Why Do I feel the need to have someone?

[Vandfald]

I hate it. .

Kheyli sakhte, va vaghaen badam miyad ke man hamishe fekr mikonam ke ye chizi tu zendegim kam daram. Yes, it's a guy, I need, vali khodam nemikham ke injuri bashe. Mikham beduneh ye "mard" basham.

Vali hamishe ye feeling daram ke man vaghaen unaa kam daram ( i don't have someone on my mind, but it's just a feeling ). chetori man mitunam in ehsas'o bebaram?.. I just want to have fun with my friends & family, cause I think that i'm toooo young to go in a relationship.

[golgol85]

bezar behet begam azizam, its completely normal to want someone in your life. It looks like you havent been hurt yet, which is why you want someone in your life. I'm glad you havent gotten hurt yet.
After getting hurt, most people are either 1) too afraid of getting into relationships or 2)if the ex is from a certain background (like say an indian or a persian), they stay away from that ethnic group thinking the relationship didnt work because the person was (indian, persian, etc.).

There is no age to have a bf or gf, the thing is you have to find the right person who shares similar ideals and values. Honestly, you cant get rid of your feelings because they are normal. You dont seem like the type to be boy crazy, so just go with the flow.

[maloosak]

i agree that there is nothing u can do about this feeling, but i dont like the idea of "u feel this way caus u havent been hurt" part. i think even if u get hurt u would want to saty away from guys for only and only 2 weeks, and there we go again u either wanna get back with ur ex or want a new guy thinkin that it was just ur ex that was an idiot and didnt stay with u.

[Narges-Khanoom]

Hmmm...... if you need one why dont u find one ha?????? he's not gonna eat u!!!
I'm joking, yeah as golgol said u cant get rid of ur feelings, u have 2 options:
1. find a guy
2. just put up with it

[me_89]

i dont need ne1 coz im independent

[me_89]

lol kiddin but i dont need ne1

[Vandfald]

Okay..

I see, but it's not that easy to go and find someone like that. I just want to find a other why to "cover" this feeling, if you know what I mean. It's hard to get in a relationship. One of my old ones had ruin my life. :/ it's very scary how people can hate each other, when they cared about each other once.

[me_89]

i love afshin too hes so fukin hot i love him

[bluesky_152000]

u dont need to pressure urself to find a guy. Y do u feel the need? bcoz ur a normal person. the question is: how are u gonna sustain the need? cheer up! bcoz i dont know how... hehehe just kidding

[Vandfald]

I don't know why. I feel a emptyness in my life. I like when a guy can pretect me, wich is a stupid thaught to have. I hate it, cause life is beautiful without someone, if you have a great family and great friends, but stil you feel a empty place in your heart.. :/ argghh

[me_89]

omg just velesh kon do u like afshin??? i love him

[Vandfald]

me_89

That's not what the thread is about. But yes, I love afshin.

[donsaeid]

i guess you both need him... but he is just one girls man... so you have to fight over him... and i will be the judge of that...

[me_89]

wow cool hes hot

[Vandfald]

i guess you both need him... but he is just one girls man... so you have to fight over him... and i will be the judge of that...

hah, my new boyfriend is Kamyar from the black cats.