Homosexuality

[Anonymous]

My dear, I have a life. You need to learn what it's like to get along with people and not judge them!! You are the one in need of a life...a more generous and open minded one!! I am not "promoting" anything. I'm defending myself and others like me from the hatred and ignorance you are spewing!! I have a right to do that. I'm sure if someone started saying ignorant things about Iranians, you would defend yourself as well. What would you say to someone who would tell you to get a life and stop promoting Persians!! Sounds pretty stupid doesn't it!! You really need to think before you say things, your actions have consequences.

And the guest was correct...you are supposed to be a moderator, not a dictator!!!

[mahroz]

mishe ehsasetono darbarieh marda begid?
az kei fahmidid in ehsasat dar shoma vojod dareh?

[Anonymous]

I'll be happy to answer your questions Mahroz.

Well I've always liked Men as long as I can remember. When I was younger I really didn't understand it...I always focused on guys on TV and in magazines. I even had this crush on a boy when I was in 4th grade! I really didn't know what it meant back then.

When I got into highschool I started dating girls, I did it because I thought that once I started going out with girls all my feeling for guys would go away. But it didn't happen. I had a few girlfriends but it never worked out. I didn't really do anything with guys until I was 26. I was so afraid of what others would think of me. I was really afraid of hurting my family the most. Being Iranian, I thought that it would destroy my mother and my family would turn their back on me. Luckily that was not the case. My mother is OK with it, and my family loves me for who I am..not for who I sleep with.

I actually became really depressed in my early 20's. I didn't know what to do. And I didn't know if there were any Gay Iranians out there!! I always thought I was the only one!! I was so wrong!! Once I met a few gay Iranians, my life totally changed. I became more self confident and my depression went away.

I really don't know why I am more attracted to men than women. It's not like I woke up one day and decided to go out with men. Believe me, I tried so hard to like women. I even asked my mom once if she knew any nice Iranian girls I could date and marry!! Thank god that never happened!! I would have ended up hurting an innocent girl and possibly destroying her life!! My life still isn't that simple. I'm sure you know that Iranian culture really pressures guys to get married. I get asked all the time from my parents friends and a few family members that don't know about me why I am not married yet. Also, as you can see right here...in the Iranian community there are still some backwards thinkers out there who judge you mainly on the fact that you are gay. It really does hurt sometimes, but I am greatfull that I have friends and family that love me.

As far as my feelings for men go....I just can't explain it. It is what it is. All I know is that I did not choose to be this way. If I knew that there was a potion I could take that would make me like women, I would take it right now. Not because I think that being gay is wrong, but because being gay is not an easy life. It's a life filled with people who hate you and judge you. No one would choose to be gay. But I am comfortable with who I am and I am proud of it. I have come to accept it and all I can hope is that people accept me.

I hope that I answered your questions...let me know if you have any more.

[Cop]

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[saba_s]

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[Anonymous]

Umm...COP, I don't know weather to be offended or flattered. First of all I don't talk like that.....I don't sound like mooshy from Italia Italia. If you met me you would never even think I'm gay. I'm as masculine as it gets. So don't make it sound like I'm a "evah khahar" please.

Second....I live on the east coast...and don't want to date anyone right now. Thanks.

[Anonymous]

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Umm...COP, I don't know weather to be offended or flattered. First of all I don't talk like that.....I don't sound like mooshy from Italia Italia. If you met me you would never even think I'm gay. I'm as masculine as it gets. So don't make it sound like I'm a "evah khahar" please.

Second....I live on the east coast...and don't want to date anyone right now. Thanks.

[ToXiC]

My mother is OK with it, and my family loves me for who I am..not for who I sleep with.

harf mizani badjoori miri too nerve adam!

Gay people momkene ke adam hayee khoobi bashan in general, but that hichi vaght make them normal nemikone!


p.s. hame inja free hastan to tell their nazar, chon farnaz inja moderatore dalil nemishe ke shut her mouth kone and hichi nage!!!

