Soulmates

[Rasputin]

Is there a such thing as soul mates? Or do we just end up with the best person we can find?


I believe in soul-mates. Here's my personal view: we have a blueprint for who we really want in life and if we stray away from that, we will just settle and not really be happy even though we think we are. I have found my soul-mate, but he is with someone else and I think we only have one in this lifetime. Soul-mates can be anyone: a friend, family, lover, ect.

[mahsaak]

it is real, hata dar moredesh elmi vojood dare, man kamelan bavar daram

[indian_blues]

yes i believe in soulmate. I hope everyone find theirs.

[Dokhtare_Malous]

ya i believe in soulmate as well but how do u know that person is really ur soulmate? i mean its hard to find it right?

[indian_blues]

u can never find/search/seek (watever) person for yourself, always believe that right person will be coming in your way. ever heard the "Law of attraction"???

[Rasputin]

ya i believe in soulmate as well but how do u know that person is really ur soulmate? i mean its hard to find it right?

we must to search/fight for finding the our soulmates.

[Lime_Margarita]

chenin chizi nist GUYS..... hamishe vase har kasi more than 1 nafar hast. har kasi ke akhlaghesh, chiz hayeh daronish be tu bekhore migan soul mate.. yeh nafar nist vaseyeh adam.

[Rasputin]

chenin chizi nist GUYS..... hamishe vase har kasi more than 1 nafar hast. har kasi ke akhlaghesh, chiz hayeh daronish be tu bekhore migan soul mate.. yeh nafar nist vaseyeh adam.

In digeh soulmate nist,beh in migan gigolo bazi

[gg666]

lol sia....
ama margarita rast mige..alana vaghean soul mate chizi nist ke beshe be rahati adam bedast biare...

[Dokhtare_Malous]

ya thats right its hard to find and i hope i will find my soulmate one day soon

[gg666]

dokhtare malous jan...manam omidvaram roozi peyda koni oono...ama kheili movazeb bash...adama be rahati droogh migan...nazar ye vaght gool bokhori...ham to va ham baghieye dokhtara bast kheili havaseshoon jam bashe ke vaghean ye soul mate peyda konan, na ye lier mate...

[Dokhtare_Malous]

daghighan manam khialy vaghan movazebam vali fellan ke hichi nashode yani inke i was just kidding akhe mage mishe nemishe vaghan

[Rasputin]

Is This Love? A Closer Look

One of the most common questions we get asked at Lovingyou.com is "How do you know if it is really love?" Well, as you can imagine, this also happens to be one of the most difficult questions to answer! Love is such a strange, wonderful thing that nobody really has codified what it is yet. And to further complicate matters, there are so many different kinds of love: the love you feel for a friend, a family member, a sport or even a pet. This is such a crazy emotion that there is absolutely no way that I can definitively answer how you know it is love… but I am going to give it a try!

Now, in order to find out if you love someone, the basic place to start would be to ask yourself, do you want to be with them? If the answer to that question is no, then it really can't be love. When you love someone, you want to be with them. Not just be with them, but share everything with them. You have a great day at work and want to rush home and tell them every wonderful thing that has happened. You feel excited at the prospect of just being in their company, just being close to them isn't enough, you want to be a part of them, a part of their life forever. You can't stand the thought of being away from them yet, when you are, you still feel that ever-present bond that ties you together wherever you go. You can almost feel what they are feeling. You feel like, with a little bit of effort, you can see what they are seeing and think what they are thinking. It is almost as if you both can occupy each other's bodies with complete trust and harmony. That to me is love.

Now, on the other side of the spectrum, there are a host of emotions that people confuse with love. One of the most common is lust. There is a difference between wanting to sleep with someone and wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone.

Being overly dependent on the other person is also not a part of love. Some people fall into the trap of thinking they love someone just because they are afraid to be alone. They have become dependent on the other person for so much that they don't know how to make it on their own, or they would much rather be with someone than no-one.

This leads to the old cliché, in order to love someone else, you must first learn to love yourself. Well, we've all heard that before, but what does it really mean? It means that you have to be confident in your own ability and your own judgement. You really have to like yourself and know what you have to offer another person. There is no way that you can love another person if you are so stuck in your own hang-ups that you bow down and propitiate to the other person. That is, you do anything they ask and agree with everything they say out of fear that they will love you less because you don't do those things.

Basically, the question of whether or not you are in love with someone is pretty cut and dry: you either are or you aren't… and deep down, you know the answer. You just have to trust yourself to recognize it.

[maryam9]

One of the most common questions we get asked at Lovingyou.com is "How do you know if it is really love?" Well, as you can imagine, this also happens to be one of the most difficult questions to answer! Love is such a strange, wonderful thing that nobody really has codified what it is yet. And to further complicate matters, there are so many different kinds of love: the love you feel for a friend, a family member, a sport or even a pet. This is such a crazy emotion that there is absolutely no way that I can definitively answer how you know it is love… but I am going to give it a try!

my answer - when it feels like they complete you.
(theres a difference between liking someone you date and loving someone you date, you can feel the difference)



in response to the original question:

Is there a such thing as soul mates? Or do we just end up with the best person we can find?

I believe in soul-mates. Here's my personal view: we have a blueprint for who we really want in life and if we stray away from that, we will just settle and not really be happy even though we think we are. I have found my soul-mate, but he is with someone else and I think we only have one in this lifetime. Soul-mates can be anyone: a friend, family, lover, ect.

I think God wont make just ONE person for all of us – can u imagine how hard it would be for us to find that one person? There are mllions of people living on this planet… id have to say we have a few … that’s just my idea of course

[zubin]

chenin chizi nist GUYS..... hamishe vase har kasi more than 1 nafar hast. har kasi ke akhlaghesh, chiz hayeh daronish be tu bekhore migan soul mate.. yeh nafar nist vaseyeh adam.

Malume there's many people, but there's always a winner. No guy or girl is equal in one's mind forever... One has to choose the best one for them eventually, no?