where does religion fit in all this...i ask you

[funlovingsoul]

Some of you might have read this under a different discussion however this is a heavy burden I bear so I need as much exposure with my dilemma as possible.

I am writing for advise but really I know the answer myself still it helps to air my thoughts as my hands are tide and I cant talk to anyone I know about this matter…
Here it goes…
I have friend (Ok I know what you think but its not me ) I really do have a friend which I have a problem with. I have known here in my family for 10 years but became friends with her about 3 years ago when her dad died I was there for her…anyway that was the beginning of our friendship.. then last year she moved in with me and every thing was ok until February last year when she went on my yahoo id and start chatting to a guy (Mr Y) I was chatting to with out me knowing she had arranged to meet him and had fallen “in love” in a week ( I have to add that the guy was not my cup of tea but still I was very offended ) any way she “falls in love” and that’s when our trouble starts I feel she has abused my trust but she doesn’t see it and keeps telling me if I wanted him why don’t I go out with him myself? HELLO! Am I missing a point here or is she just plain dumb! I don’t know. I have to add we are supposed to be best friends…
Anyway she tells me she has broken off with him….. then she is going back to Iran for her brothers wedding, like a mug I go and talk to her boss and get her a 5 week holiday instead of the 3 weeks so she can clear her head and see her family…well upon her return which is on the same day as my birthday I find out she has gotten married…yes that’s right SHE got married to her cousin ( long story but even that’s shouldn’t happen)
I was like what the F---, you went to Iran for your brothers wedding and you didn’t even bother to tell me you are getting married, you could have called and she was like I wanted to surprise you…hello 5 weeks before you went to Iran you declared your undying love to this guy even on the plan you texted each other and now you are married? Any way this story has a twist in that she used to date another guy Mr X (to you guys, another point is that Mr X is a relation of mine) for six years; he gets married but they continued to see each other however at the same time as seeing the Mr Y she was sleeping with Mr X… I am losing the will to live at this stage … I tell her she has to go and tell Mr X that she has gotten married and not to bother her…ok here is the punch line she tells him and then sleeps with him (HELLO!) so we are arguing a lot by this stage and we agree its time for her to move out so she does…so here is a recap…she chats to MR Y ..goes to Iran marries her cousin comes back tells her MR x she is married and sleeps with him and then moves out…then; ok you would think its all over because she has gotten married ( he is still in IRAN) and now she is going to behave herself…WRONG she contacts Mr Y and god knows why starts seeing him as a “friend” unfortunately for all concerned Mr X goes to her house the day Mr Y is there and hell breaks loose, needless to say it all ends horribly she gets a much deserved slap not there and there but a week later… here’s another thing she has been married 3 minuets and now she is dumping her cousin for MR Y….My question to all of you who have read so far….What should do?
I tell you one thing I would like to kick her *** back to Iran… she makes me so mad because she comes from a very religious background...yeah right

[Sepideh_UK]

She comez from a religious family. but this doesn't necessory mean that she is one...

[mike435]

copy right it and if its all true get a writer and turn it into an movie or sopapra

religion has nothing to do with it. its the person sometimes because of strong faith a person has the second chance to be "good" what ever the meaning good is to the person but at the end of the day it is up to you and your own philosophy of life that will dictate what you will do.

just because she has the religious banner dont think bad of those who are religious

nor think bad of those who arenot religious

my own experiance has toght me this
i went from coming from a semi concervative jewish background
to going almost totaly athiest
and now after some of my own and others assistance of searching and testing other diciplins like philosophy, scince, biologoy and chalanging theme agaisnt the word of the torah I have found that g-d is definatly their and i am still the same person wether i was religios or athies. The only thing diffrnt now then when I was "athiest" was like lets say i still kept kosher when i was a athiest but sometimes let go when the opertunity was irrisitepble but now those leting go's have been alot less does it still hapen yes becuse i am still in charge

religion is just that second chance oppertunity that comes your way to take the "right corse" of action but it is still up to you to decide what do to do. it is still the person.

your firend, thats just her, once individual one action, religion has nothing to do with it she is an ediot for doing it while advertising she is religious because she gives a bad name to those who are also religious.