[Anonymous]

Toxic & Guest...until you have lived in my shoes you have no right to judge me or any one else for that matter. You are all entitled to your opinions, yes...we are all free. But just because you have an opinion of something, does not make it right or correct. What about the opinion of many Americans that the US gov't should just drop a nuke on Iran and get rid of all the "terrorists". Is that right?

Stop and think before you just say stuff. I don't need to read a website to find out about myself. I know who I am and that there is NOTHING wrong with me. If anything, there is something wrong with people who judge and hate others just because they are different than they are.

Toxic, you don't have to feel sorry for me. Feel sorry for yourself for being so ignorant. "kallat booyeh ghormeh sabzy meedeh". You can't believe how proud I am?? WTF is that supposed to mean? I'm proud of the fact that I am a human being who happens to be gay? I can't defend myself against all the horrible things that everyone says about gay people here? Some people think that all Iranians are terrorists, are you not proud that you are Iranian? Would you not defend yourself? Maybe you should go lock yourself in a room and hide when someone calls you a terrorist next time!! The only reason I would lock myself in a room is to get away from ignorant people such as yourself. Trust me when I tell you that your thoughts and Ideas are in the minority. I can't believe how ignorant and backwards you people are!!!

You are telling me that I should be ashamed that my family loves me for me? What kind of backwards stupid comment is that? How the hell does that comment get on your nerves? Who the hell chose you to be the person who decides what is normal? To some people YOU are not normal, your thinking is waaaaay not normal.

What do all of you people have against homosexuality? Don't just spew some ignorant remark like "It's just wrong", or "God doesn't like it". THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT IGNORANT MULLAHS SAY ABOUT OUR FREEDOMS IN IRAN!!!! Think about how pissed off all of you get when you hear some idiot mullah say that young people can't be free to express themselves...they say that "It is against the will of God". It really is a shame that young people like you think like this. You are the ones that are supposed to change the world for the better...but all you can spew is hatred an ignorance.

[Anonymous]

You know...about 50 years ago that same exact comment was used when Black people wanted to be treated equally. WHO THE HELL ARE YOU TO DECIDE WHAT IS NORMAL!!!!

There is NOTHING wrong with being gay.

There is ALOT wrong with being ignorant and hateful.

Grow up. Go and crawl back under the rock you came from.

[Nazanin]

You are the ones that are supposed to change the world for the better...but all you can spew is hatred an ignorance.

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL ToX, this is the reason why it's nothing BUT a waste of time to talk to gays.
Taraf barmigarde hamchin harfi mizane:
" Young ppl are the ones who are supposed to change the world for the better ". In other words began ke are, hamjensbaz boodan is NORMAL & there's absolutely nothing wrong w/ it... So disgustingly shameful.

[Nazanin]

You know...about 50 years ago that same exact comment was used when Black people wanted to be treated equally. WHO THE HELL ARE YOU TO DECIDE WHAT IS NORMAL!!!!

There is NOTHING wrong with being gay.

There is ALOT wrong with being ignorant and hateful.

Grow up. Go and crawl back under the rock you came from.

PROUD_GAY_PERSIAN, u've been repeating the EXACT same thing in every single one of ur posts, harfat tekrari shodan, fekr nakonam chize dige dashte bashi ezafe koni.

[Anonymous]

hey!

well people iam gay too, and thee so many other iranians are gay and hiding it.

[Anonymous]

Farnaz...umm..well...You are saying the EXACT same thing as well.

What else am I supposed to say to the Igorant remaks you make?

"Oh, farzaz...I think you are so right when you say that I am a sick person!!!"

"You are wise beyond your years!!"

What other smart and ensightful things do you have to add to the discussion except that fact that I am sick, shameful, or make fun of me?

At least I try to talk about myself and where I come from. And what do I get in return? The crap that all of you spew....

The only way to respond to idiotic remarks is to tell you what they truly are and that is IDOITIC, IGNORANT, CHILDISH, and HATEFUL!!!

[mahroz]

farnazo toxic vagan keeeee bas konid in karharo

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