What do you do when you are attracted to a person?
So you find him/her really cute and what’s more you really like him/her! The trouble is when he/she is around you go all tongue tied, blush or act all ‘weird’ and fake around him/her.
It may be that you’ve found yourself getting agitated, anxious, self conscious or shy when talking to opposite sex. Especially if you are attracted to them.
I think the more important we feel someone is, the more anxious we tend to feel. However too much concern about how we are coming across prevents us from being natural and spontaneous(doing fun stuff). To be confident with anyone we are attracted to, all we need to do is relax I think. This is a world away from feeling tongue tied or as if you keep saying the ‘wrong thing'.
When we start to relax with the person we find attractive, our natural qualities can shine through so he/she can make up their mind about the 'real us'. After all, if he/she is worth having a relationship with, he/she better like you for who you are!
Do you think its easier said than done? How do you relax around the person that you like or are attracted to?
So you find him/her really cute and what’s more you really like him/her! The trouble is when he/she is around you go all tongue tied, blush or act all ‘weird’ and fake around him/her.
It may be that you’ve found yourself getting agitated, anxious, self conscious or shy when talking to opposite sex. Especially if you are attracted to them.
I think the more important we feel someone is, the more anxious we tend to feel. However too much concern about how we are coming across prevents us from being natural and spontaneous(doing fun stuff). To be confident with anyone we are attracted to, all we need to do is relax I think. This is a world away from feeling tongue tied or as if you keep saying the ‘wrong thing'.
When we start to relax with the person we find attractive, our natural qualities can shine through so he/she can make up their mind about the 'real us'. After all, if he/she is worth having a relationship with, he/she better like you for who you are!
Do you think its easier said than done? How do you relax around the person that you like or are attracted to?
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