Sexual relation before the marriage

[ProudPersian]

There is one thing I never understood, being emotionally ready for sex? I mean come on, are you emotionally ready to eat or for hunger or whatever. I think that sex is as natural an impulse as hunger or thirst. If we try to block it the damage can be far worse than practicing safe sex.

[The way it is]

That´s right, but when you never had sex you can´t have this "natural hunger and thirst" how you call it.

Everyone should be able to decide for himself. But it´s another question too. You´re a father or a mother and you have a daughter. Parents forbid girls the sex, and that´s more simple than with boys.

But is because of the education, and goes already centuries in such a way.
Girls get educated in order to provide for the children. some says now How, that´s not true, that was in former times.
Look in former times and look now, ok it is a better relationship with parents as in former times. But now girls were educated more closer. Look on boys at the age 10- 11, they play outside around to 8 at 10 o'clock. Girls have to come home very much rather.

it changed thus not much


c'est la vie

[saeedhos]

salam begim yes or no che farghi dare waghti pash biofte maloome!! man ke 35 sale hanoz bakereye bakeram!!lol rosh tatoo zadam faghat wase edrar estefadeye digar mamnoe!

[The way it is]

saeedhos, if you ment me please in english

[saeedhos]

hi theway it iz
I didn't mean anyone ! it was just my ofinion!lol take eat eazy my englosh iz not good az you aRe that's why i used secound langouwich (farsi).also nothing wroung to be vergin even if you are 40!go see the movie you may lough a lill bet-bite-beat! shayad peyda konid porteghal froosh ra!

[The way it is]

Ok, my english isn´t that good, too. But i ment the same thing as you be virgin as you want have sex if you want it.

[Dariush]

i think sex for youngsters is wrong(age16,15,..)
but for elders its like a handshake or at least i think it should be
men need sex more than women and women enjoy sex more than man
that has been proven

[elly khoshkele]

ok you guyz are jus nuts..... yes sex should be a personal option...but it soooooo not true taht because girls are more educateds now theey can hve sex.. so where does religion and your personal moral beliefs step in?? i mean if i dont want to does that mean that i am not educated??/ for heavens sake man.. your parents do have a right to TELL you ehat to do.. even if your are 1000000years old... however if you want to FOLLOW waht they say is another story... so the DO have a RIGHT....

[The way it is]

ok you guyz are jus nuts..... yes sex should be a personal option...but it soooooo not true taht because girls are more educateds now theey can hve sex..

Nobody said that

[Dariush]

yes elly, nobody said that

[ProudPersian]

I dont get why all cultures throughout history have placed such taboo on sex. I mean something as natural as anything other drive is now 'Original sin' or 'haram'. ??? And even if u haven't had sex u can still have sexual drive, or at least I think so.

I think it is horrible that our culture forces women to cover up, just so men dont get horny.

I also dont get how people want to control other peoples sex lives. I mean if someone wants to have sex let them. And if they want to be gay, or if they want to be polygamous that is their decision, why should anyone else step in?

[Cop]

Sex ye chizze mesle ab khordan ghaza khordan.. ye chize ke ensan behesh niaz dare

[IQ]

eh nabaabaa to rozzi 10 baar sex daari ke mesaale aaab miyaari monharefi badjoor

[Cop]

lol baba IQQQQQQQQQQQQQQQ

[Cop]

etefaghan to in canadaye kharab shode roozi 1 bar ab bokhoram kolli shahkarrre