I have this problem. I am still in love with my ex-boyfriend and I cant forget him... I wish I could stop having feelings for him. He broke up with me a month ago. But ever since our break-up hes been being nicer to me than usual and keeps sending me messages asking about how I am and stuff(which he never did during the end of our relationship), and even sent me a message flirting with me. I dont know if he is just being friendly and Im taking it the wrong way or if he still likes me. One of my friends said that if I really like him I should go talk to him about him and that I shouldnt let him go that easily. I am not sure if I should listen to her or not. What do you guys think?
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bandary girl ajab ye bandary hamshahrimonam peida shod hala vaghan badaria :P
btw i guess if u go and tell him wats ur feeling
if u really love him then just tell him
that u love him and if he really likes u he gonna tell u the same
or u just ask him wats our relationships like a friend or u need it more then friend i guess this is better to ask him
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personally I think the only thing that makes sense and that will work is to have a relaxed committment. In other words, you should proceed, but not have your hopes up or ask for/make too serious a committment. You don't want to set yourself up for too much of an expectation then become dissappointment. The only question is if that is something that makes sense to you as well.Take him and cut him out in little stars,
and he will make the face of heaven so fine,
that all the world will be in love with night,
and pay no worship to the garish sun
- Shakespeare
"In all intellectual debates, both sides tend to be correct in what they affirm, and wrong in what they deny." - JS Mill
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look if u really in love go talk to him and tell him whats ur feelings are tell him everything that is in ur heart cause if you dont when u see him with another girl u will be dissappointed that why u didn't tell him how u feel about him before and you will cry and will keep thinking about him trust me i know what i'm talking about. I never been in love so i don't know how is it? but i know love is really beautiful and it does have also heart broken as well. all i got from my relationship was a broken heart i'm sure that u really don't want that. if u really love him go forward tell him how u feel
It takes a minute to like someone, and hour to love someone, but to forget someone takes a life time.Last edited by Dokhtare_Malous; 04-29-2007, 08:49 AM.
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you should do what Im doing right now, cuz i have the same situation as you do...
and thats how it goes...find couple of bfs and try to hang around with guys all the timeI dont really know how many bfs i've got now)..., it helps to get away with ur ex...and dont ever try to be honest and loyal to any one of them..just piss them off, as I do...
and stop looking at ur ex-bf's pics...Love like you never got hurtwork like you don't need the moneyDance like no one is watching
تا عاقلان راهی برای یکبار خندیدن پیدا کنند دیوانگان هزار بار خندیده اند
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Originally posted by gg666 View Postyou should do what Im doing right now, cuz i have the same situation as you do...
and thats how it goes...find couple of bfs and try to hang around with guys all the timeI dont really know how many bfs i've got now)..., it helps to get away with ur ex...and dont ever try to be honest and loyal to any one of them..just piss them off, as I do...
and stop looking at ur ex-bf's pics...
You should treat people how you want to be treated. For example, what if one of the new guys really likes her? Lets flip the coin here. Would YOU (or anyone else) like it if they started dating someone they really liked, only to find that they are being used?
Besides, you cant run away from a problem and expect it to fix itself. You will have to face him again, one day, whether you like it or not.
Men are human beings too! Have some confidence and just go talk to him; see what happens... If you dont, you will always wonder what could have happened...Mary's back, back again
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I agree with what you say. That's what i have been doing too except for me is hanging out with girls
Sp bandary girls, listen to your hamshahris and follow what we are doing, just hang out with other guys and u will forget your Ex, it just takes time.
Good luck to you aziz.
Originally posted by gg666 View Postyou should do what Im doing right now, cuz i have the same situation as you do...
and thats how it goes...find couple of bfs and try to hang around with guys all the timeI dont really know how many bfs i've got now)..., it helps to get away with ur ex...and dont ever try to be honest and loyal to any one of them..just piss them off, as I do...
and stop looking at ur ex-bf's pics...
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Listen hun...there isnt such a thing as HONESTY or LOYALTY these days...in chiza ro bayad faghat to ketab ghese ha peyda kard..dont fool yourself..nemishe ke khodeto gool bezani...man az vaghti khodamo yadam miad bf dashtam va khoob midoonam ke hich kas sadegh nemitoone bashe..pas vaghteto vase kasi nazar...agar ham to relation kasi gharare sadame bokhore bezar tarafet bashe, na khodet...
BTW, some problesm can not be fixed, its just the matter of time..I did whatever I could do to be with the only guy who I loved again...( And I mean WHATEVER)...
Originally posted by maryam_shirazi_9 View Post?!! That's being dishonest!
You should treat people how you want to be treated. For example, what if one of the new guys really likes her? Lets flip the coin here. Would YOU (or anyone else) like it if they started dating someone they really liked, only to find that they are being used?
Besides, you cant run away from a problem and expect it to fix itself. You will have to face him again, one day, whether you like it or not.
Men are human beings too! Have some confidence and just go talk to him; see what happens... If you dont, you will always wonder what could have happened...Love like you never got hurtwork like you don't need the moneyDance like no one is watching
تا عاقلان راهی برای یکبار خندیدن پیدا کنند دیوانگان هزار بار خندیده اند
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are arman joon... ama manam bad joor zadam be sime akhar dar amre khatire pesar bazi...Love like you never got hurtwork like you don't need the moneyDance like no one is watching
تا عاقلان راهی برای یکبار خندیدن پیدا کنند دیوانگان هزار بار خندیده اند
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