Bring Love Into a Relationship

[Rasputin]

If you're young and in a relationship, it can be difficult to know how to let it progress. This should help.

Steps

Don't rush into saying "I love you"! Take the time to realize what it is that you're saying, that it means something. Unless you can feel like this is a promise, that you will feel like this for the rest of your life, then don't say it!

Make sure you trust, admire, and respect the person you are with. Can you see being with him or her forever? Can you really talk to each other? About anything? Can you be honest with and support each other? Do you have meaningful conversations? Do you mean something to each other? Is the relationship exclusive, serious, long-term, mature, meaningful, loving, trustful, truthful, respectful, and so on? If the answer is yes, then you may be heading towards love.

Take the physical/sexual aspect of the relationship slowly as well. This will give you time to develop other aspects of your relationship. Like the verbal, psychological, mental, emotional, affectionate, and other kinds of intimacy / closeness that has nothing to do with the physical or sexual stuff.


Tips

Trust your instincts.

Make time for each other.

Spend time apart as well.

Connect/bond - on a deeper level (than physical, etc.) with one another - let there be time for the emotional, psychological, mental, and verbal (etc.) intimacy or closeness to grow, expand, and develop (etc).

[Parinaz_M]

give love so you can get love back, that's how the relationship grows

[Rasputin]

Proactive people make love a verb. Love is something you do: the sacrifices you make, the giving of self, like a mother bringing a newborn into the world. If you want to study love, study those who sacrifice for others, even for people who offend or do not love in return. If you are a parent, look at the love you have for the children you sacrificed for. Love is a value that is actualized through loving actions. Proactive people subordinate feelings to values. Love, the feeling, can be recaptured.

- Stephen R. Covey

[Dokhtare_Malous]

never give love cause aslan arzeshesho nadare ke bad delet beshkane

[indian_blues]

1) RESPECT your love(bf/gf)
2) always be yourself
3) be truthful to urself and to ur love
4) be frank and be communicative
5) be caring and loving

for me these are the important things needed for a successful relationships.

[Rasputin]

never give love cause aslan arzeshesho nadare ke bad delet beshkane

azizam khoub nist keh shoma na omid bashi ! shoma hanouz kheili javouni ! ham bahoush hasti va ham meharboun ! hatman eshgh ro peida khahi kard,bayad baray-e beh dast avordan-e chiz hay-e khoub hamisheh bayad sabr kard :=) .