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RedWine

07-22-2005, 12:40 PM

Do you agree to have sexual relation before marriage?

ProudPersian

07-23-2005, 11:59 AM

Yes I am. But I think that decision is for every man to decide for himself.

Najibam

07-23-2005, 01:36 PM

I don't know the future will tell, each individual should do what feels right for him/her and try not to be affected by the pressure and surroundings....

Najibam

07-23-2005, 01:37 PM

I don't know the future will tell, each individual should do what feels right for him/her and try not to be affected by the pressure and surroundings....

RedWine

07-24-2005, 08:59 AM

Najibam...To ziadi najibi :D j/k

Najibam

07-24-2005, 09:07 AM

Hahhaha so they keep telling me hahhaha that's why I chose this name...by the way what is the english translation fro najib?

elly khoshkele

07-27-2005, 05:36 AM

oh man!!! i have tp say NO!!! say that i am conservative stupid or omol(as hat iranians call it) agha aslan man motejaded nistam!!! man az 4salegi birun az iran budam vali hanuz hamun omolam!! be ghole babam mige ma hanuz ba 1400 sale pish zendegi mikonim(with refrence to such topics) but i respect other peoples views!!! i mean i am jus saying my own views!!!

07-27-2005, 03:23 PM

"مسايل غير اخلاقی"HAMATOON DAARIN. AKHLAAGHETOON SHAREE NIST. MAN AZ IN THREAD HAA KHOSHAM NEMIYAAD VALI THAT IS JUST MY OPINION.

RedWine

08-01-2005, 10:40 AM

IQ Hala manzooret chieh ? Virgin hasti root nemisheh begi ? moshkeli dari ? jait dard mikoneh ? ya chi ? chon nah kasi donbalet kardeh keh biai inja in ro bekhooni va nah kasi khasteh to chizi begi ! ageh behet marboot nist va nemifahmish,kheili rahat nakhoon va boro tuye jayeh digeh !

elly khoshkele

08-01-2005, 09:55 PM

baba redy hamino begu!! vali gonah dare in iq junam!!!11 naaaaaaa????? naziiii bacham khob virgine dige!! eshkali nadare ke eeeeeeeee ;)

elly khoshkele

08-01-2005, 09:56 PM

akh jun!! vote barate NO bishtar shod!1 i jus hope those who said NO were gas and not boyzzzzzzz!!!!! i mean fekresho bokonid pesara began NO!!! vayyyyyyychi mishe!!!!! fajeheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

08-07-2005, 09:41 AM

elly khoshkele

08-14-2005, 05:42 AM

baba iq chi shode??? have ur spirits been abdusted or sumting?? baba man mokhalef ba mazhab nistam!! man mohlese mazhab ham ahstam... vali iq...... to ke in kare nabudy ke azizam.....

RedWine

08-14-2005, 12:24 PM

LoL

Najibam

08-18-2005, 02:38 AM

HAR KASI TOO IN DONYAA VAZIFE DAARE MARDOM RO BE RAAHE RAAST HEDAAYAT KONE. :)

OMG you're so funny You sound like a ''sokhangar''

08-18-2005, 10:54 AM

TY :)

elly khoshkele

08-18-2005, 11:25 PM

Nushabeh

08-19-2005, 05:55 PM

aslan!

08-19-2005, 07:12 PM

eyval,eyval

Nushabeh

08-19-2005, 09:20 PM

bayatam intori basheh ;)

08-20-2005, 12:03 AM

daghighan

elly khoshkele

08-20-2005, 07:49 AM

ghabel nadasht!!!;) ru ro beram naaaaaa??

08-20-2005, 09:35 AM

Najibam

08-28-2005, 12:30 PM

najibam junam.. iq jun ro azyat nakon!! vagahrar nabud sarcastic bashima!!! ma inja hame ba ham dustim va e ham ehteram mizarim!! as in we respect each other's opinoins... iq jun ham opinionesh respectable hastesh... va jaye eftekahre baarye khodesh...

Mesenge misunderstand shod
Man az taye delam benazaram IQ jan banamake va omidvaram ke betoni in aghidam ra respect koni

elly khoshkele

08-29-2005, 08:46 PM

najibam junam.. sorry it was a misundertanding.. man aslan motevajeh nashodam ke chiro daram minevisam. man eh chize digaro khundam fekr akrdam ary iq ro amskhare mikone.. sorry aziz.. manzure abdi nadashtam azizam.. sorry

Najibam

08-30-2005, 06:00 AM

Na hich eshkali nadare...khejlia mano misunderstand mikonam..be haral benazaram iq khejli adame banamaki hastesh va as postash khejli khandidam aslan be tore maskhare nabod...

elly khoshkele

09-07-2005, 04:31 AM

are azizam... iq khyli naze.. va banamk.... be ahr hal bazam sorry azizam...

The way it is

09-15-2005, 01:20 PM

Everyone must be able to decide for himself, not another Person that choose for you. It´s your life, not the life of another person. That´s my opinion.

Anyone has it´s future in his own hands, the same thing with Sex and marriage, but anyone has his own reasons and his own thoughts how the world is spinning

Jeder ist seines eigen Glückes Schmied

elly khoshkele

09-17-2005, 10:52 PM

yes that is true but mr that is the way it is or miss...... wat u r saying is rite only if u r of a rite age.. wat if ur too young?? should u not seek advice first before u have sex for example... generalizing for this stuff is jus wrong i believe

The way it is

09-23-2005, 11:40 AM

wat u r saying is rite only if u r of a rite age.. wat if ur too young??

Who says they´re too young? the government, your parents, you?? Let them choose it´s they´re life, not yours.

An example, you have a boyfriend and yu would kiss him, but he say´s, whow that´s to fast, what are you doin´i´m only 14 and you would kiss me. What you says is, kissing belongs to a realtionship, it´s as normal as breath air. When you love, you can have Sex, that´s normal.

I don´t say kids under 14- 15 should have sex, but above they all know what they are doin´. But they mostly forgot one important thing, a condom or the pill.

And advice you can get from everyone if you want it.

ProudPersian

09-23-2005, 03:38 PM

There is one thing I never understood, being emotionally ready for sex? I mean come on, are you emotionally ready to eat or for hunger or whatever. I think that sex is as natural an impulse as hunger or thirst. If we try to block it the damage can be far worse than practicing safe sex.

