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How to Be Comfortable Around That Special Someone
You have a special "someone" that you really like, but when you see them, you get nervous. You want to go over to talk to them, but you get the feeling that you just want to run away. You fear you might say the wrong thing, make a foolish remark, when instead, you want to make a good impression on them. When this happens, take a deep breath, relax and just 'be yourself'.
Steps
Don't try to be someone you're not. Don't giggle and don't slouch. If you were with a few other people, try to steer the conversation to things that you know about. When you talk, try to make eye contact with this 'special' someone, and get them into the conversation.
Ask if they would like to take a walk, or go for a coke, just to let them know that you are interested.
Talk about a new movie that you saw, and ask if they have seen it.
When you feel yourself getting nervous, take small deep breathes, inhaling through your nose, and exhaling through your mouth. Practice this at home, and you will get good at it, so that when you do it in a group, no one will ever notice.
Forget your attraction to this 'special' someone. Just think of them as a special friend, and things will go great.
Tips
You both might be just as nervous being around each other, so just think of friendships, and talk about what friends talk about together.
It is okay if you act a little nervous when you are together. Don't worry about it, just think of nice things and the nervous feeling will pass.
Steps
Don't try to be someone you're not. Don't giggle and don't slouch. If you were with a few other people, try to steer the conversation to things that you know about. When you talk, try to make eye contact with this 'special' someone, and get them into the conversation.
Ask if they would like to take a walk, or go for a coke, just to let them know that you are interested.
Talk about a new movie that you saw, and ask if they have seen it.
When you feel yourself getting nervous, take small deep breathes, inhaling through your nose, and exhaling through your mouth. Practice this at home, and you will get good at it, so that when you do it in a group, no one will ever notice.
Forget your attraction to this 'special' someone. Just think of them as a special friend, and things will go great.
Tips
You both might be just as nervous being around each other, so just think of friendships, and talk about what friends talk about together.
It is okay if you act a little nervous when you are together. Don't worry about it, just think of nice things and the nervous feeling will pass.
Tnx
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