Eshgh Chist?

[Dokhtare_Malous]

are golgol jan hagh batoe daghighan vali hameye pesara eyne ham nistan bazia ba marefatan bazia mesle adaman, bazia hata age beshe az joone khodeshoon ham migzaran bekhatere oon kasi ke doosesh daran na bekhatere chizaye alaki balke bekhatere khode dkhtare va bekhatere zendegi vali be ghole to pesar bayad mature bashe ta befahme chikar mikone.

[Dokhtare_Malous]

[Dokhtare_Malous]

eshgh yani mesle ine mimoone ke dele adama mesle ye jazireye dor oftade mimone in ke ki vase avalin bar pa be jazire mizare moheme va oonn kasi ke hich vaght jaziraro tark nemikone in eshghe na inke bezare bere

[zubin]

Salam Hamegi (va makhsusan Dokhtare_Malous)... man motovajehe mayoos budan dar baraye eshgh hastam va eeno meefahmam. Eshgh makhsusan khanumha ro gool meezane chon kheyli mogheha pesara raftaran va fekran por az dorogh hastan. Vali benazaram daleelesh donyast na vojud nadashtane eshghe. Bebineed agar nazare man "make sense" meekone, komaki, omidi, harfi meeyare ya na... shayad ba esse goftogo beshe...

Man meegam moshkel donyast ke ejaze nemeede eshghe daruniye adama roshd kone, eshghi ke vojud dare dar ensan va nahayatan khoshbakhti ro meeyare. Fekresho bokoni, ya khoshbakht meeshi, ya badbakht, ya razi. Eshghe ke meetune khoshbakht ya badbakht kone, va az eshgh doori kardan meetune foghesh rezayate "minimum" beeyare agar har do nafar be eshgh eteghad nadaran. Vali donyast ke adamaro be samte khodkhahi meebare. Systeme donya bar asbe "havas" dorost shode va een farhang ro yad meede. Be een khatere ke jense mard be nazare khonuma jense beekhodi va khodkhahi ast. Goole donya ro khordan...

Eshghe vageii mosalaman, fekresho bokoni, bayad roshd karde bashe va do nafar bayad hazer bashan baraye een cheez. Moshkel eene ke donya adama ro (are beeshtar hamoon pesararo) khodkhah meekone va nemeezare eshgh roshd kone.

Vali... az tajrobe begam... kheyli az pesararo deedam ke dar marahele mokhtalefe zendegi aghede be hameen eshgh daran va jediyan... va agar kesi donbale eshghe, meekhad "zendegi" besaze, vaya ezdevaj ya rabeteye jedi dashte bashe... een pesara faghat be dard meekhoran. Agar kesi donbale tafreeh va tajrobe ast, pesarayi ke ya be eshgh eteghad nadaran, ya amade ya jedi neestan dar baraye zendegi tashkeel dadan, oona khuban...

Javab hamash tu aghayede ye nafar deede meeshe...

Omidvaram ke een harfi baraye goftan bude bashe

[golgol85]

ghashang gofti, vali be nazar miyad toyeh senayeh paintar bishtareh pesara jeddi nistan va dokhtara kolan barashoon commitment kheili mohem hastesh dar har senni ke bashan. Momkene baziha fekr mikonan ravabete bishtar baese tajrobeye bishtar va peyda kardane farde morede alaghe bashe, vali khob har chi ba adamaye mokhtalef bashe adam va dar eshgh shekast haye moteadedi dashte bashe, nesbat be eshgh mayoostar mishe.

ramin, neshoonehaye pesareh jeddi chieyeh?

[zubin]

Salam Nilofar

Man meetunam eeno tahgheeghe jeddi konam vasat, vali alan meetunam yek hadsaii bezanam ke pesaraii ke jeddi hastan *baraye khoshbakhti va na rezayat* (not just to be satified but to live a fulfilling, loving partership, which are very different concepts), be ehtemale zyad eenaro dare. Essentially, these things show that he is seriously committed.