The way it is

09-25-2005, 01:27 PM

That´s right, but when you never had sex you can´t have this "natural hunger and thirst" how you call it.

Everyone should be able to decide for himself. But it´s another question too. You´re a father or a mother and you have a daughter. Parents forbid girls the sex, and that´s more simple than with boys.

But is because of the education, and goes already centuries in such a way.
Girls get educated in order to provide for the children. some says now How, that´s not true, that was in former times.
Look in former times and look now, ok it is a better relationship with parents as in former times. But now girls were educated more closer. Look on boys at the age 10- 11, they play outside around to 8 at 10 o'clock. Girls have to come home very much rather.

it changed thus not much

c'est la vie

saeedhos

09-26-2005, 09:26 PM

salam begim yes or no che farghi dare waghti pash biofte maloome!! man ke 35 sale hanoz bakereye bakeram!!lol rosh tatoo zadam faghat wase edrar estefadeye digar mamnoe!

The way it is

09-27-2005, 12:37 PM

saeedhos, if you ment me please in english

saeedhos

09-27-2005, 01:15 PM

hi theway it iz
I didn't mean anyone ! it was just my ofinion!lol take eat eazy my englosh iz not good az you aRe that's why i used secound langouwich (farsi).also nothing wroung to be vergin even if you are 40!go see the movie you may lough a lill bet-bite-beat! shayad peyda konid porteghal froosh ra!

The way it is

09-27-2005, 01:45 PM

Ok, my english isn´t that good, too. But i ment the same thing as you be virgin as you want have sex if you want it. ;)

DariushM

09-27-2005, 05:49 PM

i think sex for youngsters is wrong(age16,15,..)
but for elders its like a handshake or at least i think it should be
men need sex more than women and women enjoy sex more than man
that has been proven

elly khoshkele

09-30-2005, 01:24 AM

ok you guyz are jus nuts..... yes sex should be a personal option...but it soooooo not true taht because girls are more educateds now theey can hve sex.. so where does religion and your personal moral beliefs step in?? i mean if i dont want to does that mean that i am not educated??/ for heavens sake man.. your parents do have a right to TELL you ehat to do.. even if your are 1000000years old... however if you want to FOLLOW waht they say is another story... so the DO have a RIGHT....

The way it is

09-30-2005, 08:12 AM

ok you guyz are jus nuts..... yes sex should be a personal option...but it soooooo not true taht because girls are more educateds now theey can hve sex..

Nobody said that

DariushM

09-30-2005, 08:44 PM

yes elly, nobody said that

ProudPersian

10-01-2005, 12:59 AM

I dont get why all cultures throughout history have placed such taboo on sex. I mean something as natural as anything other drive is now 'Original sin' or 'haram'. ??? And even if u haven't had sex u can still have sexual drive, or at least I think so.

I think it is horrible that our culture forces women to cover up, just so men dont get horny.

I also dont get how people want to control other peoples sex lives. I mean if someone wants to have sex let them. And if they want to be gay, or if they want to be polygamous that is their decision, why should anyone else step in?

Cop

10-01-2005, 01:22 AM

Sex ye chizze mesle ab khordan ghaza khordan.. :) ye chize ke ensan behesh niaz dare

10-01-2005, 01:33 AM

eh nabaabaa to rozzi 10 baar sex daari ke mesaale aaab miyaari :) monharefi badjoor

Cop

10-01-2005, 01:34 AM

lol baba IQQQQQQQQQQQQQQQ :p

Cop

10-01-2005, 01:34 AM

etefaghan to in canadaye kharab shode roozi 1 bar ab bokhoram kolli shahkarrre :D

10-01-2005, 01:35 AM

The way it is

10-01-2005, 06:45 AM

And if they want to be gay, or if they want to be polygamous that is their decision

Woh, that´s not true. Sorry, But there I must disappoint you. You does´t become simply gay because you wants it. That has to do with genetics.
To be gay is no illness, no fancy. This is pure ignorance to spread such things.

It lies in the genes, no more, not less

10-01-2005, 11:27 AM

I wonder how you know that THE WAY IT IS :):):):):)

ProudPersian

10-01-2005, 11:46 AM

No! NO! NO! . If there is one person who believes homosexuality is genetic, it is me. That is precisely why I say let gays who want to ENGAGE in homosexual activity do it. Forcing them to go underground and pretend to be straight is a horrible thing. It is like forcing a straight man to be gay.

The way it is

10-01-2005, 12:21 PM

I wonder how you know that THE WAY IT IS :):):):):)

General education IQ ;)

No! NO! NO! . If there is one person who believes homosexuality is genetic, it is me.

Why you say then it´s a personal decision to be gay or not?

DariushM

10-01-2005, 12:53 PM

he is saying thay have the right to be gay even if its aginst other people's believe.
first understan the statement then post comments about it.

RedWine

10-01-2005, 01:24 PM

lolz

The way it is

10-01-2005, 06:14 PM

I read, i understand and i post my comment

if they want to be gay...., that is their decision

I think my comments are right

elly khoshkele

10-02-2005, 02:03 AM

baba inja ghablan bahal buds chon hame farsy ahrf mizadan.. hala hame ingilisi harf mizanan.. baz shod khareji.. baba az kanal 2 berin kanal 1 dobare.... badesham.. sex mesle ab khordan nist... akhe eh dokhtar ya hata mard age bishtar eh sexual partner dashte bashe ke mariz mnishe ke.. mesle hiv va hezar jur marze dige... badehsam adam abo ahr ruz tu eh livan nemikhore.. jur va jur mikone.. vali gharar bashe ba harki har dafe bekahbe ke mishe faheshe ke... pas farghe faheshe ba adameye mamuli chiye??? be nzare man pesar ha ghabl az ezdevaj ham agar har chegahdr sex dashte bashan eshkali nadare.. vali eh dokhtar.... vbaba hayaye dokhtar kojast pas?? badesham.. gheyrate eh pesar iruni mikeshe ke zanesh dokhtar nabashe??

