Ezdevaj-e Zoud Ya Dir ?

[jsmith]

salam bache ha....
bazia doost daran ke zood ezdevaj konan va in ke faghat ba ye nafar bashan baraye hamishe va eshgheshoon faghat baraye oon bashe...va bazia ham doost daran ke ta ye senne balaiiii ba hame beran va fun dashte bashan va vaghti ke khaste shodan badan ezdevaj konan.....bazia ham aslan barashoon mohem nist....bazia ham ke aslan nemikhan ezdevaj konan......
SHOMA AZ CHE TIIPP ADAMIII HASTIIN???
nazaratetoono inja bediiin va begiiin ke chera....aslan doost dariiin adame tarafe moghabeletoon che joori bashe???

[Parinaz_M]

We already have this thread mr. saeed
badesh ham en vase ghesmate love sectionE na general section

[jsmith]

to ham ke hamash zedde hali...eshkal nadare....love ham jozve general hesab mishe...avaze inke zedde hal vazani...nazareto vade....

[Parinaz_M]

We already have this thread in the LOVE SECTION

[jsmith]

baba pariii khodeto jer dadiaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.....pakesh kon kheialeto khodeto rahat kon dige....hey roo nerve ma rah mire....

[jjbb]

man dost daram ke zood ezdevage konam chon delam mikhad ke az zendigim lezat bebaram be ja inke dar fekre peyda kardane hamsaram basham.
ye dost daram ke 31 saleshe va nemidoni ke chi kar mikoneh ke shohar peyda koneh.... az karash khandatoon migereh. az baske donbale pesara mikone ke oon bandeh khodah farari mishan agar che dokhtare khobiye. fekr mikonam chon senesh balast tavaghoatesham ham fargh mikoneh va moshgel pasand shodeh.....

[jsmith]

are manam doost daram ke zood ezdevaj konam ishalla...vali har chi khoda bekhad...kheili haro mishnasam ke mikhastan zood ezdevaj konan vali ta piiriishoon natoonestan ....khob har chi ghesmat bashe...

[jsmith]

lol..akharesh mano move dadan inja...

[jjbb]

khob rafti iran kasi ro didi? ezdevag kardi?

[jjbb]

mikhastam bedonam ke aya agar aghayaon beran Iran va ezdevag konan in khobe ya bad?


to dehate ma in aghayon irani raftan bad az ye ezdevag na matlob ba amricaei ha ..az iran ye dehati digero inja ovordan. bishtareshon ham bad az 1-2 sale be talagh monjar shodeh.

[mike435]

early ezdevag you get to grow with your spouse and built a better more stable life.

late ezdevage is a big headach too much obligations and wants.

[Nutcase]

good point mike

[golgol85]

the downfalls to early marriage is that you dont know how to deal with life's ups and downs (be ghole maroof adam zood az kooreh dar mireh). its nice to grow with eachother, but young marriage entails not being mature enough or having had the time to grow indivivually, let alone the ability to grow with someone else.

[Michellica]

har adami ye joorie..har adami mogheye khodesho dare ...harvakht adam ready bashe hamchin important step begire va adame khoobi dar kenaresh bashe oonja moghesh mishe...

[persian_king]

Be nazare man, Eshgh ye bar bishtar nabayad bashe, yani adam faghat bayad ba ye nafar bashe, chon har bari ke shoma asheghe ye nafar mishid az eshgheton kam mishe baraye hamine ke hamishe eshghe avali ke dar zendegy ye nafar be vojod miad az hameye eshghaye badi ke pish miad ghavitare o to yade adam mimone.
man shakhsan az on adamhaee hastam ke zood gharare ezdevaj konam va dalile khaase khodam ro ham daram.
1. vaghty ye pesar ya dokhtar javoon ezdevaj mikone saresh be zendegish garm mishe donbale chizhaye bihoode nemire az jomleh dokhtar bazy ya pesar bazy.
2. pooleton dar jahate behtar shodan nzendegiton hadar mishe bejaye inke baraye dokhtarha ya pesarhaye mokhtalef kharj konid.
3. vaghty ye nafar zood ezdevaj mikone asaas o paayeye zendegish ro mitoneh ba shariksh berizeh bar khlaafe kheili az ezdevajhaye alan ke marde mire dars mikhone mese khar ye karehe mishe bad ezdevaj mikone o khanom bedon inke baraye on zendegy zahmaty keshide bashe vared zendegy rahaty mishe o dar natijeh ghadr on zendegy ro nemidone ka dar nahayat ham 80% be talagh khatemeh peida mikone.

4. bachehae ke bedonya mian ekhtelaf seny kami khahand dasht ba pedar madar va dar natijeh tafahom o dark bishtary hast beyne bacheha o pedar madar dar in khanevadeh.
5.rasm o sonat ma iraniha az ghadim in bood ke pesar o dokhtar zood ezdevaj konan ke raahe zendegishon ro peida konan va be ghole maroof rooye paye khodeshon vaysan.
6. ma iraniha motasefaneh az zamani ke vared ghorbat shodim rasm o sonate khodemon ro faramosh kardim o chon mikham mesle digaran raftar konim akhlagh o raftare khodemon ro ham faramosh mikonim, bahse doost dokhtar dashtan ya doost pesar dashtan ham ye chizi hast ke ma az in kharejiha yad gereftim , masalan hamin ke migan adam bayad ta 30 ya 35 salegy haal kone ba in dokhtar ba on dokhtar ya bar aks ba in pesar ba on pesar bashe bad ezdevaj kone be nazar man ghalateh, chon in faghat ye tarafe majera hastesh va tarafe dige ke ehsasate ma asib dide dar in modat ke ba adamhaye mokhtalef boodim dar nazar gerefte nemishe, dar zemn bishtarin moshkelate talaghe kharejiha sare hamin ertebaate ehsasy bish az andazeh hast ke ghabl az ezdevaj daran baham.