1)eteghad be partnershipe bayne do nafaro daran, 2)meekhan tashkeele yek zendegiye ghashang va jeddi ro ba yek yar bokonan, 3)aghayede khassi dar baraye sex daran: eteghad daran ke, dar an zaman va az oon be baad, tashkeele yek zendegiye ghashang az sex mohemtare va sex ba adamaye mokhtalef monharef az khastehashe (behtare tu een marhale aslan fekre sex ba adamaye mokhtalef be saresh nayad va moshakhasan ye nafari bashe), 4)fekr meekonan meedunan eshgh chiye, 5) eshgh ba yek nafar eteghad daran, 6)ya ehteram be zoj shodan az mazhabeshun gereftan ya feminist hastan (fekr meekonan bayad be zan ehterame beeshtar dad ta mard), 7)az bache khoshesh meeyad va aghayedi dar baraye bache bozorg kardan dare ke bacheha khoshbakht beshan, 8 ) hazer bashe fadakari kone, makhsusan avale ashnaii, 9)khejalat az aghayedesh nemeekeshe, 10)meekhan ke to befahmeeshun, 11)az harf zadan dar baraye mozuat khosheshun meeyad, 12)doost dare tajrobeyate honari, farhangi va tafreehi ro do nafari bokone, 13)toro meefahme, 14)eshkalate khod va to ro kheyli meebeene va meekhad dorost beshan, 15) yek ghesmati az oona sadast (part of him is looking for a simple life), 16)eteghad be zadane bache nadare, 17)az donyaye saathi (superficial life) badeshun meeyad, 18 )mantegh saresh meeshe

Hamoon jur ke goftam.. pesaraye mokhtalefi hastan ke hameenaro daran, ya janbeye eenaro daran... chon een sefata khayli mogheha dast be daste ham meeyan. khayli be ham rabt daran. Dar zemn momkene ke pesar dar moroore zaman baaziha ro yad begeere agar baazihasho dare...

Vali motaenam een analysis naghes ast. Masalaman cheezaye deege tu rabete mohemme, ke mohemtareena by far, baad az eshgh, communication, fahm va ehterame vazeh (e.g. lafzi) hastan. Also, there may be other traits that are involved or that at least don't contradict the above, such as open-mindedness.

Shayad goftegoe beeshtar ba ess beshe yek javabe behtari bedam, ya khodet yek mozuhaii ro be ma ha yad bedi. Motmaenam ke tu een mozu meetuneem peeshraft va nateeje geeriye behtar bokoneem, Ramin.

[abadani69]

عشق همیشه تازه است

مهم نیست که یک بار دو بار ده بار در زندگی عاشق شویم

همیشه در وضعیتی قرار میگیریم که نمی شناسیم
عشق می تواند مارا به دوزخ یا بهشت ببرد

اما همیشه ما را جایی می برد

باید تا هر کجا که هست به دنبال عشق برویم

حتی اگر به معنای ساعت ها روزها و هفته ها نومیدی و اندوه باشد

چون در لحظه ای که در جست و جوی عشق به راه می افتیم

او نیز به جست و جوی ما بر می خیزد

و ما را نجات میدهد

[Dokhtare_Malous]

khaily mazerat mikham ha che rabty be donia dare Khoda maghz dade be hameye adama ke az maghzemoon estefade konim na az donia ke donia mikhad harjoori ke bashe bashe vali hamechiz bastegi be adam dare.
vali ino behet hagh midam bazia hastan ke faghat bare fun ba yeki hastan bazia entezarate zidi daran vali ino bedoon ke hich rabty be donia nadare kholase gofte basham ke harki bayad be ghalbe khodesh nega kone va ba maghz fekr kone.

[zubin]

khob een ham yek deedgah. Mosalaman behtar meebud agar adama zeere zure donya nemeeraftan, faghat man meegam donya zuresh khayli zyade.

Meeporsi chejuri? Bebeen een doroste ya na.

Adam badan dare va maghz dare hamoon jur ke shoma meegi. Man meegam ke systeme karo zendegi dar donya, khaylish meekhad mard-ha yek jur tarze fekr dashte bashand. Dar Eenglisi, loghate "love" masalan heech maanaye khubi nadare. Aslan eshgh jaye bozorgi tu farhang va systeme emruze nadare va adam majbure tuye system va farhange khodkhah khodesho ja bede.

Hala farz kon yeki meere sare kar ke pool dar beeyare tuye een donya. Deege agar bekhad tu khunash eshgho asheghi bashe, bayad tamam zehneyat va shakhsiyate khodesho avaz kone. Maghz een karo sakht meetune anjam bede.