ProudPersian

10-02-2005, 10:43 AM

elly, junam ageh abeh kasif bokhori marise mishi. hamin injoori sex chizeh bad nist, vali bayad mohzem bashi keh. Just like filtering or cholrinating water makes it less likely that u get sick,if u use a condomn u are less likely to get sick. Also, shoma az har rootkhaneh ab nemikhori, as yeh jah ab mikhari keh midooni abesh khoobeh, hamin joori ba har kasi sex nemikoni.

elly khoshkele

10-03-2005, 06:41 AM

Nazanin

10-06-2005, 05:39 PM

vali manzure man ehy chize dige bud.. man migam ke sex ghabl az arusi baraye dokhtar khub nist... solae manam in bud ke aya gheyrate pesar iruni gahbul mikone ke zanet dokhtar nabashe va tahmundeye eki dige bashe???

Elly joon, 99.9% motmaenam ke harfai ke zadi ro ino oun too gooshet khoondan.
Chera Sex ghabl az ezdevaj baraye yek dokhtar khoob nist? Chon mardom migan? Chon jai neveshte shode?
This is a personal desicion that every dokhtar/pesar is entited to.
Rajebe "gheyrate pesar irooni" harf zadi, gheyrate pesar irooni che karas in vasat? Pesari/mardi mitoone hamchin tavaghoi ro dashte bashe ke khodesh ghabl az ezdevaj hezarta kesafat-kari nakarde, otherwise he can very well shut up.
Har dokhtar/pesari be ye jai mirese too zendegish ke ehsas mikone amadas vase hamchin kari & in be khode oun shakhs rabt dare & no one else.
As long as midooni dari chekar mikoni, u know the consequences & are doing it for the right reasons; then u do what u wanna do.

10-07-2005, 12:03 AM

AJAB:)

elly khoshkele

10-07-2005, 06:45 AM

bebin nazi junam.. harchi ham u va har akse digeyi ham bege.. va az in equal budane dokhtar va pesar harf bezane.. man bazam migam ke eshtebahe.. an chon ke tu gusham khundan... man hameye ormamo tu kharej bozorg shodam va hamishe azad budam... va sdecision hamo ham khodam migiram.... va be aksy ham rabty nadare.. vali man eh saol daram.... chera dozdi bade???? chon ke eh ja nevshte shode?? chon ke law wh keshvar mige?? in chiziye ke decision har adamiye....

vali ma chizi darim be name morals.... hata age unam ghabul nadashte bashy... chera sex ghabl az ezdevaj abraye dokhtar ro ghadimiya bad midunan?? chera HAMEYE adiyan ino bad midunan??? chon ek eh ja nevshte shode?? ya inke hamjashun maghze khar khorde budan??? doroste adiyan migan baraye mard ham abde.. vali zan eh chize digast!!! chera???

age eh chiziro hameye bozorgtara ha bad midunan... va javun ha khub.... tahala shode beshiniyo fekr bokoni ke chera una bad midunestan???

hatman migi chon khar budan.. chon rosahn ferk nabudan.. chon ke gahdimiyan....

vali un ghadimiya 4ta piran az mano to bishtar pare kardan...

hala una hichi.. scientist ha chi??? chera una migan ke dokhtar ha khub nist ke bishtar az eh sexual partner dashte bashn??? hata pesar ha vali bishtar dokhtar ha.... age eh dokhtary ghabl az ezdevaj ba kasi bekahbe.. adatr mishe.. pas ba har bf ke dare mikhabe.. va shayad ham one night stand ham dashte bashe....

hatman miporsy mage zane ezdevaj karde sex nadare?? chera dare.. vali fagaht ba eki.... hata vaghty eh zani tqalagh migire.. ta 3maho 10 ruz migan nabayad ezdevaj kone ya rabete dashte bashe.. tahal neshty va fekr konio chera????

hameye harfaye khoda va scientist ha dalil dare...

har che ghadr ham ke ma begim zano amrd equal hastan.. khodemuno ke nemitunim gool bezanim ke mitunim??? eh zanm zayeman mikone.. vali amrd na.. eh zan hamele msihe vali mard na.. eh zan virginitisho az dast mide vali mard na... ina fargh nistan????

hala harcheghadram ke rosahn ferk abshim.,.... bazi chiza avaz shodani nist.. hamun tor ke hamamun az shekame madaremun umadim... va az sperme pedaremun dorost shodim.. hala mishe man begam na.. amn az madarm dorost shodam va pedaram mano zayide?? chon ke equal hastan zano mard???

Nushabeh

10-07-2005, 09:15 PM

dotatoon khoob goftin ... vali har nafariyam harjur basheh tavagooi bishtar nabayat dashteh basheh ... masalan in pesareh keh bah hameh hamey karo kardan tavago daran keh zaneshoon virgin basheh that is gotta be the biggest joke ever chun agar mikhan intori bashan then they should get someone liek themselves biyan donbaleh yek dokhtareh paki keh hamey diseashoono begireh eww... va unhayham keh virgin hastan va tonostan beh moralseshoon va in chizi strong bashan bayat yeki mesleh khoodesh ezcehvaj konan .. miduni man keh tavagoam ineh keh yeki mesleh khoodam akheh ... ooo and that has to be biggest turn off ever kesi keh natuneh beh moralsesh stick koneh

elly khoshkele

10-08-2005, 09:43 PM

i agree with u totally nushabeh junam....... kamelan abhat movafegham aziam...

DariushM

11-09-2005, 11:53 PM

man ham ba sex ke hichi ba love ham mokhalef hastam benazar e man love be farsi yani be akhlaghi albate man daran e khareje ziad naboodam vally har kas be in amale gheyere islami dast bebrad marg e badi dar pish khahad dasth va sheytoon dahan e on ra shaksan morede enayat gharar midadahad:p
quote from marmoolak;)

nazy jan

11-10-2005, 12:34 PM

baba inja chi migzareh man ke aslan nafahmidam shoma chi migen aval az hameh IQ tu ki hasty?lol

nazy jan

11-10-2005, 12:35 PM

areh shayad man tazeh omadamo sar az karay shoma dar nemeyaram ama be har hale khoshhal mesham kamy sar dar beyaram
akheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

RedWine

11-10-2005, 12:52 PM

areh shayad man tazeh omadamo sar az karay shoma dar nemeyaram ama be har hale khoshhal mesham kamy sar dar beyaram
akheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Khosh umadi aziz ;) .

elly khoshkele

11-11-2005, 03:46 AM

akh jun nazi jun umad dobare................. khosh umady khanumi....

