When do you love, when do you care?

[Vandfald]

Hello everyone ...

Man ye soal daram. , ye dust daram ke taze tazegiiha ye dust pesar gerefte. Badesham in dato faghat 2'mah baham budan.. Bad emrouz dustam zang zad behem va ye soal az man poorsiid..

Goftes ke nemiduneh agar in pesararo dust dare ya vaghaen azash khoshesh miyad.. I mean, she didn't know if she loved him, or just care for him. and then she asked me if I could see what her feelings was.. badesh man ke goftam ke man un nistam vase un nemitunam behesh chizi begam. khodesh bayad bebineh chi ghalbesh mige..

nemikhastam behesh chizi begam, vali benezare man faghat az pesare khoshesh miyad.. :/ ?

vali hala ye soal man mikham bedunam.. when do you know that you REALLY love someone?. do you love, or do you just care?.. Honest, i think i had never loved someone. I think I have said to myself that I did, so I could wash my brain with the word LOVE.. but deep inside it was just the word "care", i had for the person..

Hope you did understand, and I don't know that if this Topic is a repost thing...

[jjbb]

when you are in love it seems you loos your mind and you only concentrate on him and now.
when you are in love you do anything for him you only seem him as the most beautiful person in the world
but remember that the real love has to be from both of the people not just one person
also remember the respect and trust has to exsist between both for the love to survive.

[Vandfald]

aight ...

i know what you mean, and i think that u got a point

[Cop]

aman az daste in dokhtara lol

[maloosak]

when ur in love youre willing to give every single thing that you have and had up, just to have that person next to you
i never really cared about someone.....so i dont know about that

[Vandfald]

aman az daste in dokhtara lol

Mage ma dokhtara chemuuneh??..

[Vandfald]

Hmm Okay ...

But some people who really love a person doesn't give everything they have, cause they are afraid, if you understand what I mean?...

[huebg]

Hmm Okay ...

But some people who really love a person doesn't give everything they have, cause they are afraid, if you understand what I mean?...

and some people that give everything are just infatuated....

a lot of things like "thinking about him/her a lot" or "a lot of sacrifice" can also be signs of severe infatuation.


i think love has an aspect of whether or not you feel more complete with that person, whether you feel like a better human because of that person in you life, and whether you feel like you can have those same impacts in the other person's life.

i also think you love when you see their faults but love them anyways. love shouldn't blind you, it should in fact make you more alive and more sensitive to the world.

i dunno, yani masalan manam balad shodam harf bezanam

[maloosak]

Hmm Okay ...

But some people who really love a person doesn't give everything they have, cause they are afraid, if you understand what I mean?...

no, i dont really get what you trying to say, but i mean if ur not willing to give the things u have for someone that you say ur IN LOVE with, how can u call it love?
ok there is something else, hich vaght kasio ke doost dary ba kasi moghayese nemikoni, vali kasi ke doosesh nadary va faghat vasat mohemme o fek mikoni azash khoshet miad ro hamash doost dary ba digaran moghayese koni balke behtar az oon o peyda koni ya ye bahooneyi dashte bashi pishe khodet vase inke doosesh nadary

[donsaeid]

afarin maloosak... khob hala ye soal... chera dokhtara hamash mikhan pesararo taghir bedan?
tarze lebas, mo, harf zadan, karashon? hatta tarze rah raftan va khandidan?

[maloosak]

chon pesara sar ta pashoon eshkal bide bidddddddddd, lol jk
khob shayad oon dokhtare fek mikone age ye chizayio too oon pesare avaz kone mitoone bishtar doosesh dashte bashe, man ta hala kasio nadidam ke bekhad hame chize pesario avaz kone, age az hich chie in pesare khoshesh nemiad bere ba yeki dige doost she, na?
amma kheily az pesara ham hastan ke mikhan dokhataro avaz konan, oona chera?

[donsaeid]

javabe khobi bod

chon betonan baraye hamishe dashte bashaneshon. masalan inghadr behesh ghaza midan ke chagh beshe... loool

[maloosak]

shayad yeki peyda she az dokhtaraye chagh khoshesh biad?

dastetoon roo shod, katakalleha, lol

[donsaeid]

hala nagoftam ke in plan 100% secure hast ke...

ama kollan chera bazi vaghta bazia ba ehsasate onyeki bazi mikonan?
eshghe 2 tarafe chize khobie... ama yektarafe baese marg mishe

[maloosak]

kamelan movafegham, khob man fek konam oonayi ke ba ehsase oonyeki bazi mikonan vaghean nemikhan intory beshe, khob oonmoghe adam ghadresho nemidoone, vaghty be khodet miay ke kheily dire, az roo tajrobe migamha...alaki nist