How do you know when someone is giving you a sign?

[zubin]

how do you know when someone is giving you a sign? does a sign of interest have different features than a sign of friendship?

how can someone tell when they are becoming closer to someone if the signs are of interest or friendship?

for example, person X is getting the feeling that the other person he is getting to know is giving them signs. but they also gets the feeling that some other signs are just signs of friendship. how can the person tell if that person is really interested?

is it possible that some people (ahem, the ladies), are careless in their sign-giving?



i think this is an interesting topic, especially if the ladies had any answers for the guys. ofcourse if any of the guys have answers that would also be very interesting.

[DokhtarIrooni]

does a sign of interest have different features than a sign of friendship?

Yes! you can tell by the way she looks at you, talks to you and BODYLANGUAGE. Unless she is hiding her feelings and dosnt want you to know, then you may not be able to see any signs, but just notice the things i mentioned and you will most likely be able to read the signs.

[zubin]

Yes! you can tell by the way she looks at you, talks to you and BODYLANGUAGE. Unless she is hiding her feelings and dosnt want you to know, then you may not be able to see any signs, but just notice the things i mentioned and you will most likely be able to read the signs.

thank you! i wish you could take a picture of the two "looks" you are talking about so we can see the difference lol.


two problems left. what if she IS hiding her feelings? and then also what if you are interacting virtually (over the internet)?

[purrsian_cat]

lol some people hide there feelings though... and act ignorant. Either because they are shy/insecure or maybe they want to play hard to get.. sometimes this can make it obvious that they are interested...but probably takes longer to recognise

[csite]

well two things to say really, when you get to know someone over the net they let themselves and their insecurities go, so the person you think you know may well not be the person you see in real life, you maybe pleased or disappointed!!

Second thing is women are needy creatures, they may well use you just to talk yet have no interest in you, there are some really selfish girls out there and you only gain experience and become a stronger better person through those experiences, it's all about playing the game! my advice to you is stay away from e-women and go for the real thing, then you won't have all the pressure trying to work her out.

If you want to know if youre friends or not, try and point the conversation to intimate things, joke around abit, see how she responds, that will give you a few answers, also if she tells you her problems, secrets, issues (and believe me they have tons of that stuff ) nd stuff it's a good thing, just make sure she doesnt unload on you all the time, then you just become that shoulder to cry on and nothing more.

[zubin]

thanks for the answers. its interesting to get everyone's view.

[abadani69]

Well if I want to show my interest in someone, I usually try to be funny to get that person's attention that I like her. It has always been working for me. Eventhough I always try to make people laughing, but if I like someone and want to show my interest I try to make her laugh more Dont think I am tarifing of myself, no, but this is the way I am

Also, adam bayad ghorooresho kenar bezare age fekr mikone kasi azash khoshesh omade va khodesh ham az taraf badesh nemiyad vali inghadr maghrooore ke interest neshoon nade be taraf.

[zubin]

vali inghadr maghrooore ke interest neshoon nade be taraf.

pas interest meegi neshun nade, ya bede?

hads meezanam meegi neshun nade, chon neshun dadan kheyli jazab neest, makhsusan baraye aghayun, doroste?

[abadani69]

na manzooram ine adam bayad ghoroooresho bezare kenar va harfesho be tarafi ke khoshesh miyad azash bezaneee

pas interest meegi neshun nade, ya bede?

hads meezanam meegi neshun nade, chon neshun dadan kheyli jazab neest, makhsusan baraye aghayun, doroste?

[zubin]

na manzooram ine adam bayad ghoroooresho bezare kenar va harfesho be tarafi ke khoshesh miyad azash bezaneee

che jaleb. man een harfi ke gofti az yeki deege ke be oon ham kheyli etemad daram sheneedam. fekr konam harfe dorosti bashe.

vali ehtemali neest be moghe ya yek jur khas bayad bege?

farz kon yeki zud ashegh meeshe, zud tar az baghye. oon ham bayad bege? taraf shayad faghat yek zare shoshesh beeyad va amade nabashe. heech ehtemali neest ba een kar mozu "kharab" beshe? makhsusan vaghti khub nemeeshnasan ham deege ro hanuz.

[abadani69]

are baba man hamishe harfam doroste I always see if a girl is showing interest I go ask her DO YOU WANT ME???? foghesh mige yes or no. bege NO I tell her pas boro gomsho ke liyaghat nadariii age ham bege YES ke migamesh you've chosen the right guyyyyy