Michellica

11-11-2005, 01:53 PM

Sex before marriage...with the right one...

I think that it's important to have also sexual affinities with a partner before deciding to marry him/her :)

nazi jan

11-15-2005, 12:36 PM

merci bacheha

nazi jan

11-15-2005, 12:37 PM

thank guys

nazy143

11-16-2005, 12:34 PM

be nazar man,hale kardan ghable az ezdevaj ya bade az ezdevaj moshkely nest ,man harfy nadaram har kas o deleshe mikhad ya nemikhad

RedWine

11-16-2005, 12:56 PM

be nazar man,hale kardan ghable az ezdevaj ya bade az ezdevaj moshkely nest ,man harfy nadaram har kas o deleshe mikhad ya nemikhad

akh to cheh bahali :D :D

elly khoshkele

11-17-2005, 06:48 AM

daghighan redy jun.... khyeli bahaly....nazy 143

Nnazy 143

11-18-2005, 12:26 PM

merci elly khoshkele and red wine ama hanoz koja ro deden;) ;) ;)

Nnazy 143

11-18-2005, 12:29 PM

megam aaa DariushM you ki ba hale dadan ki hichy ba ishqe ham mukhalefy pas azizam mesheh bedonam chi jory mikhaye ezdvaj kony va bache dar beshy???

DariushM

11-18-2005, 10:26 PM

jigarage hamash ro bekhooni mibini akharesh neveshtam Quote from the movie marmoolak.:)
age post aye ghablim ro bekhooni (to safehaye ghable) mibi neveshtam man 100% ba sex ghabl az ezdevaj movafegham.
chon benazare man sex ye chizi hast ke badan lazem dare macle ghaza.

jjbb

11-18-2005, 11:40 PM

[QUOTE=IQ]"مسايل غير اخلاقی"HAMATOON DAARIN. AKHLAAGHETOON SHAREE NIST. MAN AZ IN THREAD HAA KHOSHAM NEMIYAAD VALI THAT IS JUST MY OPINION.[/QUO
are azizam midonam ke kheili akhlaghi hasti. pas che ra oon action oon dokhtar
ra to tamam postat mizary. yani chi

jjbb

11-18-2005, 11:43 PM

HAR KASI TOO IN DONYAA VAZIFE DAARE MARDOM RO BE RAAHE RAAST HEDAAYAT KONE. :)
man shenideh bodam ke migeh:
aval khodet a dorets kon bad be feker dorost kardan digaran bioft.

DariushM

11-18-2005, 11:56 PM

[مسايل غير اخلاقی"HAMATOON DAARIN. AKHLAAGHETOON SHAREE NIST. MAN AZ IN THREAD HAA KHOSHAM NEMIYAAD VALI THAT IS JUST MY OPINION.[/QUO
.

in ro ki neveshte?

jjbb

11-19-2005, 12:05 AM

be ghole mamanam.
harfe yeki az dostam in bood ke har chi ra nemidanest ke manbaesh kojast migoft be ghole mamanam.

DariushM

11-19-2005, 12:11 AM

postam ro bekhoon
dorostesh kardam

jjbb

11-23-2005, 12:00 AM

cham aghye aziz to ke rafti va dige nisti aghye 500+

RedWine

12-07-2005, 06:17 AM

be ghole mamanam.
harfe yeki az dostam in bood ke har chi ra nemidanest ke manbaesh kojast migoft be ghole mamanam.

Harfeh kheili khoobi zadeh :D .

RedWine

06-07-2006, 12:51 PM

digeh kasi nazari nadareh injaha :D !?

golgol85

06-08-2006, 01:05 AM

we've already argued this one out in other threads! ;)

donsaeid

07-31-2006, 07:02 AM

دوران بلوغ ـ كه در طي آن تغييراتي براي گذار از دوران كودكي به بزرگسالي ايجاد مي*شود ـ فرد را از نظر جسماني آماده فعاليت جنسي و توليد مثل مي*نمايد. نمو و گسترش بلوغ عاطفي اغلب بيشتر طول مي كشد و مستلزم آن است كه هم درباره خودتان ياد بگيريد و هم درباره چگونگي ارتباط با ديگران تجربه بياموزيد. آميزش جنسي ممكن است تجربه بسيار خوشايندي باشد كه احساس خوش و سرحال بودن را تقويت كند و علاوه بر آن آميزش جنسي منظم با همسر قادر است سلامتي قلبي ـ عروقي را بهبود بخشد و موجب طولاني*تر شدن عمر شود. با همه اين اوصاف، بايد از خطراتي كه آميزش جنسي براي سلامتي دارد ـ مثل بارداري و بيماري*هاي موسوم به عفونت*هاي منتقله از راه جنسي كه كلاً يا عمدتاً از طريق مقاربت منتقل مي*شوند ـ نيز آگاه باشيد.

روابط جنسي
ارضاي جنسي به تركيبي از عوامل جنسي و رواني بستگي دارد و آن چه كه درباره يك فرد يا يك زوج صادق است ممكن است مناسب ديگري نباشد. هم شما و هم همسرتان بايد از دفعات فعاليتي جنسي خرسند باشيد و بايد قادر باشيد درباره فعاليت*هاي كه برايتان لذت*بخش يا ناخوشايند است، گفتگو كنيد. هر كسي كه رابطه جنسي برقرار مي*كند بايد درباره عفونت*هاي منتقله از راه جنسي آگاه باشد و بداند كه چگونه مي*توان با*آميزش جنسي سالم و مطمئن خطر مواجهه با چنين بيماري*هايي را به حداقل رساند. (همين صفحه). علاوه بر آن، براي اجتناب از بارداري*هاي ناخواسته، بايد با روش*هاي پيشگيري از بارداري آشنا باشيد (به مبحث «روش*هاي پيشگيري از بارداري در مردان» ص 254 و «روش*هاي پيشگيري از بارداري در زنان» ص 276 مراجعه نماييد). گذراندن دوره*هايي از كاهش موقت ميل جنسي يا ناتواني در اجراي اعمال جنسي شايع است. (به مبحث «كاهش ميل جنسي در مردان» ص 250 و در «كاهش ميل جنسي در زنان» ص 272 مراجعه نماييد). چنين مسايلي اغلب ناشي از استرس يا مشكلات عاطفي يا نتيجه استفاده از الكل، داروهاي محرك يا بعضي از داروها است. اختلالاتي مثل ديابت قندي قادرند مشكلات جنسي بلند مدت*تري ايجاد نمايند. گفتگو با همسرتان درباره نگراني*هايي كه داريد، اهميت بسيار دارد. در صورت تداوم مشكل به پزشك خود رجوع كنيد.

