**He's Just Not That Into You**

[maryam9]

but doesnt that always happen?

you took a photo of him with ur digital camera, and so he asked u to email the pics to him, and u emailed him just to get to know him since uve seen him but dont really know who he is...
people always hug and kiss u, doesnt mean anything.
they invited u round, people always invite eachother round to theirs etc.

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ure over-analysing...

ok...this is about a guy who i really dont know how old he is....but he has gray hair...and im guessing 42??? or late 30's...anywayz...he is my step-dad's cousin...and i saw him for the first EVER in november of 06 and i was kind of sleep cuz he was looking at me and focusing on me, and i didnt notice it, and i looked at him and i was like WOAH he's cute..ha ha..!!and they were in our house from like noon until like 8 pm and then we stayed home changed for like 20 minutes and they were already gone to my aunts' house and we were suppos to go there for dinner...and he didnst c me for like 20 minutes..and when he saw me he huged me and KISSED me on the cheeks..of course and then we left like at 12 or something. and then in the morning he did that again, when we went to my aunts house for breakfast he kissed me and hugged me AGAIN!!!! ....so we took some pics of my aunt and cousins and he told me to email him the pics. since it was on our camera...and i did, so he stareted emailing me ...and we've been talking for now like 8 months...and like in june he came here here, with his 3 sisters and they all met me, and stuff...and he only emailed me like 2 times after that not that much. so im guessing his sisters didnt like me????
i think i think that he isnt into me...i dont knoww
but im going to CA this month end of july for 2 days for the K&H concert and omid and michael...so i think i should let him know cuz he did say that whenever i come to CA let him know and ..he said "so we can make the most out of your visit" ha ha!!!! and i think i should tell him, and i've heard i've heard that he has a GF.....oh yeah he lives at CA!!!!!

what do you guys think???
btw i really like him!!!!

[maryam9]

and our conversations over the email has been like fav movies sports hobbies and the first time i emaile him when he emailed me back he also left me his number but never ever never told me to call him...so i never did...and he never asked for my phone number knowing that i've had a phone since june of this year...07....so its weird....

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[platinumandy]

hey guys...forget about him! i found me a cute guy SINGLE.....and persian!!!

so far so good!
thank for ya'll's advice!!!!!
LOVE YA!

[abadani69]

Naghmeh khanom, I always take Parinaz's Advice so good luck

this is what happend.......

1.he saw you at your house, and he liked u, (this is where the hugging and kissing comes from)

2.then he wanted to stay in touch, (telling you to email the pix and giving you his phone number)

3.if a guy doesn't tell you to call him, then maybe he is not that interested for you to call him.

4.long distance relationships don't work out that great either, specially if you have heard that he has a GF!!!!

have you ever heard the saying "ba dast pas mizane ba pa pish mikeshe" well what you are saying kind of reminded me of that


you can give a little hint to him about the concert, but don't tell him that you are going for sure, lets see how he is going to react.

but don't wait for him, just have fun, you are still young and have a lot of opportunities

[Parinaz_M]

hey guys...forget about him! i found me a cute guy SINGLE.....and persian!!!

so far so good!
thank for ya'll's advice!!!!!
LOVE YA!

bahhhhhh che zood nazaret avaz shod

wish u the best hon!!!!



thanx for the support arman!!!

[csite]

8. Wasting time with the wrong person is just time wasted. And when you do move on and find your right person, believe me.

this really applies to both gender, and i agree with it, well after i went through it myself recently. I guess the best advice i can give people is always keep you options open!

(** continues to listen to Kiarash Ghomeyshi - Bi Khialesh.mp3 **)

[sooz]

I think the really big advantage is to know exactly the right time to get out. When we like someone, it's too easy to make excuses for them. Sometimes it's too easy to take it personally... eg, why would that person treat me that way? I think this is the crux of what the book teaches.

Give it a go, apply the rules, then get out if it's not working... no matter how painful it might be. Otherwise, it not only wastes your time, but it can also chip away at your self esteem if you let it. (Too many of us take the behaviour of someone who isn't into us, too personally.)

I also think we imagine ourselves in love (or like, or lust) far too soon... way before we really know someone and how they will behave towards us. Take the time to see someone objectively. It's difficult but necessary. You can save yourself a bunch of heartache if you apply the rules.

Sooz

[Parinaz_M]

37. Don’t get tricked into asking him out. If he likes you, he’ll do the asking.

[Parinaz_M]

38. If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will.

[asal67]

38. If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will.

ayyyy goftiiiiiiiii