SHOULD I BE WITH HIM!

[Nutcase]

hi guys, this is an interesting thread and i have to agree with golgol and donsaid on their viewpoints, i'm just wondering the greeneyed guy whom you posted his picture here, have u only seen pictures, or also live webcam? the reason i am asking is cause some folks hijack a picture that is not theirs and are posing as someone else, also in terms of long distance relationships, would u only have a best friend via internet and phone only, or don't u wanna see him in person one day? these questions i am posing mainly 4 urself, cause when a person is very excited about soemthing they may very well be over their head and end up hurting themselves in the long run, so think before u act, that goes for anything in life not just in the matter of the heart, eitherway i wish u the best in ur friendships and relationships

[jjbb]

make yourself the reason your life is happy.
well said...
I think being lonely makes you to look for love..etc.
But you can keep yourself busy with other thinks than boys......as center of your life...
You need to think of your futur not boys....maybe think of being serious in your relationship and settling down, having kids,... then you really starting to make a sense of your life...

[golgol85]

there is nothing wrong with having a boyfriend, but you seem to be the type of girl who depends on a guy way too much, as if not having a guy in your life is a death sentence of some sort if you will. you seem to not be lacking in any aspect of your life, but you seem to be under the misconception that having a man in your life is necessary. its not. you can have a man in your life, but dont make him be the one who makes your life happy, make yourself the reason your life is happy.

[platinumandy]

lol no im not sick!!! whats wrong having a boyfriend????? i dont understand!

[indian_blues]

is she is sick?

[donsaeid]

platinum dont ask someone to change you!

change your self first!

Come out of depression before starting a relationship!

im telling this from my own experience! if you are not a fresh starter! and take your perivouse experiences and depression into a new relationship you will mass that up even if that is the best guy in earth! So...

Start with your self

[platinumandy]

sorry to say this to you azizam but you are hopeless. I say this in the nicest way possible. good luck

LOL nooooooooooooo im not!! im just alone and depressed!!! and i've been alone and depressed for my whole life..and i just want somebody in my life, dat i can call and go on dates have fun..go to movies ...or whatever!!! and thats all i want i kinda have everything i need i make good money..and i go to school....i work and study hard..i think i deserve a lil something on a side...i just a found a friend and now i have a boyfrien im happy!!!!!

[golgol85]

nooooooooooo dat guy we are friends with!!! i got back with my ex from 3 years ago!! HE CHANGEd!!!!! he has been treating me good so we'l c how it goes!!!!! bye

sorry to say this to you azizam but you are hopeless. I say this in the nicest way possible. good luck

[platinumandy]

you are dating? i though you just said you were going to be friends with the new guy? let me tell you what i think: you are a really nice girl but you feel you need to have a guy in your life to be validated. You really dont need anyone in your life to validate you. you are educated, you are pretty, dont sell yourself short.

nooooooooooo dat guy we are friends with!!! i got back with my ex from 3 years ago!! HE CHANGEd!!!!! he has been treating me good so we'l c how it goes!!!!! bye

[golgol85]

you are dating? i though you just said you were going to be friends with the new guy? let me tell you what i think: you are a really nice girl but you feel you need to have a guy in your life to be validated. You really dont need anyone in your life to validate you. you are educated, you are pretty, dont sell yourself short.

[platinumandy]

love hurts, you need get over him! you dont deserve to be treated like that.

even though its hard I say: forget all about him and move on...

Thank you!!! I am over him just a tiny bit still hung on him!!!!! but yeah i have moved im dating....Thank you for ur support !!!!

[DokhtarIrooni]

hi ok
there is this guy dat i like (unfortunetly)
he never calls me
he hadnt,hasnt wont ever will...take me out
he told me not to tell anyone we're together
and he forgot my birthday!!!
and he doesnt care abotu me!!!!!!!!!
but after i broke up with him for those reasons
my cousin asked me if i can call him i didnt care i gave her his number
and she called him..and the first thing he said to her was happy birthday!!!!
and how can u ****'n forget mine!!!!!!!! we were together for a month or so...i dont expect any gifts i didnt expect anything...and when it was his b-day i bought a freak'n shirt a cologne and a card...now why he forgot my birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
for some reason i like him and i cant get him out of my head and he treats me like im invisible im no none to him...

love hurts, you need get over him! you dont deserve to be treated like that.

even though its hard I say: forget all about him and move on...

[platinumandy]

I read your posts about this matter.
I am just curious, how old are you? 22 as you posted!!!!
Do you work/study?
It seem you have plenty of time in your hands and nothing todo....
It is ok to have freinds but you should know that all these are temprory.....
think of your future, what your goals are.....
I remember to act/feel like you when I was 13 years old not at 20......
by the way, welcome to tapesh. you indeed are in a right place....

uuuum THANX for the rude comments...i've been a tapesh member for almost 2 or 3 years!!!!!! THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!!! and yes im 22 NOT 13 If you were mature u wouldnt say dat!! and btw go read the whole post and then judge me .........
and i know all dat...u dont need to tell me i am going to college and i work at dell im studying mathematics.....

[ali_jigar]

That's what I meant

everybody like sex!!! i dont know a person who dont!

but the important thing is with who, when and situation!!!

[donsaeid]

Don't you like that?

everybody like sex!!! i dont know a person who dont!

but the important thing is with who, when and situation!!!