آميزش جنسي سالم
معمولاً تماس با پوست آلوده يا مايعات بدن مثل مني، خون و ترشحات مهبلي، عامل انتشار عفونت*هاي منتقله از راه جنسي و بيماري* مقاربتي مي باشند. بسياري از انواع بيماري*هاي مقاربتي ناراحت كننده*اند ـ هرچند كه صرفاً مشكلات خفيف ايجاد مي*كنند ـ اما بعضي هم مثل عفونت ويروس ايمني انساني (بيماري ايدز) حيات را به مخاطره مي*افكنند. اقدامات ساده اي وجود دارند كه براي حمايت از خود مي توانيد انجام دهيد. در صورت ابتلا به عفونت*هاي منتقله از راه آميزشي، بايد تا هنگام درمان و علاج از عفونت، از فعاليت جنسي بپرهيزيد

purrsian_cat

07-31-2006, 10:30 AM

what does 'Are you degree....' mean?

Isn't there a mistake? hmm

donsaeid

07-31-2006, 10:53 AM

loool :D manzoresh ineke kelas chandomi to in kar? :D mahdekodaki? dabestani, ya daneshgahi :Dloool

purrsian_cat

07-31-2006, 11:44 AM

are you serious SAEID joon ?? lol

mahsa88

07-31-2006, 10:32 PM

i read half way through pg 3, bayad beram bedarsam...ama elly im jst shockd from what u said...how is it okay for a guy to have sex and not the girl? i dont get it.... hm!
i dnt believe what u jst said
oh well, i guess thats ur opinion!!!! bt from what u said im assuming that u dnt mind if ur huzband have had sex with many girlz...even though ur still a virgin ???

abadani69

07-31-2006, 10:36 PM

ha, mahsa asabani shod :D Mahsa joonam,take it easy azizam. watch your temper baby :D

Raiden

08-01-2006, 02:04 AM

ha, mahsa asabani shod :D Mahsa joonam,take it easy azizam. watch your temper baby :D

Maybe you shoud take it easy:D

mahsa88

08-01-2006, 08:20 PM

lol raidan,,,,abadaniz my bf, hez ma baby joon:D loool jkz...

RedWine

10-17-2006, 12:34 PM

lool... ajaba ! :D

DokhtarIrooni

10-18-2006, 06:10 PM

no sex before marriage

mtahmase

10-18-2006, 06:23 PM

It depends were you live.

RedWine

01-12-2007, 11:59 AM

no sex before marriage

You are so sure about that.. nice character :=) .

RedWine

03-08-2007, 07:45 AM

Any new opinion !?

asal67

03-08-2007, 10:41 AM

beghole yeki ghablan goft hala harchi mikhain sedam konin aghab otadeh,omol vali eeniam ke hastam and NO sex before marriage is my vote! ba eenke bozorg shode va motevalede kharej az Iranam vali hargez farhangamo faramoosh nakardam o nakhaham kard :cool: :mrgreen:

gg666

03-09-2007, 04:30 AM

ey babaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!

RedWine

03-09-2007, 04:32 AM

gg666

03-09-2007, 04:39 AM

chi migi sia??/to farhange irani az ghadim hame dame hejle mishestan ta bebinan taraf virgin hast ya na!..sh's right

RedWine

03-09-2007, 05:01 AM

chi migi sia??/to farhange irani az ghadim hame dame hejle mishestan ta bebinan taraf virgin hast ya na!..sh's right

Nah aziz, beh in farhang nemigan, beh in migan ''tarbiat'' ! farhang yek seri masael-e social hast keh bayad hameh rouy-e an tavafogh daran va rabti beh masael social nadareh va chizi nist keh beh mored-e amuzesh gozashteh besheh. nabayad farhang ra ba tarbiat va masael-e marbut beh society ro ghati kard !

Kasi keh nemikhad ghabl az ezdevaj sex anjam bedeh, cheh rabti beh farhang dareh ??? in masael, az nadani va nabudan amuzesh va parvaresh dorost sar cheshmeh migireh.in ha haman masaeli hastan keh neshan dahandeh nadashtan-e ehteram baray-e zan irani hast ! zan-e irani hamshieh bad bakht va bichareh budeh va hast ! hich vaght zan-e irani azadi nadashteh baray-e hich chizi. hala in ha cheh rabti be farhang dareh !!!!!!!!

donsaeid

03-09-2007, 07:34 AM

if sex before marrige is ok so what is special about marriage!? yek pesaro dokhtar vaghti tasmim migiran ba ham zendegi konan onvaght baraye sabet kardaneshon tanha chizi ke tak to donya hast ro be ham midan!

donsaeid

03-09-2007, 07:39 AM

va hame tafavogh daran ke sex ghable ezdevaj ok nist! faghat people who are afraid of binding them self, people who are easy, and people who are too horny and dont have ye farhange khanevadegi inkaro mikonan! very few have a really special reason to do it and has nothing to do with farhange khanevadegi or their personllity! f.ex. goole eshghe ye adame bi khanevadaro khordan!

so dont have sex before marriage unless you dont care about this! to farhange irani nist in majera! age khodeto irani nemidoni have as much you can have! but if you see your self iranian and want to follow it you are not having sex before marriage!

RedWine

03-09-2007, 07:42 AM

marriage ghablan arzesh dasht,ehteram dasht, ziba bud va hameh ba yek ehsas-e bozorgi az ezdevaj esteghbal mikardan vali digeh un zaman gozasht !! dar sharayeti keh dar keshvar-e khod-e ma beh lahaz-e masael-e ejtemaei va economic pesar ha nemitavanand ezdevaj konan pas cheh rah-e halli baray-e anha baghi mi manad?? in ghazieh hamin tor baray-e dokhtar ha ham hast !!!

