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  • pancakes_are_yummy
    Newbie
    • Apr 2005
    • 19

    #1

    Should i break up?

    I have been dating this persian guy for a year, i'm european. i love him, he's smart and kind. however, the problem is his sister. she is so spoiled. she thinks rules apply to eveyone else except her. my boyfriend once told me that her mom and dad buy her whatever she wants. apparently that is not strange in iran. anyways, she is married and still takes money from her dad. wtf? my boyfriend also says that he has to take care of her. its canada!!! chicks can take care of themselves. anyways she manipulates him, and always sticks her nose into our business. it seems that my boyfriend is zanzalee not to me but to his sister and mom.

    i'm really tired of this. she tells him what to do and he agrees. i don't think i could live my life like this. i want to marry him, not his sister.
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  • Nutcase
    Member
    • Jan 2006
    • 830

    #2
    you should be able to talk to him about the issue you have with his sister, based on his reaction you can make an educated descision as to wether to stay with him or not, in-laws can make life hell, better think this thru, wish u the best

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    • indian_blues
      Member
      • Aug 2006
      • 1893

      #3
      elope dear.
      “I want to feel passion, I want to feel pain. I want to weep at the sound of your name. Come make me laugh, come make me cry... just make me feel alive.”

      If you wish to be loved, show more of your faults than your virtues. - Edward Bulwer-Lytton


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      • Lime_Margarita
        Member
        • Aug 2006
        • 328

        #4
        darling!!! be smart!!! if u think its not working out right now what makes u think its going to work out later on??i know i sound kinDA,cold BUT..... HE WONT CHANGE, SHE WONT CHANGE.. pass khodet beshin fekr kon.!!! age mitooni tahamol koni GO ON age na MOVE ON!! TRUST ME u WILL FALL AGAIN
        Its hard to pretend you love someone when you don't
        but its harder to pretend that you don't love someone when you really do.

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        • Dokhtare_Malous
          Member
          • Dec 2005
          • 1819

          #5
          if u don't break up then he will break ur heart and i don't think any girl want that and i don't even think there is a true love in this world either so it is not worth it

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          • zubin
            Member
            • Aug 2006
            • 1567

            #6
            she just wants to be part of his life and sees you as a threat. become friends with her and she'll kill for you because then she feels she's part of her brother's life.

            Ultimately, family members have lived the longest with each other. One must always try to proactively befriend family members, before they de-befriend you. And you can never have a guy or girl without his/her family. It's the same with every culture.

            Things change dear. Try this approach and see what happens. It won't hurt.
            Take him and cut him out in little stars,
            and he will make the face of heaven so fine,
            that all the world will be in love with night,
            and pay no worship to the garish sun

            - Shakespeare

            "In all intellectual debates, both sides tend to be correct in what they affirm, and wrong in what they deny." - JS Mill

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            • abadani69
              Senior Member
              • Aug 2005
              • 21339

              #7
              Talagh tanha raaheshe. So be nazare man talagh begir ta ghabl az inke bache machei dar kaar baashe, choon baadesh bachatoon badbakht mishe age on moghe talagh begirid.

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              • Lime_Margarita
                Member
                • Aug 2006
                • 328

                #8
                ABADANI?? looooooooool to aslan mikhooni LINE HARO?? voooooy khaleh tu cheteh!! bichareh nagoft ke zaneshehhhhhhhhhhh......... adam ba tu dizdi bereh bekhoda
                Its hard to pretend you love someone when you don't
                but its harder to pretend that you don't love someone when you really do.

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                • abadani69
                  Senior Member
                  • Aug 2005
                  • 21339

                  #9
                  hosele khoondan nadarom sahar,faghat javabesho kholase dadom

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                  • Atef_Dubai
                    Member
                    • Nov 2005
                    • 1913

                    #10
                    break up go 4 new 1
                    Nicknamam Awaz shode Az Afshin_dubai_8 Shode be Atef_Dubai

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                    • jjbb
                      Senior Member
                      • Nov 2005
                      • 8813

                      #11
                      If this is a problem now, then it is going to be a problem forever. believe me ...it will drag on forever. This is what Iranians are. They always hold on the past of who said what and when.
                      Leave him and go find somebody who cares for you and stands for you.

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                      • IQ
                        Senior Member
                        • Feb 2005
                        • 5035

                        #12
                        i don't think that is a problem. so what he takes care of his family the family he had all his life and now you come to his life and want to stop that. he should take care of you and them at the same time. not just you. my opinion.i think that is selfish of you

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                        • indian_blues
                          Member
                          • Aug 2006
                          • 1893

                          #13
                          never hear advice to ur personal problems go ahead wat ur heart says whether it is right or wrong coz u will only be the responsible watever happens.
                          “I want to feel passion, I want to feel pain. I want to weep at the sound of your name. Come make me laugh, come make me cry... just make me feel alive.”

                          If you wish to be loved, show more of your faults than your virtues. - Edward Bulwer-Lytton


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                          • Sexi.Persian.Bella
                            Member
                            • Jul 2008
                            • 70

                            #14
                            lmao abadanii ahaha
                            but yes hunni its not worthh cuz people never change themselves for others they mite say it but they'll never do it

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                            • zubin
                              Member
                              • Aug 2006
                              • 1567

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Sexi.Persian.Bella View Post
                              lmao abadanii ahaha
                              but yes hunni its not worthh cuz people never change themselves for others they mite say it but they'll never do it
                              people will change, but there is not enough time for it.
                              Take him and cut him out in little stars,
                              and he will make the face of heaven so fine,
                              that all the world will be in love with night,
                              and pay no worship to the garish sun

                              - Shakespeare

                              "In all intellectual debates, both sides tend to be correct in what they affirm, and wrong in what they deny." - JS Mill

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