our problematic behavior

[Anonymous]

i have a complaint..why do we as iranians, hold so many grudges against others..maybe it's only in the older generations but i always see people holding somthing against another person in their family for no real reason and they could just solve it by getting over it or apologizing(which i know is impossible amongst iranians)...like my cousin is not speaking to me for 3 years now over something dumb and now has the adacity to invite my family to her graduation though she knows she hates to speak to me..just needed to vent..and thought you all may be able to relate to hehe..enjoy your friday!!

[Timsar]

we have a lot of ghoroor, and that does not let us to appologize to other, other thing is it runs in our blood, i mean in lots of family it's like when some thing happenes they make it in to a big problem, and others put their nose in it and make it worst than it is...

but in ur case, she might be jelouse to something, or u might have hurt her in some way, that she is taking it that seriuose...

[HonestAbe]

sheri,

Could this invitation be a peace offering?

[sherifeh]

i wish i could say it is..now we are not going. she had the adacity to send her dad to come ask my dad to come..she could nto even come on her own to ask him..i think she is crazy! whatever..it's her day and i dont think us being there would make her happy..

[Timsar]

first of all the glass is always half empty

second of that, i say screw ppl like that, if they have attitude like, i can not stand ppl like that,,, to chera khodet narahat mikoni, mohem nist aslan, so who cares, and i am sure u do not care...

[Anonymous]

hey guys I have a prob
there is this guy in ma school, who absolutely scares the shit outta me! and I am tryin to ignore him but as ma friends put it " he is after me" so yeah anyways today when I didn talk to him he got pissed and called me a shitty name but I was scared to answer him back, but ma friends are like u donn have the guts and shit, so wut the hell am I supposed to do?!

[Anonymous]

ignore him and dont let him think you care about what he says, people like that can be llike dogs, they like it when you give them attention when they are ugly to you..you have to have respect for yourself and make sure he reallizes he cannot do t hat
u area lady right?

[Anonymous]

well yeah I am tryin to ignore the jerk, but I mean I donn like to be caleld all those shitty names u know! and also he scares me!