Ba yek negah beh amar-e talagh va dalayel-e an misheh fahmid keh cheghadar zendegi va nazar-e mardom nesbat beh osul-e ezdevaj avaz shodeh !!!

Arzesh ha va ehteram ha az bein rafteh va ba in hesab har kasi ham delesh mikhad kar-e khodesh ro anjam bedeh va hastan afradi keh az ezdevaj su-e estefadeh mikonan va dalilesh ham hast beh khater-e nadani va nadashtan-e tarbiat-e khanevadegi !!! engari ba ezdevaj kardan mishavad moshkelat-e tarbiati va ejtemaei ra hal kard !!!

Beh har surat in ghazieh shakhsi hast, kasi keh mikhad sex ghabl az marriage anjam bedeh bayad azad basheh va behesh ehteram gozasht, cheh zan va cheh mard ! kasi keh nemikhad ham bayad behesh ehteram gozasht, bayad azadi dar har do taraf baghi bemuneh ta sharayeti mosavi bein-e zan va mard ijad besheh.

donsaeid

03-09-2007, 07:52 AM

freedom and anarki are two different things!

Farhang taghir mikone! Irani bodan taghir mikone! Dalile ezdevaj eshtebah hast dalil nemishe marriage eshtebah hast! ya marriage kasife!

Marriage is still beautiful, holy and best way to live! with right person!

one other problem is damanding too much! and dont wanting to make compremises!

People like many of us who give up with smallest problem and dont want to fight to keep that love! or give it new life!

one other thing!

you can have relationship without sex! sex isnt what relationship i about! relationship is a way to find out if that person is right for you!

gg666

03-10-2007, 06:56 AM

akhe siamak, vaghti migi az tarbiat hast, in tarbiat az nkoja sar cheshme migire?az farhang

vainke migi az haghooghe zane irani ke nadide gerefte mishe, bayad begam ke are ..hamine..ama in zana hastan ke bayad hagheshoono claim konan...
inam ke migam sex bayad ghabl az mariage tajrobe she, vase ineke bishtare masaeli ke baese talagh mishe sare sex hast...vase hamin bayad ghabl az ezdevaj ba sex ashna bashan..be khoda doosti dashtam ke farghe condom va abnabato nemidoonest..hala in che tor mitoone bad az ezdevaj sex life ro handlekoneh???va sad albate in be tarbiat ber migarde...

donsaeid

03-10-2007, 07:06 AM

hamechiro mishe yad gereft! ketab, film va kheili help hast ke adam bad az ezdevaj mitone estefade kone! va hatta ghable ezdevaj bekhone va yad begire! dostet farghe abnabat nemidonest taghsire tanbali va hemaghate khodesh bod! sorry to say that! ama etelaat ro adam bayad khodesh jam kone na inke ba sorang behesh tazrigh konan!

RedWine

03-10-2007, 07:13 AM

Man touy-e tamam-e omram, yek bar faghat a serious relationship dashtam keh 4 sal va nim tul keshid.Touy-e in 4 sal, daghighan mesl-e zan va shohar budim,faghat rafavot-esh in bud keh varaghe-i beh nazm-e ezdevaj nadashtim.

Zamani keh Passion and Love bein-e ma tamum shod, az ham joda shodim, alan ham doust hay-e kheili khubi ba ham hastim.

Hala shoma tassavor konid agar man ba in khanoum ezdevaj kardeh boudam ! 1001 mokafat va moshkelat pish mi umad..Khoda ro shokr keh intor nabud.

Nabayad adama khodeshun ro gul bezanan. Love and Passion bein-e zan va mard tamam mishavad yek rouzi,hamishegi nist, hala cheh behtar keh kasi ezdevaj nakoneh va khodesho payband-e yek seri ghavanin-e bikhodi nakoneh.

donsaeid

03-10-2007, 07:37 AM

age yek ensan ghal dashte bashe va bekhad oni eshgho alaghei ro ke ijad karde edame bede on eshgho alagharo tabdil be chizaye dige mikone! na inke az yeki be yeki dige bepare!

hala javoni miri biron eshgho hal! vaghti senni azat gozasht tanhaye tanha mondano dost dari! ezdevaj ye commitment for life hastesh!

zan va bache dashtan yek neemat hastesh! va na hame layegheshan!

RedWine

03-10-2007, 07:46 AM

Harf-e shoma dorost !!!

Hala nemisheh yek khanoum ya yek agha bedun-e ezdevaj ba yek kasi basheh va bacheh ham dashteh bashan ?

donsaeid

03-10-2007, 08:09 AM

Chera nemishe! but it isnt part of our Culture! this isnt something iranian! maybe in 25 years or 50 years it will be acceptable! but it isnt now!

RedWine

03-10-2007, 08:27 AM

Khoub shoma kasi ro intori nemishnasi vali bandeh afradi ham vatan ro mishneasam keh beh in surat zendegi mikonan va razi hastan !

donsaeid

03-10-2007, 01:12 PM

Fekr mikardam to fargh mikoni! Toam ba har iranie dige farghi nadari! va chizi ke nemidoniro comment mikoni!

i know beghadre kafi this kind of relationships! in norway it is very popular! Iranians do that too! ama it doesnt make it ok in iranian community here in norway! they are people who break with iranian culture and way of life!

gg666

03-11-2007, 04:37 AM

khob vase haminast migam ghabl azezdevaj adam vaghean mese zano shohar rabete dashte bashan siamak...manam hamin parsal engage karde boodam, ama khoda ro shokr mikonam ke beham khordesh,ba inke hich vaght dige kasio nemitoonam doost dashte basham, oontor ke oono doost dashtamo daram..ama khob baz khoda ro shokr mikonam ke zendegimo nazashtam tabah sheh...

RedWine

03-11-2007, 05:16 AM

In chiz ha hich rabti beh farhang va irani budan nadareh ! in ha masaeli hastan keh dar toul-e zendegi baray-e adam ha pish miad va nemisheh keh har vaght jaei eshtebah kardim,taghsir-e irani budan-e khodemun bezarim !

Har kodam az ma ha dar sharayet-e khass tarbiat shodeh va bozorg shodeh, in bi faydeh hast keh kasi bekhad touy-e in masael hagh ro beh kasi bedeh !

