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  • Persian Sugar
    Newbie
    • Jul 2005
    • 31

    #1

    Confused

    i have a guy that I am dating. Hes the one who liked me first and he went after me but he said hes not ready for a girlfriend. I thought he wanted to be just friends but then two days later he kissed me. Since then we have sort of been romantically involved but I dont know if we are boyfriend and girlfriend or not. He's always like I don't know what we are but I know we're more than friends. But he calls me his woman and says that we are in a realtionship and he doesn't want me to date other guys. He even said he loved me. He even changed his status on myspace to in a relatiionship. But he never officially asked me out so I don't know I am confused
  • indian_blues
    Member
    • Aug 2006
    • 1893

    #2
    wats ur gender? he or she???? im confused abt that
    “I want to feel passion, I want to feel pain. I want to weep at the sound of your name. Come make me laugh, come make me cry... just make me feel alive.”

    If you wish to be loved, show more of your faults than your virtues. - Edward Bulwer-Lytton


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    • Nutcase
      Member
      • Jan 2006
      • 830

      #3
      its a she indian blues, and she is dating a guy, yes u are bf/gf when you are in a relationship, there are so many ways of putting it, like, dating, romantically involved, seeing eachother, going out etc

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      • indian_blues
        Member
        • Aug 2006
        • 1893

        #4
        oh thanks for clearing me that nutcase.

        first I'm from india and i still really dont understand behind the concept of girlfriend/boyfriend. Ist a girlfriend is a friend who is a girl or a gal who is a lover of a guy? then y not calling her love istead of gf?..orrr...gf/bf is the intermediate relationship between a friend and a love??? Im just confused??? i think its totally wrong to call gf/bf....y not LOVE? ...as simple as it is.
        Last edited by indian_blues; 10-30-2006, 12:46 AM.
        “I want to feel passion, I want to feel pain. I want to weep at the sound of your name. Come make me laugh, come make me cry... just make me feel alive.”

        If you wish to be loved, show more of your faults than your virtues. - Edward Bulwer-Lytton


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        • Nutcase
          Member
          • Jan 2006
          • 830

          #5
          well in the western world, gf/bf can mean either its a love relationship or they are just using eachother 4 u know what lol, there is also the type of bf/gf on a platonic level, but one has to elaborate it when u are telling someone, so they don't confuse the 2 of you going out with eachother. hope this helps clarify it a bit

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          • donsaeid
            Senior Member
            • Nov 2005
            • 28300

            #6
            i wasnt confused before i read this thread but now im
            نه غزه نه لبنان جانم فدای ایران


            «در زندگی زخم*هايی هست که مثل خوره روح را آهسته در انزوا می*خورد و می*تراشد.»
            صادق هدايت؛ بوف کور

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            • golgol85
              Senior Member
              • Jan 2006
              • 4957

              #7
              you are technically bf/gf persian sugar. if he calls you his woman and wants to be exclusive (meaning he doesnt want you seeing other guys), then he is serious about the relationship. some people just dont like the label bf/gf, or maybe he is going to surprize you somehow and let you know you are bf/gf in a more obvious manner.

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              • indian_blues
                Member
                • Aug 2006
                • 1893

                #8
                Originally posted by donsaeid View Post
                i wasnt confused before i read this thread but now im
                lol...heheeeheee...ist ur gf in ur avatar?

                yes im too confused a lot now.
                “I want to feel passion, I want to feel pain. I want to weep at the sound of your name. Come make me laugh, come make me cry... just make me feel alive.”

                If you wish to be loved, show more of your faults than your virtues. - Edward Bulwer-Lytton


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                • donsaeid
                  Senior Member
                  • Nov 2005
                  • 28300

                  #9
                  my GF is 1000 times more beautiful then the picture in my avatar
                  نه غزه نه لبنان جانم فدای ایران


                  «در زندگی زخم*هايی هست که مثل خوره روح را آهسته در انزوا می*خورد و می*تراشد.»
                  صادق هدايت؛ بوف کور

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                  • indian_blues
                    Member
                    • Aug 2006
                    • 1893

                    #10
                    Originally posted by donsaeid View Post
                    my GF is 1000 times more beautiful then the picture in my avatar
                    i wish she is 1000 times more beautiful in heart rather than phyiscal which makes the love on her goes until the time ends. best of luck buddy.

                    for me love is

                    "True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be."

                    I understood the meaning of that sentence and the word "love" is from an angel from Iran.
                    Last edited by indian_blues; 10-31-2006, 07:11 AM.
                    “I want to feel passion, I want to feel pain. I want to weep at the sound of your name. Come make me laugh, come make me cry... just make me feel alive.”

                    If you wish to be loved, show more of your faults than your virtues. - Edward Bulwer-Lytton


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                    • Parinaz_M
                      Senior Member
                      • Mar 2003
                      • 19964

                      #11
                      persian suger you should talk to him and clear up some stuff......
                      if you guys are in a relationship then you should be able to talk to eachother to find out what your status is







                      God made Coke,
                      God made Pepsi,
                      God made Persian girls so DAMN SEXY!!!

                      ~Zende Bad Iran Va Irani~

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                      • Rasputin
                        Senior Member
                        • Jan 2005
                        • 63906

                        #12
                        I am agree with Lady Parinaz .

                        iran

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                        • donsaeid
                          Senior Member
                          • Nov 2005
                          • 28300

                          #13
                          Originally posted by indian_blues View Post

                          "True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be."
                          beautiful!
                          نه غزه نه لبنان جانم فدای ایران


                          «در زندگی زخم*هايی هست که مثل خوره روح را آهسته در انزوا می*خورد و می*تراشد.»
                          صادق هدايت؛ بوف کور

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