people like similar people

[zubin]

i can see what you mean with your comment.
But dont you think that the personality of a couple are similar, because thats why they get along so well? im not talking about 5 years down the line when theyve obviously had to adjust certain habits etc in order to get along - im talking about earlier on in the relationship, e.g. when you actually sit down with your other half and you see that you both have v.similar opinions, tastes, etc... when u notice at the beginning that theres a spark btwn you two...

exactly, if we're talking about a short-term, serious relationship, which is an oxymoron, then yes similar people are perfect for each other. but if our target is long-term serious relationships, opposites...

[SuperWoman]

i dont think there are any rules .... these are all man-made .... people can have happy lives together either way, similar or opposite ....

these are the exact norms and beliefs in the society that makes people bias and ruin their lives ... we should really use our own brains instead of relying what society whats us to belive ....


just my 2cents

[zubin]

yeah people, use your brains! lol....