Zendegi sharayeti sakht baray-e adam ijad mikoneh keh ta zamani keh un ra tajrobeh nakoneh,bi faydeh khahad bud sohbat kardan azash !

Har kasi beh souy-e khod... ageh kasi fekr mikoneh in jur bayad basheh dar zendegi,bayad behesh ehteram gozasht,faghat in keh chizi ro nabayad beh kasi zur kard makhsusan beh khanum ha ! ezdevaj az birun kheili ghashangeh va famil sakhtan ziba ! vali hamash in chiz ha nist !

Afradi keh mikhan intor bashan dar zendegi, Omid varam keh moafagh bashan :=) .

gg666

03-11-2007, 05:26 AM

RedWine

03-11-2007, 05:41 AM

ghashang manzooreto nagereftam..ama inja az farhang harf nemizanam, yani toye post-e ghablim manzooram in bood ke tajrobeye sex ya ye relatione close dashte bashe ta tarafo beshnase...farhang manzooram nabood aziz..va tarbiate hamoontor ke shoma migi

Manzour-e man kheili sadeh hast !!!

Adam ta zamani keh in masael ro tajrobeh nakoneh,baray-e khodesh dastan sazi mikoneh, az har 100 nafar ham keh intor dastan sazi va khial pardazi mikonan ,shayad hatta 3 nafar ham beh arezoush nareseh va natuneh unjur keh bekhad zendegisho control koneh !

Sex, ezdevaj and etc ... in chiz ha beh surat natural dar zendegi adamha pish miad va besiar sakht misheh control kardeshun beh khosus vaghti keh senn-e paein dashteh bashi va bi tajrobeh va bi khabar az dar-e donya !

gg666

03-11-2007, 05:55 AM

doroste, sexo ezdevaj pish miad naturally, ama khob, masale injast ke bazia nemikhan bahash rooberoo shan...va albate bayad kheili adam havasesh jam bashe ke be moshkel bar nakhore...mifahmi ke chie manzooram...ama hala inja bar migarde be fahangeo tarbiate irani ke kame dasto paye javoonaro mibande ke be sexe mokhalef behtar ashna shan.

RedWine

03-11-2007, 09:58 AM

Pas farhang-e irani migeh keh hameh bayad ezdevaj konan va ba'adan sex anjam bedan ? Agar kasi in kar ro anjam nadeh va ezdevaj nakoneh va sex anjam bedeh bi farhang hast va irani nist !?

abadani69

03-11-2007, 10:16 AM

ha yeki be man bege in thread raje be chi e?man az in harfa hichi nemifahmam. Sex yani che?khordani e?age khordani e bedid man ham bokhoram :D

donsaeid

03-11-2007, 10:24 AM

Pas farhang-e irani migeh keh hameh bayad ezdevaj konan va ba'adan sex anjam bedan ? Agar kasi in kar ro anjam nadeh va ezdevaj nakoneh va sex anjam bedeh bi farhang hast va irani nist !?

He is breaking up with iranian culture and way of life!

RedWine

03-11-2007, 10:53 AM

He is breaking up with iranian culture and way of life!

Ohhh ... Pas yek 20 or 30 million-i mishan keh hesabi ''breaking Up'' kardan ba Iranian Culture... !

... Mousa beh din-e khod, Isa beh din-e khod.. ! Man faghat ba tikeh azad budan va azad andishi moafegham,baghiash Khoda bozorg-e :=) .

gg666

03-11-2007, 10:55 AM

siamak, mage farhange irani gheir az ine...nemifahmam chera bardashtet az farhange irani ine ke sex ghabl az ezdevaj ok hast! ama in hamishe rasm boode ke dokhtar ta damee ezdevaj sex nadashte badhe...alan kheili az dokhtaraye iranio(kharej az iran hata) say mikonan virjin bemonan...bebinam, mage masalan az ghadim inke migam shabe zafafo hejle o az in harfa, ina be tarbiat rabt dare???ya chizi hats ke rishash toye farhangemoone???va dastanesham bayad bedooni ke chio o ina! pas in farhange IRANI hast ke ba sex ghabl az ezdevaj mokhalefe..hala alan ke mibini bazia mikhan ghabl az ezdevaj sex dashte bashan, va be farhange irani kar nadaran, in marboot mishe tarbiat va tarze fekre taraf!!!!

badesham, age kasi ghabl az ezdevaj sex kone dalil bar bi farhangi nist! man chenin chizio nagoftam...amakhob ba adabo rosoome IRANI joor dar nemiad!!!
etefaghan be nazaram kasaye ke fekr mikonan sex ghabl az ezdevaj moshkeli nadare adamayee hastan ke baz fekr mikonan...albate be kasayee ham ke ba sex ghabl az ezdevaj mokhlefan ham ehteram mizaram...har ki nazare khodesho dare va bayad baraye aghayedesh beisteh...

donsaeid

03-11-2007, 10:58 AM

loooooooool az key tahala 3-4 ta aghle kol shodan 30 40 million? loool there isnt 30 40 million iranian in age of 20-30 even! looool harfe alaki nazaran joone dadash :D

RedWine

03-11-2007, 11:00 AM

loooooooool az key tahala 3-4 ta aghle kol shodan 30 40 million? loool there isnt 30 40 million iranian in age of 20-30 even! looool harfe alaki nazaran joone dadash :D

Inkeh shoma anjam nadadi keh dalil nemisheh baghieh ham ''Areh'' !!! delet khosheh aziz . Fekr mikoni mesleh ghadim hast hameh chiz hanuz !

donsaeid

03-11-2007, 11:06 AM

loooooool to tamame norway shayad 10 ta zoje irani nabashe az chand hezar irani! maaybe 1% inkaro mikonan! yani relationship bedone ezdevaj daran!

sex age darbareye on sohbat mikoni! bazam khis kardi :D loool kheilia to europe va iran daran! :D ama on ke nemishe zendegie moshtarak bedone ezdevaj hamekare sirish :D

abadani69

03-11-2007, 11:06 AM

kasi ke be man nagoft rajebe chi harf mizanid va tozoh nadadid ke sex chi e,vali az onjai ke fahmidam khordani nist.

