My Heart ... hurts

[Nazanin]

I suggest u read my post over & over again, it might end up making sense to u

[IQ]

Re: My Heart ... hurts

My heart hurts



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[worthless_boy]

[worthless_boy]

[Nazanin]

I understand that this is a very difficult time for u, but what she wants is for u to leave her alone because she's moved-on w/ her life & u need to do the same.
The fact that u keep contacting her will only make her more angry & will make her say things that'll hurt u because she's angry & wants u to leave her alone. So why would u want to hurt urself? She's making it very clear that she doesn't want u anymore; u pushing isn't gonna make her change her mind, trust me.
Just let her be & move-on, it's the best thing u could do for urself.

[worthless_boy]

@Nazanin, can I ask something?

You told that a former boyfriend "stalked"(stalker) you.

What had he done, that it felt like Hell.

Sorry that i ask, but i want to know that, because i dont want to be a Stalker, how i said I want to see her happy, nothing more, a smile from her, is so amazing. ..... oh god

[angel]

iam so sorry to c how u got hurt. in my opinion she is not worthy of ur love so why don't u save it for a person who will love u back in the the same way.it hurts but be brave. i know that love makes u blind but try and see her bad habits and how she hurt u. if she comes back to u can u ever guarantee that she won't won't leave again???? and put u through the same thing. have u ever thought about why she didn't give u any explanation???????? i tell u why coz she took u as a fool had her fun with u & now she need some one new so think hard about it is she what u want?

[worthless_boy]

[worthless_boy]

[angel]

look darling if she had the guts & good reason she would have told u but it seems to me that she had never loved u in the first place & she dosent have any respect nor 4 love or 4 the good times u had so why should u beat ur self 4 such a creature that hasen't got any heart.im sure if she had any explanation she would have enterd as a guest in forum and defended her self.
look i might not know u but would u do something 4 me? change ur user name coz im sure u not worthless, think of people who love u iam sure u worth alot 2 them.

[worthless_boy]

[Riaz]

Madabozorge man Man to ra doost daram

[Riaz]

angel's right

[Nazanin]

@Nazanin, can I ask something?

You told that a former boyfriend "stalked"(stalker) you.

What had he done, that it felt like Hell.

He wasn't my bf, although there were feelings involved. He was deeply in love, I wasn't.
Let me spare u the details & just tell u that when someone makes a decision like that, when they make it very clear that they don't want u in their life anymore & that it's over, it means that it's OVER.
If there were to be any hope for the 2 of u to get back together, it would've happened by now, trust me.
The fact that u keep on insisting & trying to contact her is only gonna make her angry at u, & at one point she's gonna be so angry that she'll say mean things that'll hurt u ever more.
Just accept the fact that it's over & MOVE ON w/ ur life, she certainly has, it's time u did the same.
I told u already, it's not easy, there's gonna be a lot of sleepless nights/tears/heartache, but it'll PASS, I promise u.
It's just smtng u have to go through in order to get on w/ the rest of ur life. Why would u want to hurt urself? Because by doing what u're doing, YOU are the one who's going after the pain, if only u would accept that it's over between the 2 of u, u would be able to move on.
Why would anybody wanna hurt themselves on purpose?
I understand that u want to speak to her one more time, but what's that gonna do? Huh? What's it gonna change? If smtng were to change, it would've happened by now. U speaking to her once more is only going to get u more hurt & make it harder to let go.

[angel]

i coldn't put it any better.listen to nazanin she is totally right & im sure she is talking from experience.