The Relationship

[bluesky_152000]

personality......

whole package of his being

[maloosak]

lookesh dige khob, soal in boode ke chi attractetoon mikone baba, hala bikhiale kelase falsafi gozashtan, avalin chizi ke toro mikeshe tarafe yeki mosallaman tarze fekre taraf nist loooool
be realistic guys, its his/her look, i mean would u go out with some1 who is a professor or really nice but as ugly as hell?

[golgol85]

lookesh dige khob, soal in boode ke chi attractetoon mikone baba, hala bikhiale kelase falsafi gozashtan, avalin chizi ke toro mikeshe tarafe yeki mosallaman tarze fekre taraf nist loooool
be realistic guys, its his/her look, i mean would u go out with some1 who is a professor or really nice but as ugly as hell?

dorost migi, looks are the first thing that do cause you to be attracted to someone enough to want to get to know them more. If they dont catch your eye, then its harder for you to want to get to know them just on the basis that what they have on the inside might be really good. now just because someone looks good on the outside, it doesnt mean they have a decent personality, but the good looks are like a magnet that draw you in wanting to get closer and find out more about the person.

[jjbb]

things that destroys a relationship

طبق آخرين يافته ها، تداوم و تكرار20 اشتباه درطرز تفكر و برقراري ارتباط كه افراد مرتكب آن ميگردند، توانايي نابود ساختن هر رابطه اي را دارا ميباشد:

1- سرسختانه همواره خود را حق بجانب دانستن، حتي زماني كه ادله كافي در اختيار نداشته باشيد.

2- هيچگاه عذرخواهي نكردن، حتي زماني كه تقصير كار بودن شما اثبات گرديده باشد.

3-بي رحمانه خطاها ي شريك زندگي خود را بازگو كردن.

4-ادعاي متعصبانه از آگاهي داشتن از انگيزه هاي شريك زندگي بهتر از خود وي.

5-تصور آنكه شريك شما مي بايد نيازهاي شما را درك كرده و فورا بدون درخواست شما آنها را برآورده سازد.

6-ناديده گرفتن كامل اولويتهاي شريك زندگي و پافشاري بر اولويتهاي خود.

7-تصور آنكه نيازهاي جنسي همسر شما و نيازهاي جنسي شما يكسان و مشابه ميباشند.

8- عدم اقرار به رنجش و بلافاصله ابراز خشم كردن.

9- شناسايي عيوب و كاستيهاي شخصيتي همسر و اسرار خانوادگي وي، و بهره گيري از آنها براي پيروزي در مشاجرات، زماني كه منطق در ميماند.

10- بهره گيري از عذاب وجدان و حس گناه كار بودن براي به بازي گرفتن، دستيابي به اهداف و يا مجازات همسر.

11- در شناسايي و يافتن بديها و معايب همسر چيره دست بودن، اما هيچگاه خوبيها و محاسن وي را بزبان نياوردن.

12- كوتاه نيامدن به هيچ قيمتي، و كشاندن مجادله تا جايي كه همسر از خانه بگريزد.

13- هيچگاه رها نكردن گذشته، و بازگويي و باز آفريني آن به كرات.

14-ابراز وابستگي شديد به همسر خود،وادعاي آنكه بي وي و يا در صورت بي اعتنايي وي بي شك خواهد مرد.

15-در صورت عدم وابستگي شديد، فاصله گرفتن از لحاظ فيزيكي و احساسي تا حد بي اعتنايي كامل.

16-قول دادن، وهيچگاه عمل نكردن.

17- تا حدي متظاهر و دو رو بودن كه همسر نميداند شما چه زمان جدي هستيد.

18-عذرتراشي هميشگي براي عادات ناپسند خود.

19- پافشاري براين عقيده كه همواره مطلبي كه شما ميخواهيد بيان كنيد مهمتر از مطلبي است كه همسرتان ميخواهد بگويد، بنابراين حرف وي را قطع ميكنيد.

20-وانمود ميكنيد كه حرفهاي بيان شده همسرتان را كاملا متوجه شده ايد، ولو آنكه هيچ چيزي از صحبتهاي وي را نفهميده ايد.

21-به گونه اي رفتار ميكنيد كه گويي شما مرتكب هيچكدام از اشتباهات ذكر شده نگرديده ايد و اين شريك شماست كه بايد تغيير كند.

[donsaeid]

akhe chera inghadr dorogh bar mikonid azizane man hame personality rai dadan... Look and money to zehne hamatone...
man mondam look ro bezanam ya money ro

[golgol85]

akhe chera inghadr dorogh bar mikonid azizane man hame personality rai dadan... Look and money to zehne hamatone...
man mondam look ro bezanam ya money ro

money ro ke ghabool nadaram, vali looks ro behet hagh midam. everyone thinks girls are attracted to a guy with money, and gold diggers are, but i would rather have a guy with no money who has a brain and a heart than one who has money but is a complete jackass. i already previously agreed that looks are important just to get you attracted to the person, after that its the personality and character of the person that keeps you around or tells you to run with all you have and dont look back. sometimes you make mistakes too, you think the person is a good person and it turns out that the personality you saw in him or her is completely off, and you realize it after you have become attached to the person. all you have to do there is realize that people may come off one way, but if you arent inside their head or heart you can never know their true intentions or their true feelings.

dar zemn, be nazaram looks o bezaan

[donsaeid]

hahaha... che javabi dadi to damet garm...

i hoped that was the case. for i have the heart and look but low on money... but when im done with my MD degree i will have all 4 so GIRLS i am the one you all should pick

[golgol85]

javabi ke mikhasti gerefti areh?
pool vaghean lazemeye khoshbakhti nist, onam vaghti ke ye mard javoone. if we are talking about a guy in his thirties who doesnt have money and doesnt know what he is doing, then you should throw him out the window and go for someone like saeid! bebin saeid, khoob nist to begi you have the heart and the looks, az man be to nasihat, bezar khode dokhtare inaro behet bege khoob vase khodet tabligh mikoniha!

[Rasputin]

man 7-8 sal digeh,mikham beram aroosi konam ba ye pirezaneh pouldarrrrrrrr. hahahaha

[golgol85]

man 7-8 sal digeh,mikham beram aroosi konam ba ye pirezaneh pouldarrrrrrrr. hahahaha

hehe, chon on moghe khodet ham pire mard shodi

[Rasputin]

hehe, chon on moghe khodet ham pire mard shodi

gol goli,azizamesrar nakon,nemikham shuaret besham,boro zaneh saeid besho,ham poul dareh,ham kilu kilu khosh tipe

[golgol85]

gol goli,azizamesrar nakon,nemikham shuaret besham,boro zaneh saeid besho,ham poul dareh,ham kilu kilu khosh tipe

na zaneh to misham na saied , dele joftetoon besooze!
saeid mige pool nadare, hala to migi dare. mesle inke to az hesab bankish bishtar khabar dari ta khodesh! na pooletoono mikham na khoshtipitoono