Having sex before marriage is wrong, hala che farghi mikone pesar in kaaro bokone ya dokhtar. Vali mote'asefaneh too culture e ma iraniha in chiz dige az bein rafte va be ghole maroof age che dokhtar va ya che pesar horny baashan they just want to do it and this is wrong and it's a shame on them.

RedWine

03-11-2007, 11:08 AM

gg666

03-11-2007, 11:09 AM

arman in harfo khodet gofti digeh????are?????

abadani69

03-11-2007, 11:10 AM

na amat goft pas,mage chi goftam?harfe rast ro zadam :D

gg666

03-11-2007, 11:15 AM

siamak jan, ini ke migi doroste,vali khob alan ke az haghe zana migi, bayad begam ke( be onvane ye dokhtar) kasi be kasi rahm nemikone alan too in donya, digeh che beres ke kasi bekhad hoghooghe zano dark koneh..in khode zana hastan ke bayad hagheshoono claim konan,va ahamiat nadan ke beine zano mard fargh hast...bavar kon age intor fekr konan ba marda mosavi mishan ke hich, balke koli ham az marda jelo mizanan..va in chizie ke man behesh eteghad daramo zendegimo intor bana kardam..tori ke alan pesario nadidiam ke be sene man betoone moghiate ejtemaee va darsie mano dashte bashe..inam baraye ine ek yad gereftam ke chon zanam nabayad bekesham aghab...too khoonevadam ham tamame zanamoon koli sar tar az mardashoon hastan..
va iam bayad dokhtara o zana befahman ke hata toye sex life ham sex object nabashan..hamoontor ke ye mard be sex negh mikoneh, oona ham hamintor negah konan...oonvaght digeh az zani nemishnavi ke bege mardam faghat vase sex mano mikhad...va nesbat be sex oon hasasiato ta'asob az bein mire

gg666

03-11-2007, 11:17 AM

@ arman...ke amam goft???basheh!!!!

donsaeid

03-11-2007, 11:17 AM

Dava Dava :D vapar :D dava bararei bide :D

abadani69

03-11-2007, 11:19 AM

paria,chi e,dava dary baz?migiram mizanameta bache,beshin sare jaat :D

gg666

03-11-2007, 11:20 AM

na baba..dava nadaram...arman midoone chi migam...

abadani69

03-11-2007, 11:24 AM

ha man khodam vadoooonam,in paria jora'at nadare be man nazdik beshe che berese dava kone :D

gg666

03-11-2007, 11:26 AM

migam veldy gazet begire ha...sholoogh nakon, in thread ham jedie..beham nazan bahso taze dasht jav gir mishod !!!

asal67

03-14-2007, 12:50 PM

chi migi sia??/to farhange irani az ghadim hame dame hejle mishestan ta bebinan taraf virgin hast ya na!..sh's right

mersi! atleast someone here has some sense and agrees with me! :rolleyes:

gg666

03-14-2007, 03:20 PM

asal jan..its not just an common sense between you and me, it's a norm in our society..

asal67

03-14-2007, 04:37 PM

exactley but unfortunatly not everyone is willing to accept the true facts!

gg666

03-15-2007, 02:55 PM

belakhare yeki harfe mano fahmid...

asal67

03-15-2007, 03:18 PM

:mrgreen: ihim

Dokhtare_Malous

03-17-2007, 02:19 PM

Michellica

03-17-2007, 04:35 PM

age yeki sex dashte bashe ghable ezdevaj gonahe va khaily bade

koja bozorg shodi? in a convent? lol

Dokhtare_Malous

03-17-2007, 04:55 PM

for ur information no vali to khanevadee bozorg shodam ke iranie trust me va in opinione mane na kase digeyeee age shoma opinione dige darid well good luck

Michellica

03-17-2007, 05:02 PM

meh -___- ...... harki doost dare ghabl az marriage sex mikone harki ham doost nadare nemikone.. dige chi kare mardom darin akhe ke gonah kardan ya na....harki ekhtiare khodesho dare lol
Dar zemn sex chize kheili natural hast to zaate adamast belakhare che zood che dir che ghabl che bad hamamoon giresh mioftim lol

Dokhtare_Malous

03-17-2007, 05:16 PM

vala man nagoftam ke harki sex karde gonahkare goftam and takid ham kardam ke be nazere man bare khodam gonhae nagoftam bare hameye mardom u missundrestood me

asal67

03-19-2007, 04:11 PM

of course not sex has to come after marriage not before. adam bayad ezdevaj kone ta sex dashte bashe na inke ghable ezdevaj bashe benazaren man albate man intory fekr mikonam age yeki sex dashte bashe ghable ezdevaj gonahe va khaily bade

ta ye hodoodai moafegham malous jan vali oon ghesmate gonahe sho ziad moafegh nistam kheilli bad ke hast ama gonah?? roo khode adam dige bastegi dare..:)

zubin

03-27-2007, 09:09 AM

Yeki az dalayele eenke dokhtara ro nezarat meekonan ke sex ghabl az ezdevaj nadashte bashand eene ke, agar doroste ke dashte bashan, bayad daleel va andazeye oon cheez maaloom beshe va maani-dar beshe. Yek daleele khub bayad dashte bashe. Nemeekhay mesle bakhshi az amreka bi farhang beshe mozu, ke pesara heech cheez tu dokhtara be ghayr az sex va "tits and ***" nabeenand, va "porn" mesle deedane footbal beshe.

Daleelesh cheeye va ta che andazeii? Aya vaghti yek farhang eeno ejaze meede, bayad hameeshe eeno ejaze bede ya movaghatiye, ke konjkaviye adam seer beshe? Adam nemeetune bege hameeshe doroste. Shayad konjkavi seer beshe ye roozi va bachehaye oon gharn konjkavi ke gharn ghablo dashto nadashte bashan. Bayad yek rahe bargasht dashte bashe agar lazem beshe. Hameye een barressi bar asbe azadiye ensane. Yek moghe azadiye adam meege meekham, yek moghe meege nemeekham.

Een gharn, gharne konjkaviye va azadi vojud nadare va eshtebas. Vali avaz shodane een cheez bayad fekro kar beshe, va faghat eteraz kardan feshare hesab nashodei meeyare ke ba esse moshkele beeshtar meeshe.

Hal konid!

abadani69

03-29-2007, 05:21 PM

Salavattttttttttttt :D