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  • Rasputin
    Senior Member
    • Jan 2005
    • 63906

    #1

    How to Hug

    How to hug a friend, a family-member, a crush or a lover.

    Steps

    Approach the person. Depending on the person's relationship to you, you might want to approach differently:

    Family Hug: Approach kindly, but not too emotionally.

    Friend Hug (girls): Approach caringly, sometimes humorously, and smile.

    Friend Hug (guys): Approach quickly, usually not looking them in the eye.

    Crush Hug: Approach carefully, but do not seem shy. Smile slightly and perhaps say a caring word or two.

    Lover Hug: It doesn't matter who starts this, both guy or girl can make it just as romantic. However, if it is the guy starting, when approaching, put your hands on her shoulders and look her into the eyes. Say you love her.
    Embrace.

    Family Hug: You can keep talking when hugging; it will not ruin the momentum. Place your hands randomly; the hugged won't think it over too much. Press gently, it is not nescesarry to have head-contact. Stroke your hands quickly across the top of the hugged's back. Smile when letting go.

    Friend Hug (girls): Close your eyes when hugging and think about how much you love your friend when hugging. Press as much as you feel like. Do not clap the hugged on the shoulders or such; its too masculine and some girls think you don't like them if you do it the guys way.

    Friend Hug (boys): Embrace strongly, and clap eachothers on the top of your backs. If it's an emotional moment, keep in the hugged position for a brief moment and do not clap eachother's backs.

    Crush Hug: Press the hugged warmingly towards you. If you are a man, remember that it is more masculine and more protective to fold your arms under hers. Her arms should be around your neck, and you should be embracing her around the waist. When pressing her against you, you can lift her up a bit, pressing her chest and upper stomach against yours. Keep it in that position for a while, and then let go. Look her in the eyes when you seperate and continue the conversation naturally.

    Lover Hug: Carefully sliding your hands down from her shoulders, put them on her waist and slide them around ther lower back. Put your head on her shoulder and press her towards you for as long as you like. If you want to you can give her a small massage with your hands, and try to warm her. When seperating you can look her into the eyes, smile genuinely and if the situation is fitting, kiss her.


    Warnings

    Do not confuse a lover hug with a friend hug. Things might get complicated.

    iran
  • nanakhafan
    BEST Member of Spring
    • Dec 2005
    • 11016

    #2
    i really dont like hugs
    holding hands is better



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    • golgol85
      Senior Member
      • Jan 2006
      • 4957

      #3
      it depends who is doing the hugging, and personally i dont initiate hugs, but i dont mind receiving them

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      • kami joon
        Senior Member
        • Dec 2005
        • 4870

        #4
        It is so difficult.
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        • donsaeid
          Senior Member
          • Nov 2005
          • 28300

          #5
          loool

          Friend Hug (guys): Approach quickly, usually not looking them in the eye.
          Friend Hug (boys): Embrace strongly, and clap eachothers on the top of your backs. If it's an emotional moment, keep in the hugged position for a brief moment and do not clap eachother's backs.

          age arom bashe va to cheshmesh nega konim yan che?
          نه غزه نه لبنان جانم فدای ایران


          «در زندگی زخم*هايی هست که مثل خوره روح را آهسته در انزوا می*خورد و می*تراشد.»
          صادق هدايت؛ بوف کور

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          • golgol85
            Senior Member
            • Jan 2006
            • 4957

            #6
            yani asheghesh shodi dige, in ke soal nadare saeid.

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            • maloosak
              Senior Member
              • Dec 2005
              • 2753

              #7
              Originally posted by donsaeid
              loool

              Friend Hug (guys): Approach quickly, usually not looking them in the eye.
              Friend Hug (boys): Embrace strongly, and clap eachothers on the top of your backs. If it's an emotional moment, keep in the hugged position for a brief moment and do not clap eachother's backs.

              age arom bashe va to cheshmesh nega konim yan che?
              yani ur gay azizam, loooool to naha, ooni ke inkaro mikone
              farghe taghdiro jonoono hichkasi be ma nagofte
              beza etefaghe akhar vase joftemoon biofte

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              • donsaeid
                Senior Member
                • Nov 2005
                • 28300

                #8
                Originally posted by golgol85
                yani asheghesh shodi dige, in ke soal nadare saeid.
                man bara yeki az dostam porsidam
                نه غزه نه لبنان جانم فدای ایران


                «در زندگی زخم*هايی هست که مثل خوره روح را آهسته در انزوا می*خورد و می*تراشد.»
                صادق هدايت؛ بوف کور

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                • Parinaz_M
                  Senior Member
                  • Mar 2003
                  • 19964

                  #9
                  ajab dooste khoobi hasti to dige







                  God made Coke,
                  God made Pepsi,
                  God made Persian girls so DAMN SEXY!!!

                  ~Zende Bad Iran Va Irani~

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                  • golgol85
                    Senior Member
                    • Jan 2006
                    • 4957

                    #10
                    vaghean ke! suure thats what they all say, ke daran vase "doosteshoon" miporsan your secret is safe with us, be hichki nemigim

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                    • donsaeid
                      Senior Member
                      • Nov 2005
                      • 28300

                      #11
                      loooooooooool
                      نه غزه نه لبنان جانم فدای ایران


                      «در زندگی زخم*هايی هست که مثل خوره روح را آهسته در انزوا می*خورد و می*تراشد.»
                      صادق هدايت؛ بوف کور

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                      • Parinaz_M
                        Senior Member
                        • Mar 2003
                        • 19964

                        #12
                        ha khoshet omad na?







                        God made Coke,
                        God made Pepsi,
                        God made Persian girls so DAMN SEXY!!!

                        ~Zende Bad Iran Va Irani~

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                        • abadani69
                          Senior Member
                          • Aug 2005
                          • 21339

                          #13
                          ha pari biya ye hug bede

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                          • Parinaz_M
                            Senior Member
                            • Mar 2003
                            • 19964

                            #14
                            ahhhhhhhh to boro aval oon avatoreto avaz kon







                            God made Coke,
                            God made Pepsi,
                            God made Persian girls so DAMN SEXY!!!

                            ~Zende Bad Iran Va Irani~

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                            • abadani69
                              Senior Member
                              • Aug 2005
                              • 21339

                              #15
                              baba man khoone nistam ke bekham avazesh konam No Chit Chat by the way

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