help....what should i do?

[huebg]

Ghabl az inkeh 2 nafar ashegh beshan bayad ba ham doost beshan ! beh Khoda eshkal tooyeh asheghi nist ! eshkal ineh keh adamha balad nistan ba ham doost bashan va badesh ashegheh ham beshan ! doosti bedooneh eshgh va ehsas emkan dareh vali eshgh bedooneh ehsas va doosti gheire momken hast !

mashallah, dagheeghan doroste. vaghe'an aafareen....

[Parinaz_M]

omidvaram ke hich vaght baraye kasi jodayi pish nayad, vali agar mikhay rahat tar az yek nafar joda beshin say konid hich vaght vabaste nashin, va bad az jodayi hamishe fekr konid ke shayad on taraf baraye shoma naboode.
hamishe mosbat fekr konid va bavar dashte bashid ke kasaye dige ham hastan ke shomaro mitonan khoshbakht konan

[Vandfald]

i understand what you're saying, but the way to work it out isn't to brand one as the bad guy, but find the right balance between the two.....

i also think i know what you mean by missing someone to love, even though ive never actually been in love. like whenever i think of marriage though, i feel this special feeling of haivng someone to love, having someone to care about you unconditionally and 24/7, having someone whose happiness is directly related to yours, having someone that you can call your OWN. it's all a part of life i guess, and all you need to do i think is be patient and let things develop, as i'm slowly finding out now. i think that it's going to be harder for you, because you've already experienced having someone, etc. so you know you want it. i dunno what to expect, and so i dont think i've developed that need yet....

in any case, inshallah you will find someone, all you need is patience...

Thanks dear. sweet of you, but i think that your are right. i have to be patient, but it's really really hard. akhe man unchizi az x'am mikhastam hichvaght nagereftam, and that's why i feel that i really didn't get what i wanted, so now i feel something is very emty inside me. and that's why i'm so DOWN - well, but i guess i just must get over it. it's easy when i'm out with my girls, i even don't think off him, but as soon as i come home and don't know what to do, all i do is thinking of the great times we had together, and then i begin to miss him really.

[Vandfald]

Shoma tanha kasi nisti keh intori ehsas mikoni ! hameh intorian va in ham normal hast !

Shoma barayeh chi vabasteh mishi beh yek pesar zamani keh hanooz enghadar e'etemad va alagheh ghavi nist beineh shoma va un agha !! In maleh zamanieh keh chand sal begzareh,taraf vaghean beh shoma neshoon bedeh keh ashegheh shomast ! asheghi beh harf va boosidan va in chiza nist ! asheghi yani taraf az khodesh begzareh,shoma az khodet begzari va az joon mayeh begzari ! asheghi yani fadakari ! yani inkeh ekhtelafati keh beineh 2 nafar hast dideh nasheh va tanha shabahatha ehsas besheh !

Ghabl az inkeh 2 nafar ashegh beshan bayad ba ham doost beshan ! beh Khoda eshkal tooyeh asheghi nist ! eshkal ineh keh adamha balad nistan ba ham doost bashan va badesh ashegheh ham beshan ! doosti bedooneh eshgh va ehsas emkan dareh vali eshgh bedooneh ehsas va doosti gheire momken hast !

benazaram doorost gofti, ke adama balad nistan ke cheruriii ashegh beshan. it's even hard for me. i think the one little mistake you make can end up everything . man hamishe vaghti ba x'am ghar mikardam hichvaght behesh nemineveshtam, unam hamishe akharaaa khaste mishood behem zang mizad bad migoft ke kheyli badash miyad ke hamishe un bayad behem zang bezaneh, manam ke fekr mikardam khodamoo mibordam bala, vali fahmidam ke kheyli khaste shood , bad dige nakhast ... and now i see that i was a little bit stupid, why i didn't show some "love" back to him, and didn't show him that i couldn't without him if i didn't heard from him in many days, but that's how people are, only thinking about now, not tomoorrow

[huebg]

loneliness is probably one of the worst and hardest things on this planet...just be strong and patient....learn and go on....

[taranom21]

there is many diffrent way to find out that she has a same feeling

1:az ye nafar bekhah ke nazaresho dar moredet gheire mostaghim beporse
2:saay kon befahmi ke dar morede u hasod hast ya na?(if u hang out with another girl)
3:if she is not in love with you, she wouldn't wast her time to talk on the phone with you.
4:hich vaght entezar nadashte bash ke ye dokhtar alaghasho aval neshon bede. hich dokhtari pishghadam nemishe vase in kar, never