Nemeegam ke een jur adama nemeetunan behtar beshan va aghleshuno beeshtar be kar bendazan... Makhsusan, bayad tahte taaseere ideolojiye maskhare nare adam... Vali vaghti een ideoloji movafagheyat meeyare, mosalaman baazi-ha, hadde aghal ghesmataii az zendegishuno fadash meeshan.

Va osulan... vaghti farhang, ideoloji va system eenjuri bashe... khob mosalaman farhange eshgh ro zaeef meekone. Shoma farz kon agar farhange eshgh bozorgtar bud. Khob mosalaman eshghe bayne do nafar ham ghavi-tar meebud va movafaghtar meeshod. Va fekr nakoni ke farhango nemeeshe avaz kard... Yek seri adame vahshi daran farhange donya ro meesazan. Vaghteshe ke ejtemaeh gharb, junub va shargh masuleyato bar ohde begeeran va yek moheete dorosti eejad konan, chon meetunan, va be een tor zendegiye hame adama khub meeshe bejaye eenke faghat yek edde. Jozve een masuleyat yad dadane een ke adama khodeshun tahte taasere chize baad nashan hamun jur ke shoma meeguyi. Khoda maghz dade va jamee ham dade...

Agar jamee khodesho khub nakone be vaseeleye een maghz-ha, pas chejuri masalate zendegi meekhan hal beshan? Hamun jur ke meegi, kheyli-ha az oon maghzeshun estefade nemeekonan. Pas hameenjuri velesh koneem ya yek moheete khub dorost koneem ke mored hal beshe?

Shoma aslan harfe mano ghabul nakon. Bebeen heech jash doroste... Baad ham man aslan ba mokhalefat narahat nemeesham.

[abadani69]

کوله بارسفرت رفت و نگاهم را برد
نه تو ديگر هستی نه نگاهی که در آن دلخوشی ام سبز شود
سايه می داند که به دنبال نگاهت همچون ابر سر گردانم
هيچ کس گمشده ام را نشناخت
تابش رايحه ای بی خبر آورد کسی در راه است
چشمی از درد دلم آگاه است
کاش هيچوقت عشقی متولد نمی شد
که روزی احساسی بميرد

امروز چه روزی است ؟
- ما خود تمامی روزهاییم ای دوست
ما خود زنده گی ایم به تمامی ای یار،
یکدیگر را دوست می داریم و زنده گی می کنیم
زنده گی می کنیم و یکریگر را دوست می داریم و
نه می دانیم زنده گی چیست و
نه می دانیم روز چیست و
نه می دانیم عشق چیست

[EverGreen]

arman romantic shodi jadidan. che khabare?

[Dokhtare_Malous]

[DokhtarIrooni]

عشق
ع: alagheye ش: shadide ق: ghalb

(sorry be farsi naneveshtam, neveshtanam zarife )

[abadani69]

What is Love?

In a classroom there were several kids, when one of them asked the teacher:

- Teacher, what is LOVE ?

The teacher felt the kid deserved the best aswer she could give to that intelligent question. Since it was almost time for a break, she asked every student to go around the school and come back with something that would bring the feeling of love.

The kids rushed out the classroom, and when they came back the teacher said:
- So, I want everybody to show what you brought to the whole class.

The first kid said:
- I brought this FLOWER, isn’t it beautiful ?

The second kid said:
- I brought this BUTTERFLY. Look at these colorful wings, I am gonna put it in my colection !

The third kid said:
- I brought this YOUNG BIRD. It had fallen with another one from the nest. Isn’t it cute ?

And the kids were showing what they brought.

After almost everybody had showed their discoveries, the teacher noticed that there was a kid who had been quiet all the time. She was ashamed because she had not brought anything.
The teacher went to her and asked:
- My dear, why haven’t you brought anything ?

She then answered in an innocent voice:
- I am sorry teacher. I saw the FLOWER, and felt its perfume. I was going to take it, but I prefered to leave it so its perfume would last longer and others could feel it. I also saw the BUTTERFLY, soft, colorful..she seemed so happy that I did not want to disturb it. I also saw the YOUNG BIRD that had fallen between the leafs, but as I climbed the tree, I noticed the said look of it’s mother, so I decided to return it to the nest. Therefore, I only bring with me: the perfume of the flower, the feeling of liberty of the butterfly and the gratefulness of the look of the little bird’s mother. How can I show you what I brought?

The teacher thanked the young kid and gave her an A, because she was the only one that realized that we can only bring LOVE in our hearts.