Is no sex before marriage outdated?

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  • zubin
    Member
    • Aug 2006
    • 1567
    #1

    Is no sex before marriage outdated?

    Contraception, media, but also perhaps human nature, have contributed to the argument that sex before marriage is outdated. Even families who are EG devoutly Christian, albiet modern, do not seem to be able to, and care to, prevent their children having sex before marraige.

    The arguments for sex before marriage include that

    (1) due to modern circumstances such as contraception and media, it will be hard to prevent someone from sex before marriage without substantially affecting the person's health and well being.

    (2) these new circumstances do not give rise to a "necessary evil", but are in fact desirable, enhancing the chances of a happy life.

    If anyone has arguments are rebuttals on this topic feel free.
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    Take him and cut him out in little stars,
    and he will make the face of heaven so fine,
    that all the world will be in love with night,
    and pay no worship to the garish sun
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    • abadani69
      Senior Member
      • Aug 2005
      • 21339
      #2
      Yes it's outdated, too in dore zamoone dokhtar va ya pesare virgin peida nemishe. Har ki ham bege i am virgin doroogh gofte, albate az har 100 nafari ke began Virging hastan maybe 2 of them are telling the truth.

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        • DokhtarIrooni
          Senior Member
          • Sep 2006
          • 2347
          #3
          age pesar nemikhan ghabl az ezdevaj virgin bashe pas chera dokhtara bayad bashan? benzare man okay hast age dokhtar virgin nabashe, vali age ye dokhtar khodesh nakhad ghabl az ezdevaj ba kesi bashe oonam eshkal nadareh. Mardom harjoor khodeshoon doost daran zendegi konan
          ~ Bahar ~

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            • Dokhtar Bandari
              Member
              • Oct 2007
              • 1099
              #4
              I am estil a bergin...
              I would be true, for there are those who trust me;
              I would be pure, for there are those who care;
              I would be strong, for there is much to suffer;
              I would be brave, for there is much to dare.
              I would be friend of all—the foe—the friendless;
              I would be giving and forget the gift;
              I would be humble, for I know my weakness;
              I would look up and laugh—and love—and lift.
              Howard Walter

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                • abadani69
                  Senior Member
                  • Aug 2005
                  • 21339
                  #5
                  yeah Redwine and I too
                  Originally posted by Dokhtar Bandari View Post
                  I am estil a bergin...

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                    • zubin
                      Member
                      • Aug 2006
                      • 1567
                      #6
                      you're right perhaps. women have been discriminated against regarding sex before marriage. some would say that its not discrimination because men are by nature more driven than women, but that just seems like an excuse to cage women to me. Its a question of science. In any case, I personally agree with you, though perhaps some people wouldn't.

                      Originally posted by DokhtarIrooni View Post
                      age pesar nemikhan ghabl az ezdevaj virgin bashe pas chera dokhtara bayad bashan? benzare man okay hast age dokhtar virgin nabashe, vali age ye dokhtar khodesh nakhad ghabl az ezdevaj ba kesi bashe oonam eshkal nadareh. Mardom harjoor khodeshoon doost daran zendegi konan
                      Take him and cut him out in little stars,
                      and he will make the face of heaven so fine,
                      that all the world will be in love with night,
                      and pay no worship to the garish sun
                      - Shakespeare

                      "In all intellectual debates, both sides tend to be correct in what they affirm, and wrong in what they deny." - JS Mill

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                        • zubin
                          Member
                          • Aug 2006
                          • 1567
                          #7
                          Originally posted by DokhtarIrooni View Post
                          age pesar nemikhan ghabl az ezdevaj virgin bashe pas chera dokhtara bayad bashan? benzare man okay hast age dokhtar virgin nabashe, vali age ye dokhtar khodesh nakhad ghabl az ezdevaj ba kesi bashe oonam eshkal nadareh. Mardom harjoor khodeshoon doost daran zendegi konan
                          Originally posted by zubin View Post
                          you're right perhaps. women have been discriminated against regarding sex before marriage. some would say that its not discrimination because men are by nature more driven than women, but that just seems like an excuse to cage women to me. Its a question of science. In any case, I personally agree with you, though perhaps some people wouldn't.
                          yadam raft be farsi beneveesam. meegam man nazaram ba shomas, faghat bazi-ha khahand goft ke pesara jenseshun be sex b4 marriage beeshtar meekhore... vali man shakhsan eteghad nadaram.
                          Take him and cut him out in little stars,
                          and he will make the face of heaven so fine,
                          that all the world will be in love with night,
                          and pay no worship to the garish sun
                          - Shakespeare

                          "In all intellectual debates, both sides tend to be correct in what they affirm, and wrong in what they deny." - JS Mill

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