enghadr aasheghe maa mardhaaye irani hasti.

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Che konim dige... irani ro eshghe :wink:

RedWine

03-26-2005, 04:04 PM

farnaz good and deep idea :).zendeh bashi .

RedWine

09-10-2007, 08:30 AM

this is a question my friends have been pondering about for awhile!!

Is very easy after my experience and i am glad dating to the other non iranian girls... sex and fun :=) .

indian_blues

09-10-2007, 09:13 AM

you are truly open sia :)

iraniandudeee

11-09-2007, 05:23 PM

the nationalist I am, I would have to say I would not marry a non iranian. i wouldnt force my kids to date iranians only but I would encourage them to date their own people and love their culture,people,and allways be proud and not talk bad about their own people.

i would also stay away from having a different relationship with other people becouse intermixed marriages suck ars,and are mostly going to end badly.

thedarklord

11-16-2007, 03:41 AM

Strickly Written for Guys:(drunken hungover sleepless sleepingpill oding STYLE, so chicks wander away those virgin eyes)

My Opinion on the matter is FORGET PERSIAN GIRLS!

1. mostly ugly(90%), the ones that aren't you'd rarely ever see em or are left behind in Iran:mad:
2. too expensive to maintain, they whine and dine like a goddamn... well, u get the point
3. you have to spend so much dough and time to hit the spot... get a hooker for like 1/100000000000000th of that
4. those 3 facts above are more like guide lines than facts... treat em with respect(talking about the facts)

Non-Persian girls:

1.there's so many of them... :D now you can hand pick those hot red heads, blondes, brunettes, if you got a fetish for the ones with the aussie accent or british accent, or even japanese - very rare, like a diamond in the rough sort of thing - ones *cough* all in there...

2.if you're an actual persian guy, if you can call yourself a man, you can pretty much control the pace as you wish, from sex in the car at your first date to dumping her at her birthday.

3.you don't have to spend a cent... well, not true... but, hey you don't have to spend much either, easily pleased creatures, women are...

Freya

12-15-2008, 07:50 AM

khob...chi begam...in masale baraye man alan kheyli actuall
man nesbat be iran kharejiyam va mikham ba ye pesare irani ezdevaj konam, mikhayim aval dar iran zendegi konim va baad momkene berim keshvare dige. Midunam ke zendegi baraye man dar Iran sakht bashe chun ke unja farhange digast ama man in chizha ghabul mikonam. ma hamo kheyli dust darim va eshghemun komak mikone ke hame moshkelato hal konim.