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  • platinumandy
    Member
    • Feb 2004
    • 145

    #1

    SHOULD I BE WITH HIM!

    hi ok
    there is this guy dat i like (unfortunetly)
    he never calls me
    he hadnt,hasnt wont ever will...take me out
    he told me not to tell anyone we're together
    and he forgot my birthday!!!
    and he doesnt care abotu me!!!!!!!!!
    but after i broke up with him for those reasons
    my cousin asked me if i can call him i didnt care i gave her his number
    and she called him..and the first thing he said to her was happy birthday!!!!
    and how can u ****'n forget mine!!!!!!!! we were together for a month or so...i dont expect any gifts i didnt expect anything...and when it was his b-day i bought a freak'n shirt a cologne and a card...now why he forgot my birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    for some reason i like him and i cant get him out of my head and he treats me like im invisible im no none to him...
  • donsaeid
    Senior Member
    • Nov 2005
    • 28300

    #2
    you may have feelings for him still so i will be kind...

    To hell with Him! there is much better guys, much nicer guys and guys who deserve you out there! he doesnt! F him

    sorry if i was too harsh
    نه غزه نه لبنان جانم فدای ایران


    «در زندگی زخم*هايی هست که مثل خوره روح را آهسته در انزوا می*خورد و می*تراشد.»
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    • amour
      Newbie
      • Sep 2006
      • 5

      #3
      i hate when guys do that, your willing to spill your heart for them and they could care less. all i can say is that i hope it dosnt take u a long time to get over him, cuz when u do end up getting over him, you will feel that you wasted all those times caring about something thats not worth it.
      <333

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      • donsaeid
        Senior Member
        • Nov 2005
        • 28300

        #4
        good answer!!!

        I was kind of in a same thing once! and the bad guy was a girl dont think bad about all guys because one did hurt you
        نه غزه نه لبنان جانم فدای ایران


        «در زندگی زخم*هايی هست که مثل خوره روح را آهسته در انزوا می*خورد و می*تراشد.»
        صادق هدايت؛ بوف کور

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        • persianprinceAE
          Newbie
          • Jan 2006
          • 10

          #5
          sweetheart, from a guys stand point, u should ignore him and get with another guy, ur posing no challenge for him! or else hez jus a dick!!!

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          • Lime_Margarita
            Member
            • Aug 2006
            • 328

            #6
            honeyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy, i know how u must feel ;O( aww i wish i was there i could slap u and take u out and make u forget all about him at least for a night..lol listen,malome ke in wants his cake and eat it too. dont give him the satisfaction..and i would be abit more CARFULL ba ondoostet, i wouldnt go out with someone ke doostam ro date karde or bedonam doostam feelings dareh barash.. anyhow u sound pretty young and trust me one day u laugh at this...i'm sure he's a nice guy, but not the RIGHT ONE FOR YOU...i hope u use these reason to forget all about him ok?? u can msg me if u like boos boos
            Its hard to pretend you love someone when you don't
            but its harder to pretend that you don't love someone when you really do.

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            • golgol85
              Senior Member
              • Jan 2006
              • 4957

              #7
              you cant choose who you fall for and obviously you made a mistake in who you chose to like. its better you found out how he is now than further down the road. someone who asks you to not tell anyone about your relationship is worthless i tell you, WORTHLESS! you can do much better, just distance yourself from him but remember to come to terms with your feelings because if you dont this will bother you everytime you see him or think of him. I am a bit surprized your cousin would go for a jerk like this guy, but you cant do anything about her choices, just make sure you dont go back to this loser.

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              • platinumandy
                Member
                • Feb 2004
                • 145

                #8
                aaaaaaaw thank u guys!!! im gonna forget about him!!!!!! ur right!!!
                i just want a good look'n guy tall eduacated..who respects me and loves me for who i am, AND DOESNT FORGET MY B-DAY'S!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (
                but thank u guys!!!! I LOVE YA'LL!!!

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                • golgol85
                  Senior Member
                  • Jan 2006
                  • 4957

                  #9
                  dont forget to look to find someone who has a good looking inside, its more important than a good looking outside. he has to be goodlooking so that you are attracted to him, but remember even the most good looking man becomes average and ordinary to you when you spend time with him. if he is great looking but with a bad attitude and a rotten heart, his looks wont matter to you after the first couple of dates. but if he has a beautiful heart then he may not be the best looking man, but his sweet nature will make him more handsome in your eyes and you will grow to love him more. educated is definately a good thing to want in a guy, not because education means that he will be rich or anything like that, but education trains the mind. you're cute, find someone who will respect you and like you for you.

