broken up or not?

[prznprincess86]

I'm in a complicated situation right now and I don't know what to do. I was dating this guy for several months and I had his password to his myspace. I caught him flirting with this other girl and saw e-mail he had written to his friend saying he didn't know what to do he hung out with this one girl but he really liked someone else.
After that I was devastated I was always worried whether he would leave me or not for this girl but he starting calling me more often and things seemed better between us. Like a month later we were hanging out and everything was fine but then the same day he wrote me a comment saying that "Our cultural differences are too big and it sucks, nice to meet you" and then changed his status to single. But at school he came and talked to me and my friend and then he called me and left me a message as if nothing had happened. I am confused are we broken up or not or is he just trying to stay friends? What do I do?

[gg666]

i know what ur saying...guys happen to play around like this...i think its just a waste of time..cuz i've been through the same situation before...try not to take any more chances, unless he comes to you with an open heart!!!

[donsaeid]

??? relationship is so complicated! ghablana kheili behtar bod ke ta 18 salegi donbale dokhtar/pesar nemiraftan va vaghti 18 salet shod migoftan in dokhtare male to ya in pesare male to!

[gg666]

saeid jan..alan inharfi ke mizani to gheseha ham peyda nemishe...bacheha az sene kjeili kam bf ya gf peyda mikonano varede in masael mishan...va bejaye inke say konan yad begiran ke chetor ye rabeteye khob dashte bashan, yad migiran chetor tarafo bepichoonan!!!

[donsaeid]

khob manam migam bargardim be 10-15 sale pish vaghti adam asalan ba injor chiza kari nadasht! on moghe kheili behtar va rahattar bod! bad ke be ye senni residi mirafti khasegari va kar tamom bod!

alan hamechi complicate shode! onam badjor! khafan!

[prznprincess86]

Never mind ... just delete this post if you can relationships are way too complicated to figure out .. I don't think anyone's advice can help me I will have to figure this one out on my own!

[Parinaz_M]

he is not worth it!!! that is all i have to say

it seems like he doesn't know what he wants to do and who he likes.
he likes you but he is attracted to someone else as well.
well, that doesn't look like a honest relationship

the message he send you was a break up message, and he has changed his relationship status to single. and now he wants to act like friends and keep it cool with you, so in case his relationship with the other person doesn't work out, he could still come back to you

if i was in your situation, i would forget about him and move on, because he is not worth your time and your love b.c he can't make up his mind and doesn't even know who he is really attracted to. i wouldn't trust a guy that can't be honest and can't stop looking for someone else when he is already in a relationship.

you can do a lot better than him, just learn from this relationship and try to avoid it in your next relationship.
and stay away from cheaters

good luck

[gg666]

parinaz is right..but give him some time!!!see if he can change a bit

[Parinaz_M]

there is a very small chance that men make the effort to change themselves.
as they say: once a cheater, always a cheater.

i personally take it as disrespect and dishonesty if my bf cheats on me. if i was important to him, and if cared about me, then he wouldn't even dare to look at another girl

we need to have more respect for ourselves and not let guys play games with us

[abadani69]

khob mibinam ke parinaz ham ghati e morgha shode,khob mobarak baashe. inshalla key biyam aroosi?

[Parinaz_M]

khob mibinam ke parinaz ham ghati e morgha shode,khob mobarak baashe. inshalla key biyam aroosi?

to bayad to hame threadA haziyoon begi

[asal67]

there is a very small chance that men make the effort to change themselves.
as they say: once a cheater, always a cheater.

i personally take it as disrespect and dishonesty if my bf cheats on me. if i was important to him, and if cared about me, then he wouldn't even dare to look at another girl

we need to have more respect for ourselves and not let guys play games with us

i totally agree