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                  • donsaeid
                    Senior Member
                    • Nov 2005
                    • 28300

                    #10
                    platina to karet doroste faghat ye slap on face mikhasti baraye wake up bazi vaghta eshgh adamo koor mikone niga masalan man kore koram alan
                    نه غزه نه لبنان جانم فدای ایران


                    «در زندگی زخم*هايی هست که مثل خوره روح را آهسته در انزوا می*خورد و می*تراشد.»
                    صادق هدايت؛ بوف کور

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                    • indian_blues
                      Member
                      • Aug 2006
                      • 1893

                      #11
                      Originally posted by golgol85 View Post
                      dont forget to look to find someone who has a good looking inside, its more important than a good looking outside. he has to be goodlooking so that you are attracted to him, but remember even the most good looking man becomes average and ordinary to you when you spend time with him. if he is great looking but with a bad attitude and a rotten heart, his looks wont matter to you after the first couple of dates. but if he has a beautiful heart then he may not be the best looking man, but his sweet nature will make him more handsome in your eyes and you will grow to love him more. educated is definately a good thing to want in a guy, not because education means that he will be rich or anything like that, but education trains the mind. you're cute, find someone who will respect you and like you for you.
                      my goodness this is the best reply i ever read here...seriously u r damn nice golgol im really impressed. r u love counselor here?
                      “I want to feel passion, I want to feel pain. I want to weep at the sound of your name. Come make me laugh, come make me cry... just make me feel alive.”

                      If you wish to be loved, show more of your faults than your virtues. - Edward Bulwer-Lytton


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                      • platinumandy
                        Member
                        • Feb 2004
                        • 145

                        #12
                        Originally posted by golgol85 View Post
                        dont forget to look to find someone who has a good looking inside, its more important than a good looking outside. he has to be goodlooking so that you are attracted to him, but remember even the most good looking man becomes average and ordinary to you when you spend time with him. if he is great looking but with a bad attitude and a rotten heart, his looks wont matter to you after the first couple of dates. but if he has a beautiful heart then he may not be the best looking man, but his sweet nature will make him more handsome in your eyes and you will grow to love him more. educated is definately a good thing to want in a guy, not because education means that he will be rich or anything like that, but education trains the mind. you're cute, find someone who will respect you and like you for you.


                        Aaaaaaaaaaaw Thank you!!!!!!
                        ur right!!! dats exactly what i believe in my heart!!!!
                        ....well someting happened..i know u said i should look at guys inside...but this guy he checked out my profile at orkut!!! and oooooooooooooh my goooooooooooooooooooood he is soooooooooooooooooooooo hot!!!!!!!!!!!
                        he has big round green eyes...and his lips!!!!!!!!!! aaaaaaaaaaaaaaah.....u just wanna kidnapp him!!!!BUT so we talked and chat first and then he gave me his number to call him....and i did so we talked for a while last night and he said to call him again today and i will........IM SO HAPPY!! but when i was talking to him he is soooooooooooo ****'n polite..i mean seriously...like he said ssomething andi was huh??? and he was like dont say huh say baleh!!!! dat was emberessing.....but he is very polite!!!!
                        and he told me he had gf's dat they just wanted to be with him because of his eyes!!!!
                        and i told him dat sux and dats rude....i would never be with a guy who is rich.....u know??? so we talked for a while..he is quite and shy!!!!
                        but i've decided to be his friend for now..until he comes on to me...u know show him the real me.....and so he would start likeing me...i hope he will at least!!! but i mean i kinda think he does...he added me at yahoo messenger and he gave me his number ...im assuming he does a lil..or maybe he is just interested he wants to get to know me!!!!!!
                        anywayz i dont want to rush into anything...but yes i found this guy im happy..im gonna take it slow and let me make his move.....
                        Thanks alot you guys...
                        love ya
                        bye
                        i'll keep u updateed!!!

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                        • platinumandy
                          Member
                          • Feb 2004
                          • 145

                          #13
                          Originally posted by donsaeid View Post
                          platina to karet doroste faghat ye slap on face mikhasti baraye wake up bazi vaghta eshgh adamo koor mikone niga masalan man kore koram alan


                          l0o0o0ol why do u say dat???????? thanx for slapping on my face...btw it didnt hurt...i like it with pain

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                          • donsaeid
                            Senior Member
                            • Nov 2005
                            • 28300

                            #14
                            Originally posted by platinumandy View Post
                            i like it with pain
                            looool

                            good to see you are smiling
                            نه غزه نه لبنان جانم فدای ایران


                            «در زندگی زخم*هايی هست که مثل خوره روح را آهسته در انزوا می*خورد و می*تراشد.»
                            صادق هدايت؛ بوف کور

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                            • shawn88
                              Newbie
                              • Jul 2006
                              • 10

                              #15
                              dump him girl have some respect 4 yourself

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